Ask those who have lived smoothly and happily since childhood how it is now

Everyone has disasters, but they are different, only they understand the situation of their own things, and others can only express some opinions from superficial things. I also have the same kind of inferiority complex as you, or I am not guilty. I have a friend who said well, "In fact, you are the best, but you set your own standards too high, don't always look at the advantages of others, only look at your own shortcomings, look at people who are not better than you, you will know that everyone is the same."

Everyone's heart is kind, but after a long time in society, they will be infected by it. When you look at the excitement of others, think about what kind of mood you feel when you are seen by others, others are good is the ability of others, we can only improve our ability to be better than others, if you have this kind of heart for a long time, it is jealousy and envy of others. I used to have this kind of mentality, and now it's less than before, I hope you can get rid of it sooner, otherwise it will affect your mood.

Everyone is selfish, just big and small. In my opinion, people only need to do "the heart of harming others, and the heart of preventing others". Don't be too demanding of yourself, otherwise you will be in a bad mood easily.

Hope it helps.

Since childhood, I have lived a very smooth and happy life.

It's not because the family conditions are good.

It's that they have parents who are good at teaching their children.

Cultivate them to have good qualities and a good attitude.

Life is a state of mind.

There was an old lady who had two daughters."

The eldest daughter is married to the one who bought the umbrella".

The second daughter is married to a man who buys cloth shoes".

It's raining, and the old lady is worried that her second daughter's business will be bad."

If it doesn't rain, the old lady is worried that her eldest daughter's business will be bad."

Some people say: Why don't you think the other way around, your eldest daughter's business is good on a rainy day, and your second daughter's business is prosperous if it doesn't rain, so what else is there to worry about?"

So the old lady had no worries and only happiness left!!

Landlord, when I graduated from college and couldn't find a good job, I also asked myself a lot Why doesn't it mean that you can find a good job if you have a high education, doesn't it mean that you can live a better life that way? Why not? So where is our way out?

How do I go down this path? Can anyone tell me? No one can tell me So let's go on the path of exploration and find the answers in practice

My point of view is that memories are the happiest, and now, we all feel the happiest when we were young, carefree, playing crazy outside with our friends every day, going up the mountain to chop wood, going down to the river to fish, catching birds, catching small fish, or having a beautiful time with childhood sweethearts, etc., the aftertaste is very sweet. Everyone has a playmate when they are young, and when I was a child, I was a little yellow dog, who grew up with me, rolled the grass, and followed me every day. Later, because I had to study, the family sold the dog, and now I don't have such a playmate, so the memories of having my best friend when I was a child are the happiest for me.

However, this is not set in stone. Maybe it's the same for you and me. When I was in elementary school, I wanted to enter junior high school early, junior high school missed elementary school, high school missed junior high school, and so on.

Therefore, what we really miss and think that the happy times are not when we were children. It's memories. Now what we miss is the freedom we had as children.

In the future, what we miss is the sweetness of the first contact with love now. In the future, we miss the work that is motivated. On the other hand, now we miss our youth, we miss our youth in the future, and then we miss life.

Think about it carefully, you still have to cherish your current life, don't let you complain that you are now in the blessing and do not know the blessing, cherish the present, cherish everyone who is by your side now, maybe, he or she will become your unforgettable person in the future, maybe he or she will achieve your life in a certain moment. If you are a student, cherish yourself and still be able to study, if you are a teacher, cherish yourself and teach and educate people, if you are a CEO, cherish your family now to let your family have no worries about food and clothing, remember the meeting and love the present! Don't let the warmth of memories eat away at your ambitions.

Of course, I was happier when I was a child, after all, I was carefree when I was a child, I was still the youngest in the family, and the family loved me very much, and now I am studying in other places, and I need to do everything independently.

I think now sensible when I was happy when I was a child, I had a loving mother when I was a child, everyone has memories of childhood feelings, from childhood to adulthood, our mother loves her children, every time I remember my mother once and again I feel tears, just take a few times to remember the past and still cry, for example, once a neighbor's child bought a lot of delicious food on the street, I watched him eat by the Pang side, my mother saw and took my hand and we went home and my mother made you something to eat, at that time the family was really poor and didn't have the money to buy, When I got home, I burned a bowl of soybeans and wept while burning the fire. At that time, my mother was sad from the bottom of my heart, but now that I have grown up, my living conditions are better, but my mother is gone, and I don't feel the happy life now, so for me, I am not as happy as when I was a child.

Different angles of standing will lead to different moods and different answers. If I had known my current life when I was a child, I would have felt good now. Because the conditions were not good when I was a child, there was nothing to play, nothing to eat, I lived in a bungalow, and there were no entertainment activities, so I played marbles, kicked a shuttlecock, and jumped a rubber band.

Looking at the current childhood, I feel that it is good to be a child. Although food, clothing, housing and transportation are not as good as now. But at that time, it was simple, easy to satisfy, and people were kind.

Nowadays, film and television, mobile phones, computers, all kinds of entertainment activities, only what you can't think of, nothing you can't eat, nothing you can't play, even so, people often feel bored, boring, and the soul is very empty. People are also intrigued, and the whole heart is tired. Anyway, live your life now, take it one step at a time, be content and happy, and learn to live in the moment.

Bless you all.

Naturally, when I was a child, I felt that the day passed very slowly, and I could do many things every day, but now the day is basically passed in the blink of an eye, except for work is rest, leaving only fragments of time for myself. Of course, most of the happiness when I was a child was because I was young and ignorant, and I didn't have to worry too much about the interests of making friends based on likes and dislikes, and the burden of life was not pressed on me. As long as you maintain a good attitude, you can be very happy both when you are a child and when you grow up.

In fact, this depends on the environment you are in, and the final result is different depending on the mentality. When we were young, because the living environment at that time was not very good, and the family was relatively poor at that time, so at that time, my father went out to work and came back to bring toys, food that was not available at home, etc., and we would be very happy. For example, at that time, we could only eat a meal of dumplings with white bread during the Chinese New Year, and we were very happy.

Another example is to make an ice car with my father in the winter, and then go to the ice car together, and then I am very happy. And now that we have grown up, our sense of happiness has also changed, such as the current living environment, which is getting better and better, it is more convenient to travel, and we can do what we like, and we will be very happy with the people we like. However, we do not have much happiness now, compared to when we were children.

I suddenly remembered a sentence: When I was a child, happiness was a simple thing, and when I grew up, simplicity was a happy thing.

When I was a child, I was simple, and I dared to love and hate. I don't know the pressure of life, and I don't understand firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. It is easy to be satisfied, and I feel that the world is kind and everyone is beautiful.

You can cry and laugh out loud, and you won't think that your parents will grow old, and the dearest and most loved people around you will eventually leave you in various forms. Although the life is not bad now, and the family is still healthy, but it is not as energetic as before. When we grow up, so do they.

When I grew up, I gradually understood that life was like this, and it was not as good as things. The warmth and coldness of human feelings always have to make you feel profound, and parting is always unexpected, time makes you slowly understand that some things always have to be carried by yourself, and your heart is getting stronger and stronger, but it is also becoming more and more fragile. can withstand the grinding of life, but it can't withstand the pain of parting.

Now the feelings are no longer pure, and people always seem to be together because of interests. Those warm times at that time, after the past, really won't come back.

When I was a child, it was more than 30 years ago, although I had the care and care of my parents, the play of my brothers and sisters next door, and the worry-free growth and happiness of my classmates on campus, but the material life was poor, because all life must depend on the income of others, I personally think that happiness is not happiness in life. Today, in the age of the Internet, the material life of the people has been greatly improved, and poverty has left me through personal efforts, and has entered the stage of eating well, dressing well, living well, and walking well. Socializing, traveling, and entertainment have become my higher spiritual pursuits, so I feel that my life is happy now.

Although I think the memories are the happiest, but I'm also quite happy now, when I was a child, I had the troubles of childhood, and now I think about it carefully, in fact, I have always been quite happy, but I don't know how to cherish it when I was a child, and I always look forward to growing up a little more, but what if I really grow up? Either looking forward to growing up a little more, or suddenly looking back and nostalgic for the past. Life is only a few decades, cherish the present, cherish everyone around you, and live a good life in the present is the happiest thing.

When I was a child, I was carefree and patronized and played, and I was very happy. Although there is pressure now, it is a different kind of happiness that my family is always by my side when I encounter difficulties.