I would like to ask you, do you say that love is important or career? I m so lost right now! 5

How old are you now?

After seeing your question, I was thinking, and I was guessing, what kind of age would ask this question?

I think we all understand a truth, we need to distinguish priorities and focus on them.

Depending on your current age and situation, be clear about what is important to you and what is less important to you.

I want to say that it is not easy for people to find a suitable one in their life, let alone meet someone who loves each other.

So, if you come across it, then please cherish it, be sure to cherish it.

Career is a lifelong thing, money, you can earn it again if you don't have it, you can find it again if you lose your job, sometimes you may be fired if you compete for a job, but if you miss it, you won't have it again.

You think about this.

However, what I need to emphasize and what I want to suggest to you is: career and love, there is no conflict and contradiction.

When encountering a problem, it cannot solve the problem, which can only show that it is immature, but not how big the problem itself really is.

Your question, in fact, is very general, and it is a very dialectical thing.

I remember saying that when you find out that time is a thief, it has already stolen your options.

In short, do what you have to do and live in the moment. What we don't know is tomorrow, the past is yesterday, the only thing we can grasp is today, in fact, if we grasp today, tomorrow will be better.

Unless you're not really fully in love with her, you'll make your own decisions!

True love is to forget yourself, in this life, why not find the destination of your true love?

What is the career? What does it mean to be successful? Hehe, there is no need to say much about this question, because this question requires you to think about what you really want for ten or even decades. When you figure it out, you'll be more than half successful in life!

It's all important, having love and no career is equal to no money, that is, if there is love at the moment, it will slowly fade, because now is a material society, there is no love without love, and it is not interesting to have a lot of money, but with today's development trend, after you have money, love will knock on your door endlessly.

The two are not contradictory, I think. You can also constantly measure what your actual situation is, such as age, salary, job stability, and whether the other party is really in love, and whether your parents are in a hurry, etc.

There is a saying: every successful man will have an excellent woman by his side.

It is a rare fate for you to fall in love and love each other, and if you miss it, it may be the regret of your life. If you have any ideas, you can talk to her and see what she thinks. If you can help you in things, then your career will be twice as effective with half the effort.

Love is the driving force of your career, if you don't have the person you love, what is the use of your career success.

If you don't love it, then you can concentrate on your career. It is important to be a responsible man, a man who keeps his promises. Failing that, I'm sure your career won't be much bigger.

Don't always think that she is blocking your career, think about how she will help your career and take care of your life.

Every successful man will say, "I am successful in my career, but I am a failure in my family".

Love and career are equally important, but there will be a lot of helpless choices in life, in the face of love and career, if your she really loves you, then even if you choose a career, you will not lose love, if your relationship is not strong enough, then maybe you will choose love now, lose your career, but one day you may still face such a choice, what will happen to you? If a man does not have a career, even if he has other things, it is only temporary (except for family affection).

Of course, a man's career is important, and without a career you will gain nothing... There will be no down-to-earth love either.

Therefore, first establish a business and then love. The smart choice.

Career is important, and with a career, there will be a family business.

Love is not the whole of life.

The Huns are not broken, how can they be home.

In my experience, I think career is more important, because love is about fate, and you can't force it without fate. To face the facts, in today's society, how can you live if you don't have a job, there is a well-known saying, if you want to start a business first and then start a family?

Career, with a career, you can have whatever you want, but if you really love, can give you happy love, give up your career, believe in yourself, do you have the strength to be afraid of your career. Gold shines in **, love misses it, and it won't come again.

Career is valuable, money is more valuable, if it is for love, both can be thrown!

Men are careers! Women are love!

Love or career, which is more important? You can ask yourself. If you could only choose one between love and career, which one would you choose? This will also make you feel your own thoughts.

1. In terms of gender.

It's not sexist, it's very gender-specific. For example, if you are a girl and you are a caring person, it is advisable to let go of the so-called love and start your career first. It's not just that you want to do big business, at least a job that will support you is enough.

Won't let you find out that you can't even do work after suffering from love, you can only grieve at home. If you are a boy and you are busy with your career, I advise you to give love some time because love can also be divided into different age groups. You're probably thinking right now, what a romantic love story, I just want to make money right now.

You feel like it's a money society, and you just want to invest and make money. Maybe after that age, you will find that this society has really become a money society, and you will miss out on all the good love.

2. You must learn to know yourself.

How can you know yourself if you feel that you prefer love and then spend a little time working and career, and you are more inclined to career and then spend a little time to love? It's important to ask yourself two questions. Do you have a strong sense of dependence?

For example, someone who has been traumatized in their original family, or some insecure people, can develop a dependent mindset. After falling in love with someone, they will be very dependent on them and cannot afford to lose them. If this happens to you, I suggest you let go of your love first, go to your own work, and take some time to take a break.

Otherwise, once the sky falls, you really can't stand it, you don't have a job, you can only think about her at home every day, and even lead to some physical depression. We've seen a lot of cases like this.

Your career can give you self-confidence, and your career achievements will give you enough self-confidence. It is only when you have this self-confidence that love is something you can control.

I think career is more important, of course you have to choose a career, because if you are in love, you are likely to be hurt all over your body, and career is your confidence.

I think career is more important, if you must choose, it is recommended to choose a career, because love is a very unreliable thing.

Both are very important, and when you are younger, you should pay more attention to the development of your career.