If you don t agree with your parents, you have to end the relationship 5

Do you love each other or love the way she looks?

If you really love you, you should make an effort to communicate with your parents.

Conquer her parents like a man! Take out your ambitions, don't shrank back, respect and recognition are earned back on your own.

See how you feel. Affection is the feeling of both parties, not the feeling of parents. There is a feeling to feel. Life is a feeling.

It's up to you, I say it's over and you're over? Or do you insist on it?

Does it have anything to do with feelings? If you value Zhang so well, why didn't you refuse when you saw this person at the beginning, it means that you still have feelings, don't associate feelings with other things, especially Zhang, there is not a saying"Zhang is good, and he can't eat it as a meal"Therefore, people are still starting from emotions, and it is difficult to reach the end without deep emotions on the long road ahead.

The relationship between two people is very important, and then use time to hone it, time will test everything, everything will be variable, feel it slowly, feelings are ever-changing, and they are complicated. For a lifetime, choose more, don't be emotional. Understand that it is not ......I have something to tell my brother, and my brother is willing to help you ......

Find a Taoist priest to calculate it for you!!

Do you love her looks or everything about her? If you love someone, you don't care about her beauty or ugliness, as long as you truly love each other. If you really like her, if you can't let go of her, go for it and communicate more with your parents.

Let's end it decisively, where does the happiness come from if the family is not harmonious...

Just be nice to you young people's business.

What are you hesitating about???

Have you already decided that you want to be with her???

Look at what you said, since the two of you love each other so much, you have to open up a world that belongs to the two of you and your future life for your future life!

Parents are just giving you their advice and helping you think about things you wouldn't think of right now! Maybe you should listen to your parents and look at your question, you are not ready to live with him for the rest of your life.

Don't miss this opportunity, love is so rare! Bless your love.

This is a complex problem and one that many people face!

However, I would suggest that you are from both places, so it is better not to be together. Otherwise, there will be a lot of trouble in the future, which will also lead to frequent quarrels in the future.

Of course, if the two of you work in the same place and the family is not too heavy, then the two of you are not too much together.

And most importantly, don't be blinded by love, and be clear-headed. Don't abandon life for love!

Bless you!

Freedom to marry.

Find another opportunity to explain it to your parents

When you make your own money, you can buy it.

Hope it helps.

Secretly save some money to buy it yourself. In other words, my ZOTAC GTX580 graphics card was also bought like this. Parents will definitely not buy things that are too expensive, so they can only rely on themselves. Hehe.

You can save your own money to buy it, but if your parents still don't agree, you can ask for more.

Make your own money to buy it, otherwise you can't do it

You can choose to sell your body, or if you have a car, you sell four wheels, or you can work on floor tiles, or maybe your graphics card will be lost...

Which graphics card do you want to buy, and how much does it cost? GTX600?

The woman's parents did not agree that they could ask Wang Huying's apprentice for a hexagram, his slogan, Qi, 3, 4, Jiu, 仨, o, 2, 9, o

Then you have to work hard personally, and you have to get some grades to prove that you can take care of other people's daughters.

If you are willing to sign a contract that you must have plastic surgery at all times as required by the director, and are unspoken about the rule to be a model countless times. This is true for all models. I've seen it.

Bad for your parents? Marriage is a matter of two families, it is recommended that you talk to your family well, if the woman's parents agree, do not need to apply very formally, first live together for a period of time, that is, the so-called "trial marriage" foolproof in marriage, marriage is a lifelong matter of two families. Love is selfish, marriage cannot.

If it's a parent's problem, you need to know first, ask clearly, what do you not like? See if you can make a change, work hard to do it, parents will move the heart of the silhouette when they see your efforts, which parent doesn't want their children to live well? If it is a force majeure factor, it is recommended that you think about it clearly, she loves you very much, and the meaning of you love her very much is different, which side is more important than what you should consider, you should think about it calmly, which side is more important.

To understand the temperament of the parents, and to figure out whether you miss this girl you will regret for the rest of your life.

There are a few questions: First, is she bad for your parents or bad for her own?

Second: Why don't your parents agree?

Is it worth considering the reasons for the parents' disagreement?

Many people really realize the difficulties of their parents after becoming parents themselves.

Your girlfriend loves you very much, but do you love her? First of all, ask yourself clearly, if you also love her, then you first get a consensus with your parents, listen to their opinions, why don't you agree? Although the relationship is between two people, you can't not have affection for love, and they are your own parents.

Besides, your girlfriend is not good to your parents, what is the reason, is it because she has no filial piety or because your parents oppose your feelings that she treats your parents badly? Having said that, I don't think she's any better for someone who is not good to her parents! If it's just that she loves you and you don't love her, then, things are simple, two words: break up!

Is it bad for your parents, or is it her parents?

Hehe. Find a way to impress them with you ...

Don't worry, the marriage matter will be put on hold, and the two of you will work hard to buy a house and pay off the loan.

In the father and mother also said that they are not in a hurry to get married, and the child does not plan to have it in recent years, and will want it again according to the situation in the future, so as to give the parents a time to accept, and your boyfriend must be sensible, filial and considerate to your parents, so that slowly they will accept.

Don't come hard, let alone keep talking about the house and children or something, can parents not be in a hurry? Unless they don't love you, don't rush to have a child if you don't have the conditions, you are responsible for having a child.

I want to know what the landlord is like now, and is he still together? I'm in a very similar situation to you, my boyfriend's family is also in the countryside, dao and very far away, I am in the north and he is in the south, at first the family did not agree, I even forced each other to die, now it has been a year, my boyfriend has worked for three years, and has bought a suite with his own efforts, but there is a mortgage, and all the relatives in the family are still persuading me to break up, saying that his family is rural, and he will have to repay the mortgage for decades in the future, I really don't understand, material is important, but he is already very good, compared to those who rely on their parents to gnaw the oldBut I don't care, I decided that we should be together even if the whole world is against it.

Since you love each other so much, I think you should stick to it.

My boyfriend's family is also very bad, but he is really good to me, he doesn't have a high diploma, he has only now found a stable job, and he is still going to other places for a long time, but I am still waiting for him to come back, I think the boy really loves you, and he will do everything he can to give it, and all your boyfriend needs now is time.

He 30 What about you If you are not very big Then don't rush to get married first Buying a house with a loan is not as simple as you think You will be under a lot of pressure Especially if you say that his job is not stable The problem is even bigger I don't want you to separate for the mortgage in the future If you have the ability to buy a house Now maintain the status quo Now maintain the status quo As for the child, if you give birth Plus the mortgage You really can't stand it It is recommended that you talk about it in a few years.

Now that technology has developed, even if you are 30+ or even 40 years old, it is not a problem to have a child, and you are in a hurry to have a child now, and the child cannot receive a good education, and there is no good environment, and the education is not good, so I am ready not to have a child, and the pressure is less, but it is estimated that you can't, then you will wait a few years.

I know an aunt who didn't have money with her husband when she was young, and now she's almost 40, and both of them have worked hard to conceive a child this year, and they're about to give birth, and I think they're very happy.

I think you're in too much of a hurry right now, the house, the children, and the parents are forced together, you can't make any rational decisions, everything goes naturally, since it's not easy for your family, then wait a few years and see again, my family didn't agree with it at the beginning, but now they all accept it, because they know that my boyfriend is really good to me.

So I think you can too, and now in fact, the best solution is not to rush anything, take one step at a time, look at something, what is too eager to get, the result is not as good as you think, take your time, it's yours, it's yours, it's not yours, don't think about it, I hope you're happy, come on.

If I were your parents, I would have to dissociate myself from you, the truth has already told you, you yourself are obsessed, who is to blame? Since you insist on going your own way, do you still have to have the support and consent of your parents? Why do the two elders want to pay for your choice?

You make your own choices and bear all the consequences. Including the risk of divorce for money in the future, of course, I also hope that you can go back to your parents' home at this time.

You are to marry him, and go as you go. Don't expect your parents to help you financially, if you don't drag them down, you already count yourself as filial. Women can't afford to wait, even if you have a little money after a few years, the housing price has gone up again, and you are old, he can choose someone else; If he doesn't get ahead, then you can do it yourself.

Of course, you can also discuss with your parents according to the suggestions of other netizens, and the two sides will work together to buy a house, but it is estimated that you have not waited until you go to the notary office to write the notarization in black and white, and you have already made a fuss about money, houses, and property rights; There are many successful examples of "working together", but both parties find a lover and then divorce and divide the money; There are more unsuccessful struggles together, divorce and trouble, and two families are not at peace.

It is true that there are children in their thirties and forties, and high technology requires a high price to support, are you sure that your one can afford it? Hopefully, when his parents catch a cold, he can afford to pay for the medicine instead of asking you for money.

Do you know how much the rent is now? Do you know how much it costs to see a minor illness? Do you know how much it costs to buy groceries every day?

You do the math and then consider whether you can afford it. By the way, now **** (first-tier cities) cost 2,000 yuan, and the cost of childbirth is naturally higher.

My family copied.

I also disagree because I am wide.

The west is from Guangdong, and the distance is actually more than 100 kilometers, and zhi is relatively close, but his family disagrees because he is a rural worker, and his income is too low, and he may be levied soon near the urban area, but my family just doesn't look down on him, but he treats me very well. I was very reluctant to have this relationship, and I almost fell out with my family

It's not surprising that your parents would disagree.

Boyfriend, if Bai is capable enough to be able to do it in the countryside.

I don't think your parents will be too opposed, dao is not to say that you are poor and love rich, but they hope that you can live a good life in the future and live a worry-free life and be happy, they are afraid that you will suffer, I don't think there is a way to have the best of both worlds, unless your boyfriend gets ahead, many problems can not be solved, and the most important thing is whether you can adapt to him, and whether he can adapt to you, after all, it is the two of you who will live behind closed doors in the future, and you can't move the days of his rural hometown to live with you, Can you accept this, and whether he can adapt to the city lifestyle, you must also have a mental preparation in advance for the people in his family, they will definitely come to your house one day as a guest, how do you deal with it, there are many problems you must think clearly.

What your mother doesn't like is that his job is unstable, do you think he will have a future? You love him very much, there must be a reason why you love him, you are so kind-hearted, I think, after many years, your boyfriend will definitely get better, there are such examples around me, I feel that woman is so great!

What do you want? And then choose what might it cost? Is it something you can afford? You can get the answer.

Don't marry. Rural people, very realistic. They are good to you now because you are better than them, and when you enter their house and are dead set on being good to them, they will in turn be doubly against you! Don't get married! Various differences.

In many bai romance films, the hero and heroine are the last to go to zhi

It's not easy to be together. Although it is still difficult for you to get back together, I think you can overcome this difficulty, and this difficulty is not insurmountable. You can communicate more with your parents.

You said that buying a house is the most important issue now, you can discuss it with your parents, give your boyfriend some time, and you can work together to earn money to buy a house, so that you can be in the same boat, not only to earn money together, but also to enhance the relationship between you. Why not.