What price have you ever paid for a long distance relationship?

Just for him to say "I'm looking forward to seeing you", I started the first time I grew up to go out alone with a bag, separated by 1000 kilometers, I only had 500 yuan to go out, because I really didn't have any money, in order to save money in order not to add a financial burden to him (because I know he also has no money), I boldly tried to carpool with a stranger for the first time, just to save road expenses, but unfortunately I walked half of the way I knew what it was called sinister, I almost lost my life, Because I had a heart attack, I had a heart attack that night, and the stranger also had a conscience, so he didn't continue to force me and take me to the hospital for an examination, because it was in a small county, and the medical level was not as good as in a big city, and the doctor only told me to calm myself, I was so scared, I didn't dare to go back to the hotel, I stayed at the door of the emergency room alone, holding my body with my arms on the steps, and cried a lot, and then I called everyone to borrow money (except for my family) The money will not arrive until tomorrow, I really had no choice, I called him ** to tell him everything I was doing, and he immediately transferred money to me and said that he would pick me up tomorrow ,......I really love him, maybe in his eyes I'm so impulsive and naïve, immature thinking, but he doesn't know that this impulse is naïve, immature thinking, and will never show it in the second person, life has to have a journey of ignoring it, just go and bravely chase love, despite all this, fear, fear, trembling, incredible things, people and pictures, I still don't regret it, now his ** is turned off, I think I already know the ending.

I once just discharged from the army in order to have a future with her, I accompanied her to the city of her university, every day I got up early and returned late, tired but happy, but I have no studies, no technology, no qualifications, the monthly turnover is negative growth, and finally the discharge fee is spent, the savings on my body are not, I returned to my hometown, and she has a long-distance relationship, every day the long-distance relationship is very much I miss her and I want to go back to her, but I have my parents, I can't help it, my parents are old, I haven't been with my family for a long time when I was a soldier, I can't let go of both sides, In the end, I broke up in a long-distance relationship for half a year, and now I have broken up for three months, but I still miss her, I forgot to say, she is my first love, the first time I learned to cook, the first time I washed a girl's feet, all the first time I gave her, she has a lot of exes, but I think I am different from them, until she broke up for three days and she had a new love, I found out that it has always been what I wanted. My friend scolded me for raising a Buddha at the beginning, for him to stay away from more than 1,700 kilometers, and I had to cook and wash her feet when I went home at night when I went to work alone, but I didn't regret it, because I was really happy at that time, and she also taught me a truth, I won't love someone so much in the future, love myself.

In order to find her, to be with her, to have a falling out with her parents, and almost broke away from the mother-son relationship. Later, my parents couldn't control it and left it alone, but now it's worth thinking about it, because she really loves me.

In order to understand the pain of lovesickness, she often skips school and goes to her city to find her, at the cost of having no money to eat and not knowing anything about exams. But the heart is still sweet.

It may be that they don't want to let go of each other's hands no matter how noisy they are in a different place, and it may be that they have accumulated half a semester's living expenses and spent them on railways and hotels.

I finally got on the right track, gave up the opportunity to go to a listed company, chose the city closest to you, worked hard, stayed up late for half a year, and I wanted you to come when I was accompanied by smoke and coffee, so I didn't have to be so tired. Even after planning for the future, one of your lipsticks was broken, I went to your city to buy it for you, and I bought snacks before leaving. I wanted to stay with you, but you misunderstood me and asked me to go back to work the next day.

But you may not know, once a day and night I didn't close my eyes, I didn't drink a sip of water and eat a mouthful of food. When I came back by high-speed train, I cried while eating takeout. Today is the 187th day of the breakup, looking at your WeChat avatar smiling so brightly in a wedding photo, I wish you happiness.

From every night at the beginning, I have not taken the initiative to contact me for half a month. I complained that if you didn't love me, you would let me go. He wouldn't let go, and asked me not to give up on him, he was too busy now, and said to give him another year.

He used to work very leisurely, working six or seven hours a day, with two days off, and could accompany me every day. Now I start my own business, and I always socialize until the early hours of the morning. I can understand that he is busy with work, and I can accept that I don't have as much contact as I used to.

But I can't understand that I don't contact him, and he won't take the initiative to contact me for half a month. I am from the south, he is from the north, separated by more than 1,300 kilometers, and I rarely see each other. I just want to say that long-distance relationships, don't hit **, don't send WeChat, don't meet, what to use to maintain a relationship, what is the difference between this and strangers.

In the past six months or so, I have taken the initiative to contact him every time, and once I endured not contacting him for 20 days, and he never contacted me. After a long time, I felt that he didn't pay enough attention to me, and I was really a little tired. Now that I haven't been in touch for another week, I'm not going to take the initiative anymore.

Running between the two cities, I was on a single holiday, I got off work on Saturday to rush to her city, and then rushed back from her city on Sunday afternoon, very tired, but as long as I could see her, no matter how tired it was, it was worth it.

I don't know if it's worth it to give up a suitor who is much better than him, but I'll keep going.

He told me that his grandfather had cancer and wanted to see me, and then I flew more than 2,000 kilometers to deceive me, which was the first time I had traveled so far and I was not familiar with life. The price is, after meeting his grandfather, by the way, he met his grandmother, father, mother, aunt, aunt, aunt, cousin. And then ......His grandfather passed away, and my name was engraved on the tombstone...

will carefully plan for each encounter, understand the weather at the destination in advance, remind him what clothes to take, and remind him to drink more water and sleep and cover his clothes on the two trains that are getting closer; In order to surprise him on his birthday, he chose everything, and even prayed that there would be no mistakes during the transportation and that it would be delivered to him on time.

In order to be with her, I gave up the opportunity to go to a big city for development after graduation, and decisively came to her city, at least two people can be less hard.

didn't pay any price, just lost someone I liked before, and the ability to fall in love with someone else.

Very tired, but very happy, so aggrieved that he wanted to cry he didn't know, he obviously thought he was going crazy, and his studies had also declined because of this, but he still insisted on this state.

The university began a long-distance relationship, the distance between the two cities is more than 100 kilometers, and they can usually meet on weekends, and they feel very deep about getting together and parting. When I worked, the distance between the two cities was nearly 300 kilometers, and the meeting became once a month or two, and I survived the hardships of lovesickness, and after two and a half years, I was transferred to her city to work, which was more than 100 kilometers away, and basically met every week. We got married two years later.

Two years later, she was transferred to work in the city, and we are both public institutions, and the work place is less than 3 kilometers away. I live happily ......This hard-won love, I will only cherish it more!

Resigned from the distant South Africa, was deducted tens of thousands of liquidated damages, resolutely with her in Hangzhou, refused some friends' job invitations, and found a job in Hangzhou is not ideal, want to grab the house price to continue to buy a house, but she wants to add her name to the unmarried real estate certificate (and don't want to pay a penny), and then because of her love to compromise, unexpectedly changed, her name was not added. In the end, they broke up because of the contradictions, the housing prices in Hangzhou were too high, and they couldn't afford to be trapped by the monthly payment.

I've only met 5 times in a long-distance relationship in half a year, and every time we meet, I feel strange, and sometimes I don't even remember his face. It's strange to say that many inconsequential people around me can appear in my dreams, but that person has never appeared in my dreams for half a year, even though I miss him very much every day. In a moment of happiness, depression, and sadness, I wanted him to appear in front of me, but he was not there.

No matter how happy a moment is, it will be more sad because there is no one to share. Although ** can shorten the distance, what people really need is what they can see and touch, and that is the truth. Long-distance relationships should end.

In a long-distance relationship for three years, we have laughed and cried together, quarreled, broken up, and got back together. In the end, I lost to reality, and I was completely scarred after losing. But I still love her, and I have no regrets about everything I have done.

I paid my first love, since I can't do it from the beginning, why do you want to provoke me, I can't stand the cold violence, I can't stand the fact that I can't talk a few words a day without seeing each other for half a year, if I don't even have the most basic communication in a long-distance relationship, then letting go is the best choice.

just ended a two-year long-distance relationship, which finally ended in failure. At that time, he was still in the army, and we belonged to the military love, he would insist on sending me messages every day, calling me whenever he had the right time and place, and always being by my side and comforting me when I was most afraid of being alone. I wrote love letters to him, so that when he was discharged from the army and had more opportunities to meet other girls, when he wanted to end the relationship, look at our vows, our promises, and don't give up easily.

A year after he was discharged from the military, we broke up. Break up peacefully. In fact, it's ridiculous and ridiculous, this life is destined to only get along as junior high school classmates, goodbye or not, they are all passers-by, it's been almost two months since the breakup, he refuses everything I want to keep, maybe he's doing well now, he already has a new girlfriend, I also have to find myself again, start a new life, and accept a new relationship.

To love him is not to disturb his life and not to cause him troubles.

The first time I took the high-speed train to see him, I waited for more than two hours at the agreed place, the first time I stayed in a hotel with a boy, I couldn't sleep, he slept in seconds, and when he came back, he only had more than 200 living expenses left, and he didn't dare to ask his parents for money again, and he spent more time playing with his mobile phone than talking to me after meeting. He broke up half a month after I went back, and today is the sixth day of the breakup. Even if he hates me, I can't let go of him, maybe I love me who loved him at that time...Silly, I used to think this kind of girl was too stupid.

The next day, I saw him and couldn't sleep the next night, and the next day, when I saw him, I ran over and hugged him!

gave up the worry-free life provided by his parents, gave up his job, shared a two-bedroom apartment with him and others, and set up a stall.

It's just a happy ending, he quit a very good job for me and returned to his hometown, and the child is two and a half years old.

For her, I gave up everything, my brothers and family around me. also betrayed the whole world for her,

Bless all those who still believe in love, and lovers will eventually become married.

It was at that moment that I suddenly felt the helplessness of a long-distance relationship.

Because of the long-term long distance, far apart, that is, once a month or two, the last time we met was more than half a month ago, when he said that the leader gave him a special grant of a week's vacation, and also reimbursed the round-trip air ticket, so that he would soon come back to reunite. The regiment fights.

But when he returned to work, there was a small conflict with his superiors due to work reasons, which led to the fact that the ticket fee leave note was not signed, so that even if the leader did not approve, the unit would deduct the salary according to the leave, which was originally a special industry, and there was no talk about socks in January and had a day off, except for shifts.

The normal salary is about 9,000, which is 300 days, and the seven-day holiday will cost more than 2,000 according to the salary deduction standard, and the round-trip air ticket will be more than 1,000. Collapse Xiang may also deduct part of the bonus, which alone is the monthly salary of ordinary people. There are still some expenses to spend on the back.

After calculating a long-distance relationship, it costs four or five thousand just to meet once.

If I want to go over to see him, the three things of food, housing and travel are already two thousand foundations, not counting some of the orders and profits I missed on vacation.

In other words, if the two of us want to meet, we will have to pay at least 3,000. But we're just ordinary people, and we can't afford to see each other once a month.

This can't help but make me feel that poor couples mourn everything, and when they simply talk about their feelings, they say that they will meet no matter how far they want to meet, but at that moment, a large amount of money instantly broke that vision. It became, just talking.

He won't take the initiative to meet and buy a plane ticket, and I won't secretly buy a ticket anymore. Because it's all clear that it's more than the bill.

Half a year in love, meet three times. I don't know if this is the norm for most long-distance relationships, and I don't know what is the most important core factor that supports this relationship, is it love? Is it enough to just love each other?

A long-distance relationship is definitely the most expensive and energetic, and the precious time that is paid.

A long-distance relationship pays the time to make friends and get along with your family, the long-distance relationship can be seen but not touched, what he gives you the most is to have a good rest, go to bed early, drink more hot water, and pay attention to your body. A long-distance relationship will magnify your impatience, anxiety, and sensitivity infinitely. So, don't be in a different place easily, this process is sad that we can't imagine.