Hello everyone, I would like to ask how long it takes for a fragile person to become strong.

In fact, I don't care about the length of time. It is about how much the things you are involved in affect you ... In fact, it is possible that many things have changed you for a long time ...

But in a casual event or a moment that you don't care about, the trajectory of your life has changed qualitatively. This is life.

Well, it varies from person to person.

But what is certain is that you must not be strong right now to ask such a fragile question.

If you keep asking, you haven't learned how to be strong.

Being strong is on your own, and some people say that you can't be strong because you don't have anything or people to protect.

However, it could also be that you are running away and don't want to be strong

Some people will become stronger after experiencing hardships and tribulations, and some people will be intimidated by hardships, so almost everyone will experience hardships, the key is whether you can gain knowledge and experience from suffering, and then make yourself stronger, so you don't think about when you go through hardships, what should come will come, and what you shouldn't come will not come back, there is no need to wait for it to come every day, it is good to experience some things in life, it will make you enjoy life more, and life will not be too boring, if you come, Just take advantage of it and try to overcome it!!

Maybe it will change in the next second.

Maybe it won't change for decades.

It's not measured by time, it's changed by the individual's mind, what happens, what he thinks, and so on.

People live to realize their ideals, pursuits, goals, desires, and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

We need to accept, accept it all. Maybe you will tell yourself that it is really tired, it is hard, we all need to rest, we all need to stop and look at our past, present and future, but these are not enough for us to stop.

You become fragile because you care too much.

I care too much about making myself think about it a lot, making my heart very tired, so tired that I always feel unsatisfactory when I do things, which makes me even more lacking in self-confidence.

In such a situation, you have to make yourself confident, not that you can't do it, but that you are not in a good state.

How to adjust your confidence, you can dress yourself up beautifully, talk to friends a lot, and feel your presence. Do something on your own and feel what you're capable of.

I'm very timid and not strong, how can I change it.

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

I can see that you are very confused and in a bad mood right now. You have to think calmly: whether the other person is worthy of your love, if it is worthy, don't give up easily! Now you try to adjust your mood and make yourself happy, only when people are happy will they solve problems better.

If you want to adjust your mood, you can do what you like to do, listen to your favorite **, watch movies, idol dramas, if you don't want to listen to songs or watch movies, you can also go out for a walk and make an appointment with friends to hang out together. When I'm bored, I like to look at the sky outside, which is actually very pleasant. People just think a lot.

In fact, there are not many things, and a lot of things will be thought of, so you have to do more things and keep yourself busy, so that you don't think about it. It is impossible for people to be happy all the time in their lives without troubles, and there are always ups and downs in life, so it is interesting. Sometimes it's not a good thing to be annoyed, bored, lonely, depressed, irritable, and empty, and can be used as a catalyst.

When you're in a good mood, everything won't be a problem.

I hope you can find the answer from the bottom of your heart.

People will always encounter difficulties, and love is the hardest.

Here are a few ways to make you feel better.

1: Go for a drink (Note: You can't drive after drinking.) If it's a bike. Be careful, too, and drink alcohol in a proper business setting, if you are under the age of 18. Drink less -.

2: Go to a no-man's land and yell (Note: If your voice is bad, it's none of my business.........Huh = = don't yell at night)

3: Call a few friends to go to K songs, and sing how you want (note: K songs in legitimate business situations).

Strong? Just see if your heart is really strong, if people are stuck in this place in this life, how will they live in the future?

To be strong is to learn by yourself. Maybe let go of the words that used to make you better, then let go, let go of those memories that are just memories.

Strong? and fragility, is the difference between your own thoughts Since he (she) does not have you in his or her heart, why should you struggle?

Strong, maybe just a noun, please understand what it means to be strong.

Please also do something that does not affect your studies or career.

Bless you, you will be truly strong.

Get your friends to help.

If you want to be strong in the face of difficulties, the way is not to "endure" tears, but that your heart can really withstand it! If you are really strong, then you will not shed tears in the face of difficulties, instead of using your strength to "endure" tears. You are not strong enough in character because you have experienced too little, you have taken on too little, and you have had too much smooth sailing.

Our generation of only children, parents spoil too much, help us bear too much, help us block too many difficulties, when difficulties come, we will always hide behind them, watch them solve, watch them bear. And when they grow old, and we have to bear many things ourselves, we are used to being afraid. No one is born strong, and strong people only know how to bear it after going through a lot.

To be strong, you have to know how to go through it. When misfortune and pain do strike, it hurts once; The second time, maybe you'll be a little better; The third time, maybe you've learned to comfort yourself; Fourth, maybe you're starting to calm down......One day, when misfortune returns, you stop crying, but think calmly, smile and comfort those who are suffering as you!