My boyfriend hides the age of my ex girlfriend, why does my boyfriend always hide it from me

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You think too much, he calls her Baby Pig, and when he gets used to it, he naturally forgets it, and he is determined to forget what happened before, which is normal.

    Lovers should understand each other and wish you happiness...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Will say yes It's normal If you care about you, you'll be very tired A person who wants to go on forever with you won't lie to you Because it's not easy for 2 people to be together You think about so many people in the world Why do you go with him Right You bear with it first See if he will lie to you in the days when you get along in the future If you will, you have to think clearly !!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Maybe the landlord thinks too much, many times men don't care much about the details or forget them quickly, and now he's your boyfriend! Since he is yours, you have to have confidence in yourself, don't you have confidence for such a small thing? That's not going to work!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Panic, everyone will, but there is a reason for lying, between lovers, you understand everything, and you forgive everything. Qixi Festival, I wish the world lovers to become married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Not really.

    Maybe I just don't want to be with you.

    It always reminds you of her.

    If I tell you that it is a dog.

    Will you ever reject pigs & dogs? (*

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone should have the right to have their own privacy and concerns, so communicate with him more!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's easy to lie, but you have to use countless promises to fulfill that lie.

    Don't add to your worries.

    After all, that's in the past, after all, it's you standing by his side today.

    Be happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Nothing is afraid.

    I'm most afraid of misunderstanding. Sometimes people in love are the most misunderstood.

    He was just afraid that would happen.

    If you like him. Think he's worth trusting.

    Then you believe him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He may be afraid that he will hurt you because of some unnecessary text messages. ,.Don't overthink it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    That's because he doesn't want to hurt your self-esteem, and it's also because he loves you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    One possibility, because she doesn't really like her boyfriend, she still has feelings for you and doesn't want you to be sad because you know, and the other possibility, she is afraid that you will be angry with her current because she is looking for a boyfriend. The man is magnificent, why bother without a wife, he will be divided and start a new life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There can be a variety of possibilities for an ex-girlfriend and you to hide why she has a boyfriend, here are some possible reasons:

    1.She's not ready to share the news: maybe she's only recently started dating, or she hasn't decided if she wants to make the relationship public, so she chooses not to tell you.

    2.She doesn't want you to feel sad or jealous: If you already have feelings for her, she may not want to hurt your feelings or trigger unnecessary jealousy.

    3.She wants to keep it private: Some people may want to keep their private lives private and don't want others to know too many details. This doesn't necessarily mean that she has any particular intentions for you.

    4.She wants to keep her distance: If you've broken up and she's starting a new relationship, she may want to keep her distance from you to avoid misunderstandings or unnecessary emotional entanglements.

    5.She doesn't want you to interfere in her life: If there has been some conflict or conflict in your relationship, she may not want you to interfere in her life, including her relationship.

    Whatever the reason, the best course of action is to respect her decision and not force her to share information that she is not willing to share. If your feelings for her are ongoing, you can express your feelings to her, but also respect her decision and don't force her to make any changes.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell him clearly, talk to him well, tell him that since he is with you, stop dwelling on the past, if he continues like that, you should doubt whether he really loves you, is it worth your wait? Since he is good with you, why is he still friendly with his former girlfriend, his former girlfriend called him like this, and he was called and left immediately, how can he be this kind of person, not a good woman.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If I were to let him go, now his heart is all on that woman, your words don't seem to have any weight, instead of being angry with him, it is better to follow him, at this time, it depends on who is the most important in his heart, and at the same time prove whether the man in front of you is worthy of my love, and also leave yourself some self-esteem, isn't it good? Hope you can be happy!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When dealing with the first person who is really emotionally invested in him (her), I think it is basically as unforgettable as my first love, I don't know if the girl is the same, at least I should not forget.

    You should think more about how he usually treats you, and whether it can make you smile unconsciously? Think again, is he a man of few words (even when he's with you)?

    I think at this time, if you ask him in a commanding tone, it is better to communicate with him about each other's feelings and thoughts, so that it may be easier for you to get the answers you want to know.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Break up. He doesn't love you, and he can't ask for it. He's not a good man, and I don't think he's good enough for you anyway. What's the use of keeping it!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If he doesn't hide it from you, maybe he is afraid of a bigger misunderstanding.

    There are two possibilities!

    I may be afraid that you will misunderstand, but in fact, this is not a big deal!

    Two may really want to have another!

    That's up to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Deliberately concealing it means that he doesn't want to break up with you for the time being, or do you try to love him more than before and care about him more?

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you also think that your relationship is good, there is nothing to worry about.

    Since he doesn't tell you, then you pretend you don't know, so why bother. Now that you have said it, you should give each other a chance to listen to his explanation; It should be regarded as a chance, and it should be given to him; Of course, unless you really don't love him anymore, you can choose to break up directly.

    I don't know how he reacted after you proposed to break up.

    All I can say is: escaping is the answer that won't last forever, it's only temporary.

    Facing is the best solution.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Let him go, such a man is not worthy of your love, and in the end, it is not a girl who suffers!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I appreciate your personality, sometimes you really don't need to ask too much, as long as people have deceived once, there will be many times in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Make things clear to him, say you're angry, say you mind! Then see how he does it. If you don't say anything, but just say break up, that's stupid!

    Not only did he make a fire, but he also cheapened the woman! If that woman still doesn't give up on your boyfriend and you give up without saying anything, your boyfriend will still think you're being unreasonable! The woman seduces you again, and your boyfriend may come back to her.

    If they really don't have anything to do, and you make it clear, your boyfriend will definitely keep his distance from her for fear that you will be angry. (Actually, this is all p words, all TM broke up and contacted Mao!) Just let them cut off all contact!

    If they still break the thread, they will be dumped! Or use the cheap technique to cry, make trouble, and hang them all completely, and then you find a suitable person to dump your boyfriend!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    My thoughts are for two reasons, the first is that he hides it because he really loves you, he is afraid that he will dislike him in the future if you know it, and he is afraid of losing you because of age! The second is that he is not sincere with you at all, he is just fooling around! But I'd prefer the first case!

    Now that you've found out, why don't you just talk about it, see his attitude, and listen to what he explains! You'd better think about it yourself! We're not that man either, and we don't know why he's hiding it, it's just speculation, so you'd better ask him in person, figure things out, and then think about whether you want to stay with him!

    Finally, I wish you happiness in the future....

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe it's because he's afraid, maybe he's afraid that you'll not be with you because of your age, or people are dishonest, if they're together, they can't be hidden, and one day they will be known. In that case, you'll have to think about whether or not to be with him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Dear, is there something that has made him angry or disappointed recently?

    If not, then it is very likely that he is empathetic and does not fall in love.

    Not mentioning the breakup means that he still has intentions for you, that is, he wants to get something from you.

    You'd better check to see if he's talking to another girl.

    The question is not empathy, it's that he has no money to do the project, he owes a lot of debts, and there are accounts everywhere, and he has used hundreds of thousands of dollars on me, so I don't know what he means.

    I want to pay off your debts.

    You don't have to worry that he doesn't love you anymore, he's just too stressed and wants to pay off his debts.

    At this time, what he needs more is your silent support, accompanying, taking care of and comforting.

    When the debts are paid off, you will no longer have the financial pressure to live, and you will definitely live happily again.

    Question: I am a couple with him, not a husband and wife, he is in debt for me, this month for the mortgage quarrel, he said that I want to pay for a month, he really has no place to borrow money, what do you say I should do, we have not been in touch for two days for this matter, does he want to break up?

    At this time, you need to help him as a girlfriend.

    You are a couple, and you are the ones who will live for the rest of your life.

    He is the one who needs your help the most at this time.

    If you don't help him now, your conflict will grow.

    Question: I'm 42 years old and he's 55 years old, how long and how far do you think he and I can go?

    In that case, he just wanted to break up.

    Question: Do you think it's okay for me to break up with him, do you mean he wants to break up, as long as he doesn't regret it, I have nothing to regret, after all, he paid a lot, he bought a motorcycle with me last month, and he quarreled with me for this month's mortgage, and he didn't contact me for two days, he said that he wanted me to pay for a month by myself, and he would pay next month, he said that there was no place to borrow money, he couldn't get a loan in the bank, and his own mortgage hadn't been paid for three months, and the car loan hadn't been paid, did you say he wanted to break up?

    It's all about how you feel, if you feel that you don't feel sad in your heart after the breakup, you don't regret it, you don't feel guilty. That's okay.

    If you love him and sympathize with him, then understand him and let him understand you, and together you will face this emotional economic crisis.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Reason 1: It's really too old to talk about, and I don't want you to know.

    Reason 2: He thinks age is not an issue......

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your concerns are the real reason why he conceals his actual age!!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    The charm of a man lies on the inside, not in age, and there is no problem with the age difference of 20 years.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I had the same situation as you, he said he was 28, but in fact he was in his thirties.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's like having a fetus now, sleeping with multiple men, lying to your husband and saying that you have talked about it once, and you have done it once with your ex. The purpose is to prevent rejection.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Alas, you are all like this, what else can you do. However, there is one thing you have forgotten, that is, my country's ** department is not wrong at all. They may also have made a mistake in registering their age, or they may have changed their ID age in the past.

    It's like being a soldier or something. This is not unusual. Don't get too careful.

    Just make it clear. If it really lied to you, then you verified that there was anything else that lied to you besides this, if it was very much, then it was considering, if not, just stay with him. It's not a big deal after all.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you have true love, don't think too much, age is a bit of a problem, you weigh it, after all, women are not physiologically good than men. It's best to be about 5 years younger than a man, but love can change everything.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Does age matter? How many sibling loves? He lied to you about this thing. But if you ask him, he'll say it's for the sake of pursuing you. Pointless.

    The point is that he is good to you. Wait until he himself admits his mistake. After all, they have been together for so long. You are reluctant and will not be separated for this matter. But remember to tell him that he will not lie to you in the future.

    And I personally think that most men who are the same age or younger than themselves are immature.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Tired of all this and love each other.

    Why bother?

    Waiting for you to register.

    Take something and see how he explains it.

    Maybe it's a mistake with the hukou or something.

    Don't think about it. have already talked about marriage.

    It's not very serious, forget it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    What is 3 years???

    Is. He knew that you minded, so he didn't mean to lie to you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If you really love each other, age is not a problem. As long as it's good for you, what do you care about?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Maybe it's a well-intentioned concealment, maybe.

    I think you should sit down with your boyfriend and have a good talk, communicate with each other, tell him what you think, you can tell him that he is a woman's intuition or directly say that he stumbled upon his privacy, but after all, he concealed it first, and it is better to put any ideas on the face, if he continues to conceal it, you will never be able to get rid of this shadow, and you will be more suspicious of any strange behavior he has in the future, and you will think of today's scene, so it is better to let both parties have a clear eye, at least their own conscience.

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