Relationship problems. 2 women I really don t know how to choose

Marriage is a big event, you can't play with it, choose one that fits, is what you really like, love her, and this kind of love is not the kind with sympathy, if you love with compassion, even if you get married, you will be unhappy, don't be afraid of hurting which one, you will hurt them more if you drag it out for a long time, and men can't procrastinate.

No emotion is also together.。。 People are lonely nowadays and can do anything.

But the key is not to see who loves you, nor is it convenient to look there, but who you love.

Which do you prefer? Love is not accustomed to it, do you want to be with your hometown or with the present, if there are no geographical conditions, who will you choose? You can only choose one.

If you choose well, then I tell you, you love her, and you will be with her for the rest of your life.

Choose the current one, then tell the girl in her hometown to find a good man and marry quickly.

If you love the one in your hometown, then you go home and get married, yes, your career is very important, but is going home and getting married the same as going home to develop? You can still come out to develop and raise children when you are married, as long as you love her, you have a home in your heart, no matter how far away. The best thing is to take her out to work.,Then it's over.。。

Unless, you don't choose either, you don't actually love them, it's just an objective factor to meet your psychological needs.

If you don't want anyone, you want a career! Look at your narrative, you don't like either, then don't delay anyone!

Then choose your career, if you have a good career and money, do you care if you don't have a woman!

If you don't want to go home, just make it clear to the girl at home that you let others wait for you in vain and delay other people's youth.

You know that it won't last long after marrying a woman for 2 years, and you should make it clear to others to break up early, so as not to let others waste time on you!

Look at who your wife and that woman love you more.

Oh, I guess neither of these girls wants to choose you.

Then you are very attentive, I think it is better to choose a girlfriend, because after all, you are boyfriend and girlfriend, and you have feelings. That girl you just met, maybe it was just an impulse, and you may regret it later, so let's catch the person in front of you.

Do you think you can give your current girlfriend what he or his family wants? If you can't, choose the girl introduced by your family! As for feelings, they can be cultivated slowly, and marriage is born of love, but it is higher than love!

Sometimes it's not necessarily the person you love now who can live with you for the rest of your life!

Choose your current girlfriend.

Money can be earned slowly.

But you're getting along with your girlfriend now.

Don't be negative to others.

Some people really can't afford to hurt.

Unless you've dealt with your girlfriend first.

It's good to go on a blind date again.

God, you're too selfish, that's right, you have the right to choose, others have it, you don't really like them at all, that's not love, maybe that's the trend of marriage, but, the premise is, if you don't have love, then you can't choose at all.

Reliable. Love can't be eaten.

I don't think you can force the relationship you love, and I don't think either of them are for you, and there will be better women waiting for you to discover in the future, not in the same tree, marriage and love are not the same.

Based on the situation you described, I personally don't think either man is suitable for you. It's true. Because you have been in a relationship with two men separately, but you have this or that different troubles, which makes people have a headache, since this already means that neither of them is suitable for you, do you want to choose one of them to marry, and let one of the troubles accompany you in your married life?

In that case, the marriage will not last. I think it is the best choice to be decisive in the relationship with two men and start a new life. You may feel that you are not too young and it is a little late to start a new relationship, but I think even if it is later, it is much better than entering a marriage in a daze and then being unhappy.

Sooner or later, happiness is the key. Age is not a problem at all, besides, at your age, there are many single girls and boys, and the sky outside is so wide, you should go out and not be trapped in these two men and can't pull out. Besides, according to what you wrote, these two men are not suitable for you to marry at all.

I think that's what you think in your own heart, but you just can't face the reality all the time. Let go of the past and start a new life, and you will find that the relationship is actually very beautiful, and you shouldn't have so many troubles.

Say a solution that most people won't approve of, don't choose either of them, go find the man you really want.

It's obvious that you're a girl with pursuits, and neither boy can meet your ideals, so there's only two ways:

1. Tolerate and accept one of them, it doesn't matter who it is, because there is no right answer to the choice in front of you, and the future is unknown, so whoever you choose may regret it.

Second, don't want both, but let go of everything, you are a woman, as long as you look good, can't you find a man? The annual age is not too big, not all college graduates are 24, and graduate students are. Re-search, good men have.

I don't know if you've ever heard such a story.

There was a rich man and a poor man who fell in love with a beautiful girl at the same time. The girl's parents let the girl make her own decisions. The girl thought about it, both of them had advantages, they were talented and handsome, and the rich man was rich.

also have shortcomings, the talent is poor, and the rich man is old. It is better to eat at the rich man's house and live in Xiucai's house.

Once you have the answer, make up your mind to do it. If you want to be happy, you have to pay a price! It is impossible for all good things to be concentrated on you alone. Luck is something that not everyone has.

I'll just ask you one question. Do you like your ex-boyfriend? What do you like about him?

。。。It's so long written... Finally finished reading...

I remember Andy Lau has a song called "Homecoming".

The lyrics are very meaningful: It is the grave that is the destination, don't go to the end to be clear.

There will always be many choices in life, time is not a problem, age is not a problem, the problem is feelings, maybe still.

If you don't love enough, you won't be able to choose.

Female junior, hugging gold bricks.

What do you think you would do if you held a gold brick?

There are undoubtedly these two kinds of money that will be spent (including those deposited in the bank) and will use this capital to start a business.

If you can, you don't want both.

One is not liked, and the other is not in sight of the future.

Or find a new one

If you don't go on a trip alone, stabilize your mood first.

Think about it again.

You should distinguish between your feelings, who you love, and it is the three parties who hurt the emotions of indecision.

I look at it as a person who has come over, and your ex-boyfriend is more stable and focused. The joy of life should be created by both parties, your ex-boyfriend is very plain, you can be more proactive in this regard.

Life is a big family, and if the family is unhappy together in the future, then there will be no romantic happiness at all. (For reference, I wish you can really find the one that belongs to you!) ）

It's normal for you to be in this situation, if you really love A, B won't appear, so whether your parents mean it or not, in fact, you prefer B, although B has a strong personality but has a good heart, cherish it.

A girl is just a thought of you in high school, how much do you know about her, people will change after a long time of contact If you think A is good, you have to do a good job and break with B completely, otherwise your career will be affected, and if you don't handle it well, the consequences will be serious.

You and B have been together for 1 year, and they are familiar with each other, isn't she so strong that it stimulates a man's desire to conquer Even if you sleep together all the time, but if a woman can't become a little woman in front of her man, it's a man's failure, brother. So you haven't taken B down yet

Could it be that you and classmate A have not been more than a year, love is divided and combined, only in this way can you find true love, your parents fancy you are just close to work, if you are both civil servants, your marriage will not be happy in the future, because you have nothing to communicate, the work is generally very heavy, you need to do things with each other, only wishful thinking can last long, and the twisted melon is not sweet. Do you have to decide your own life's priorities for someone else? A classmate and your parents can slowly run in, B girl...

I'm not very optimistic. Of course, if you scandalize her, it's a different story.

After reading what you said, I feel that you don't love that civil servant anymore, but I want to tell you that life is like this, you feel that your classmate is good because you are not together, so I can only say this.

Girl B is not suitable for you, so let's go with Girl A.

Don't choose, you're not a good girl.

You ask yourself a very simple question: what kind of love can accompany you for a lifetime!?

Both A and B have their own shortcomings.

But I think love, especially the love that intends to marry oneself, should be extremely cautious.

If it's really tangled, it's better to call the problem time!

It feels like time is like the sea, and only one's own can be saved to the end.

By the way:

Personally, I despise the boys who come back after a month of breakup, what did I think about earlier? What do you think about when you quarrel?

also extremely despises those who are still together when they feel wrong, which is tantamount to making up for another mistake with one mistake, and the result is one mistake on top of another.

After reading what you said.

I can only answer first, don't take yourself too seriously, this world is missing anyone, are still the same movement, maybe you are still young now, the conflict between love and reality is always fruitless, choose love, it is likely to be defeated by real life, after all, love can not be eaten.

If you really want to get married, you must find someone who can live well with you. Love has a fresh period, and the feelings in life are mutual respect and understanding.

Your reflection can only say that you yourself don't really want to stabilize your feelings now, and this thing can be easily defeated in the real society.

Women should be kind to themselves and choose what suits them, rather than blindly thinking about what they like.

Words may be a bit heavy, but a woman's youth is just a little bit of time, I hope you can find the most suitable person for yourself. It doesn't matter if you choose A or B

The nature of the country is easy to change, whether it is suffering or happiness, the road is to go by yourself, the so-called confusion, hesitation, that is because you do not recognize yourself, give yourself too much choice. The more choices you have, the less likely you are to decide, and the longer you can endure the ordeal.

Decide what is right and wrong, make a decision after the person seeking help calms down, and you have to take responsibility for your decision, not regret it or something. It's tiring to talk about a fruitless relationship, but it's even more tiring to talk about a love that forces yourself, so who to choose, who is right for you, and whether you will regret it, at this moment, you can think about it.

Don't think I'm not good at talking, you gave your two boyfriends code names, I think your code name should be "S", see who you are more suitable for?

After reading your story, I hope you can face it calmly, don't be lost in the situation in front of you, love is not rhetoric, in the real society, love alone is not enough, but also based on material, not that I am too realistic, but the society is too realistic, if a person you leave him, he can still be good to you as always, is the true love of you, if your boyfriend can scold you for the first time, there will be a second time, although there is reluctance, then let time kill everything.

If you want to choose, don't think too much, choose a b's behavior, you can see that he is rhetorical a, he proved it to you with his actions, you also said that he worked very hard, waited for you for two years, and the objective perspective is very good, even if he reconciles with b, he will inevitably not treat you so much b is obviously a very possessive person eye-to-eye with this kind of person will not be happy lifelong event the landlord thinks about it.

If you're tired, come out.

Choose the second one, copy a woman who is willing to pay for you, she definitely loves you, you can refer to your mother, don't get me wrong, how much your mother loves, everyone in the world knows. In contrast, the second is willing to pay for you without reservation, while the first one is still playing his own small calculations, and the second is better than the first.

Try to make yourself bai

Calm down, du take a piece of paper on the left and zhi

On the right, write two girls dao

The names of each are listed separately.

Advantages and disadvantages of each, and then list your own advantages and disadvantages. Be as detailed as possible, and then compare carefully and think about who you like the most and who you will be happier with. You'll have the answer.

It stands to reason that you should choose the first one.

The second one that you express in your elaboration seems to be more suitable for you ......

In short, it is better for a man not to step on two boats ......Just as a chicken and an egg!

Follow your heart and make a decision as soon as possible!