In your opinion, what is the most painful thing about a long distance relationship?

Updated on society 2024-03-24
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I felt safe, and I felt like the trust between me and my boyfriend was running out. I can't see her every day, and as long as I don't receive his message, I will be suspicious, but I can't do anything about it, I can only struggle in pain. I don't know how long this kind of relationship can last.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Everyone says I have a boyfriend, but I still live alone like when I was single, but I can't have a good relationship with the opposite sex like I am single. Talking about a long-distance relationship is the same as online dating, which is equivalent to having a mobile phone pet and having a boyfriend, it is better not to have it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Missing is the most painful, especially when you are sick or have a bad time at work and you can't find someone to talk to.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He wasn't there when he was sad and sad, he wasn't there when he was sick and went to the hospital, and he wasn't there when he was happy and successful.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The most painful thing in a different place is that there is a problem that cannot be dealt with in time, which leads to the deepening of the conflict and endangers the relationship.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's painful right now, boyfriend playing with friends. As soon as he is free, he will ask my consent, but is there any reason for me to refuse? He said that he finally rested, and he wanted to get together.

    And we are in a different place, and it feels like I have to wait every time. I didn't want to bring it up directly, because I was afraid that he would be unhappy and alienate from my friends. Our commute times are not the same, sometimes we may not bump into each other, my working hours are relatively normal, he is in three shifts. Helpless.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I know that this relationship is far away, but I still work very hard to hold on. That kind of entanglement and struggle is only understood by me. It feels like he's like no one, still eating, drinking, and having fun, and he doesn't feel the return of his feelings at all.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In my opinion, the most painful thing about long-distance relationships should be that there is less and less communication between us. From the beginning of the talk, to the present there is no topic. Saying one thing will soon be a topic of closure.

    Sometimes it's very negative, I don't know if it's wrong, I look at the previous chat history, I feel that it's all topics, and now, there's nothing. I don't know what the reason is.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The most painful thing is when you are sick and there is no one you love by your side. All I received was the concern and greetings on the text message. I don't feel the energy that text messages bring me, it's just more and more perfunctory. Long-distance relationships are really bitter.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It was very painful for me to be very distressed by her various sweet entanglements at the beginning and then to ignore me later. It's all sad, a person who doesn't love you, no matter how hard you work, it's useless.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Pain cannot be fully expressed in the emotion.

    To fall in love is to be in love and love. Of these, love is the most important.

    The best way to express love for someone is to show it by their side. This kind of performance may be you and me, or it may be an inseparable, even if it is a quarrel, you will find that it is faster to recover than to be separated from each other.

    Because the other party can directly or indirectly feel your love and feel the transmission of your emotions.

    Lovers can't feel your real joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and can't feel the slightest change in your emotions. It's okay once, it's acceptable twice, but there are too many times, and your emotions for each other can't be fully conveyed to each other, so how can it not be painful?

    Some people may say that even this has been very good between us! Yes, there are many couples who can overcome a lot of problems. But the point here is not whether it can go on, but what is the most painful thing about a long-distance relationship.

    And this is also the fundamental reason why so many long-distance couples don't know what the root cause of each other's quarrels is, and why the other party is not even willing to share their emotions with you over time. Sharing, but can't fully feel the other person's emotions, how can the desire to share not be wiped out?

    Long-distance relationships are painful, difficult, and hopeful at the same time. In any case, if you are in a different place, please use the most suitable method for you to convey and express your truest feelings. Don't just be cold and violent to the emotions given by the other person, even if you are unhappy because of other important things at this time.

    There are many ways to express and transmit love, and there are many ways to have a long-distance relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    In fact, long-distance relationships are not as difficult as we think. If it's hard, it's important to trust each other. If you don't trust the other party, the problems caused are to be expected; Getting to know each other and understanding each other's lives is especially important and difficult to achieve.

    If only one party gives and pursues a relationship, and the other party just blindly maintains, it can eventually lead to all kinds of problems. So solve the problem effectively and avoid unnecessary problems. Occasionally it may be necessary to explain the other person blindly, and sometimes a little thing may lead to a quarrel, but it is a must.

    It is not for nothing that distance produces beauty.

    It's painful in a different place, but it's actually better. If two people live in different places, they can effectively understand and understand each other. Such a distance will make love better and more perfect, so that each other knows how to cherish each other.

    Good luck to us! We haven't seen each other for a long time, and there is no common topic in **. Because of the stress of work, it is normal for most long-distance couples not to see each other for months.

    When I first started, I would play ** every day, caring about how the other person was, what they ate, whether they were tired or not, and what they were doing. However, after a long time, these greetings became unremarkable, and even felt that there was nothing to talk about. The other party was not only perfunctory, but even he himself felt that it was silly and naïve to ask these topics.

    The people who knew each other best in the past were a little light, and they couldn't even find common topics. They don't know whether to let go or continue. Buying small gifts online has become the biggest and most authentic romantic relationship between each other.

    It's bitter. You can't hold each other's hands or kiss each other's lips, so it's not romantic at all. In addition to online chatting and ** chatting, this relationship really can't find a foothold.

    Others can accompany each other to eat, go shopping and watch movies on Tanabata, while the Tanabata of a long-distance relationship can only be covered by infinite emptiness. I hope that on a certain festival, you can receive the other party's express delivery and feel a faint but real romance. You can't see how big each other's world is.

    You wait in place like a fool.

    Love-hate lovers "waiting". Waiting for love can buy a good marriage. You can't see how long the road ahead is and how little hope there is.

    You are in the south, ta in the north. What is the other person's world like? Did you meet someone more suitable there?

    Everyone else is talking about getting married, but you're making no progress. If you compare the progress of other relationships with rockets, then a long-distance relationship is a snail. It's time to meet your parents.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Very painful. Because long-distance relationships have distance restrictions, I miss them day and night, but I can't see each other, so it's very painful.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Definitely painful. A month together coincides with the period of love. During the love period, it is painful not to see each other's thoughts and thoughts, but for special reasons, it is necessary to be tolerant and understanding of each other.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It is very painful, and the relationship between two people is very deep, but there is no way to meet, and there is no way to confide in each other when encountering things, which will lead to many problems between two people.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Two people have been in a state of not being able to see each other for a long time, and when they have something, the other party can only comfort themselves through their mobile phones, and they can't be by their side, so it will be particularly painful, and there will often be a situation where they can't hold on.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Usually long-distance relationship refers to the process of a man and a woman falling in love for the purpose of marriage. Because they live separately in two places, they often break up before they get married.

    It goes without saying that long-distance relationships are very painful. But why is it so painful that anyone insists on doing it or going on? Because a long-distance relationship is very painful, but if you persevere, the results are quite bright.

    But the problem is that many long-distance relationships die halfway through.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is very painful, and the two people are very entangled and confused, and they have no confidence in the future of the two people.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A long-distance relationship is a special kind of emotional relationship, and although it has a pleasant time, it also has emotional and intellectual challenges.

    Its pain is mainly in the following aspects:

    1.Time differences and communication issues: Due to jet lag, communication and contact with each other is not a daily routine, such as one person who is busy at work during the day and the other person has begun to fall asleep, which can lead to less contact with each other.

    2.Lack of companionship and support: People in long-distance relationships are separated for long periods of time and are unable to experience each other's support and companionship, which can sometimes be more difficult to bear under the causes and stress.

    3.Lack of a healthy sex life: As the separation time of Jianzi Lu increases, even if there is a struggle with each other, it is inevitable that they want to have more intimate contact and intimate feelings with each other, and this desire will gradually increase.

    4.Insecurity and suspicion: In a long-distance relationship, trust and security related to some emotional or psychological issues will also be tested because they can't get together often, can't directly feel each other's emotional expressions, and don't understand each other's living conditions.

    In summary, the pain of long-distance relationships mainly stems from separation, time differences, lack of support and companionship, lack of healthy sex sheds, and how to address security and trust issues. Fortunately, with some methods to alleviate these issues, long-distance relationships are no longer as lonely and sad as they traditionally are.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The pain of a long-distance relationship is that both parties are unable to stay together regularly and have to maintain the relationship through electronic communication, which can lead to a host of problems and challenges. Here are the pain points of long-distance relationships:

    1.Cooling emotions.

    Witnessing the blooming love cools over time and distance, and the relationship between the two pales in comparison. Even the people you love the most, when you haven't been together for a long time, love is prone to lose its passion and feelings, and eventually becomes pale and bland. This is arguably one of the most important issues facing long-distance relationships.

    2.Lack of physical contact before the shirt.

    There is no substitute for the physical contact that humans must engage in in in intimate relationships, such as hugging, kissing and hugging. However, in a long-distance relationship, it can be painful and unsettling to meet each other's warmth and affection due to the inability to have physical contact and enjoyment.

    3.The time difference makes communication difficult.

    When you are in a long-distance relationship, you need to face some communication difficulties, such as different time zones, busy work and life, etc., which will make your contact sometimes limited to ** or online text messages. The time difference does not allow you to do various activities at the same time, and when one person is excited or lost, but cannot find the other person to communicate, it will feel lonely and uncomfortable.

    4.Sensitive and inadequate trust.

    When two people are sometimes unable to communicate directly with each other, there is a lot of speculation and doubt, which can lead to emotional imbalances and misunderstandings. At this time, the two need to establish stronger mutual trust to avoid small things becoming big things and affecting the stability of the relationship.

    5.Lack of support at all times.

    Both parties may be busy with work and study during the day, but have no time to communicate with each other at night. In this case, when you feel tired, restless, or lonely, and you can't get immediate support from others, you feel extremely lonely and miserable.

    In conclusion, in a long-distance relationship, it can lead to a variety of different pains and dilemmas due to reasons such as jet lag, lack of physical contact, and lack of trust. Only by facing these problems effectively, maintaining communication and trust, and constantly strengthening the emotional ties between each other, can we overcome the pain of long-distance relationships and maintain and develop long-distance relationships.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    As a college student who is experiencing a long-distance relationship, the pain of a long-distance relationship that I am experiencing is as follows:

    First of all, the pain of lovesickness, due to the long distance of long-distance relationships, there is no way to see each other in time, and if you don't see each other for a long time, your thoughts will become deeper and deeper;

    The second is the pain of panic and anxiety, living in two places, not knowing what the other party is doing, not knowing whether the other party's living habits have changed, and the knowledge of the two people's majors is also different, resulting in fewer topics for two people to ......

    <> the fourth is the pain of envy, everyone should know that there are many college couples, when you walk out of the library at ten o'clock, everyone else has a boyfriend to pick you up, only you go back to the dormitory alone, at that time the feeling is very uncomfortable; Not to mention seeing it after a quarrel;

    The fifth is the pain of funds, every time we meet on holidays, the round-trip tickets are really expensive, and it is really not easy for college students who eat soil;

    At present, I can only think of this potato by hand! But in front of two people who love each other, I don't think these things are a thing, one day the distance will end, and the two will always be together! Finally, I wish everyone in the world a lover who will eventually become a family!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The pain of a long-distance relationship lies in the following aspects:

    1.The pain of longing: When two people are not in the same city or country, it is inevitable that they will feel the pain of longing, and they will not be able to have intimate contact, dialogue, and share life experience, which is a torture for the relationship.

    2.Suffering from time differences: Due to the time zone difference in your country or region, two people may not be able to talk or meet at the same time for a considerable period of time, and you need to coordinate your schedule.

    3.The pain of communication: Words that do not make sense but have their own understanding" do not apply to long-distance relationships. Lack of face-to-face interaction, differences in cultural backgrounds, language and network technology limitations, will affect the communication between the two.

    4.Doubts and disappointments: Because they are not around, they cannot truly understand the other person's life and physical and mental state. Even small things can cause some misunderstandings, doubts, or disappointments.

    5.Security risks: When you are away for a long time, it is difficult to ensure the safety of the other party, including physical health, financial security, etc.

    While long-distance relationships can be challenging, it's possible to be happy if both partners are genuinely engaged and try to stay connected, understand and support each other.

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