What is the most sad and sad thing and the happiest thing in your life?

The most sad thing is that I got married before I could repay my parents, and the happiest thing is that I gave birth to my own child.

The happiest thing is that I graduated from high school and was admitted to my ideal university; It was also in this year that my grandmother, who loved me, left us.

The most sad and sad things and the happiest things were given by my ex, she left me a lot of good memories, but also brought me a lot of hurt, love and hate.

The most sad and saddest thing I have ever done in my life was to quarrel with my parents when I was an adolescent, although it didn't, something too big happened, but I felt that I had hurt my parents' hearts. The happiest thing is to be reunited as a family.

The saddest thing is that the goddess I like doesn't have enough ability to chase after me. The happiest thing is to be with the goddess, but it hasn't happened yet.

The most sad thing is that I was looked down upon by everyone in high school, saying that I was dressed dirty, that I acted like a redneck, I was really unbearable, and the happiest thing was that there was someone who had always supported me, and she was my best friend now.

The happiest time is when I talk to my girlfriend, and I am the happiest during that time, and in the end the two broke up, which feels very sad

The happiest thing is to go home from work and eat with my husband, and then go for a walk to walk the dog.

The happiest thing is that at my prime I met a real one I wanted to have, I wanted to take care of her for the rest of my life, and I wanted to grow old with her. Well. I'm happy with him every day, even when it's the dirtiest and most tiring work.

With him by my side, I feel happy every day.

One of the things that makes me feel the most is that I often have headaches, after all, I always have migraines and I feel very uncomfortable.

Thousands of miles away, long years away, the day of the year most looking forward to going home for the New Year has arrived, busy squeezing the high-speed rail, transferring passengers, carrying luggage, buying gifts, facing the flying snowflakes, panting, and finally rushed home on Chinese New Year's Eve, so happy.

When I was a child, there were many children in the family and poor families in the countryside, but there were many happy things for the New Year: on the first day of the New Year, I was wearing new clothes made by my mother, and I was wearing a thousand layers of bottoms made by my mother, and my father gave us a few dimes in my pocket to press the New Year's money, and my mother would make us all kinds of delicious food. But the happiest thing is that at 8 o'clock on time, the family watched the Spring Festival Gala while eating melon seeds and candy around the TV.

If you want to talk about the happiest thing since I was a child, it is that the college held a basketball game when I was in college, you must know that I have liked basketball since I was a child, but I am very short, only 1.7 meters, and I do not have a big advantage! From childhood to adulthood, I have participated in many large and small basketball games! The only regret is that I never won the championship!

However, this wish was finally fulfilled when I was about to graduate from college.

Then I'll talk about what I'm most happy about today! The girl came back today, and also brought back a surprise, her academic performance has improved to 806 in the whole grade this month, an increase of more than 500 from last month. The goal set by the child himself has been achieved.

We know that this is inseparable from the child's efforts, the girl's mother believes in you, you are the best in the mother's heart! But Mom doesn't want you to put too much pressure on herself, just work hard. I am most happy to see my children grow up healthy.

I'm happy every day, and I'm happy to experience that my physique is getting better and better, and it's really getting better. From a few months ago, it was difficult to walk thousands or even tens of thousands of steps now, and the pain was basically eliminated, and I felt better to see that the children's eyes and demeanor were not the fear and anxiety they had before, but they could play and learn happily every day, and their personalities became more cheerful! The happiest thing is to be able to receive her ** or WeChat greetings, this is the happiest thing I look forward to every day, I am really looking forward to it.

Now the child is older and can live independently. After a day of work, I am happiest is: after eating a delicious dinner, tidying up, sitting at the table, relaxing and listening**, reading for half an hour, and then opening the headlines, watching news, hot spots, American articles, **, after charging the "electricity", I started my own spiritual writing journey!

This is when I am most excited and happy.

In our lives, from young to old, we have experienced dozens of springs and autumns, and we will encounter many good and bad things on the road of life.

I have only experienced a part of my life, and I would like to share my own views on this issue in light of my actual situation.

Encountering setbacks and difficulties on the road of life, these things actually make us feel that this is the saddest thing we have ever encountered at the moment when they just happened, because when we are in a depressed mood, we will feel the saddest than at that time.

However, after a few days, or months, you will not feel the saddest thing when you look back at many similar things.

The saddest thing in life is the one that happened, when you think about it, you will feel that you can't let go of it in this life, you can't forget it, this thing will haunt you for the rest of your life.

This thing is something that you can't forget or make up for with time, and the result of things that can be changed, it is irretrievable in the past, and it is a thing that cannot be diluted by time and will always be remembered in your heart.

For example, the loss of a loved one, the loss of a parent, the loss of a friend, etc., I mean death here. Because only the matter of life and death is beyond our control and cannot be changed through ourselves.

Things like unemployment, falling out of love, failing in school, career, marriage, and so on. We are sad about these things, but these things can be changed through our efforts.

As long as you find the reason, correct it, change it, and seek a way, these things can slowly become not sad and slowly relieved under the baptism of time.

In this world, as long as you can walk and move, there is hope, no matter how sad things we have encountered, as long as it does not involve life and death, crimes, etc., most of the others can be changed through time.

The saddest thing in the world, I think, is something that cannot be changed, something that we can't make up for in our lifetime once we miss it.

The saddest thing in life is that once it happens, once it is missed, then the thing that cannot be changed in this life is the saddest thing.

May we not have the saddest things in life that cannot be changed. If we can change and make up for it, then maybe that thing is okay, and after our efforts and the baptism of time, it will eventually pass.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because that's how life is.

No one's life is smooth sailing.

As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything.

Keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

Be brave enough to look up.

The sun is always after the storm!

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

The saddest thing in life is: losing a father at a young age, losing a wife in middle age, and losing a son in old age!!

There are eight sufferings in life, birth, old age, sickness, death, love and parting, resentment for a long time, can't ask for it, and can't let go.

Lonely and helpless, but being happy is also a day, and being sad is also a day, why not spend it happily, if you can see it, it would be the best.

Doing sad things is wanting too much and not being able to achieve it.

Living a miserable life. Occasional loss of confidence to live. But life always gives me hope and the will to live.

Soon he cruelly retracted his hope and repeated it. It's painful though. But I still want to live.

Although there is no future in sight. But I know that there is hope in life, and on the other hand, life is tormenting me so much. On the one hand, I wanted to see the future and survive, and I was conflicted and struggling.

Sometimes we are miserable in life, sometimes we can live and be happy for ourselves, and when everything happens to others, we can gently persuade him to be optimistic. When something keeps happening to you, you know that the world is not so simple. I just want to live and live with a smile.

1 The man died, and the money was not spent.

2 No one died, but the money ran out.

If you meet it, you will know, it is better to: the two-color number you bought will only be opened in the next issue.

The people are gone, and there are still a lot of banknotes.

Flowers bloom and fall, and the moon lacks a full moon, just like life ups and downs.

The most painful thing in a man's life is not that I am in front of you now, and you don't know that I love you, but that a man has achieved nothing when he is thirty years old, and he has to work tirelessly, blood and sweat for three meals a day.

The most painful thing in a woman's life is not how many men have deceived her feelings, but that a woman still doesn't know what kind of man she should find when she reaches the age of thirty.

Men like white and rich and beautiful, and women like rich and handsome, which seems to have become an iron-clad law in today's era.

But this is not the true love of Zhenxin, which is why the divorce rate in this era is more than marriage.

The happiest thing in a man's life is not how many women you have ever had, but that there is a woman who is willing to be with you for the rest of your life.

The happiest thing in a woman's life is not how rich and handsome a man you find, but that there is a man who is willing to spoil you alone for the rest of his life.

Sincerity can be exchanged for love, don't lose yourself in the world of flowers.

The most beautiful thing is not the appearance but the heart, and the richest thing is not money but sincerity.

Life will never be smooth sailing, this is because there are too many hurdles on the road of life, after this hurdle, there is that hurdle, after this hurdle, there is the next hurdle.

Whenever we encounter a hurdle, it always takes a lot of time and energy to deal with it.

The saddest three hurdles in life, once passed, you will live better and better! Because, as long as you pass these three hurdles, you will live more transparently and understand better, and the other hurdles will be nothing to you.

1. Love. Since ancient times, there has been more than hatred, and this hatred is endless, and love is one of the saddest hurdles in life. Love not only includes love, but also family affection and friendship.

In the face of hurt in love, many people will not be able to let go, resentment, regret, unwillingness, forcibness, entanglement, etc., the final result is to suffer themselves, tired heart, very uncomfortable.

In the face of the indifference of family affection, many people will complain, will be cold, and even themselves will become indifferent and ruthless, and in the end they will suffer themselves and tired their hearts.

In the face of the betrayal of friendship, many people will be resentful, angry, and angry, because the person they trust the most has betrayed them.

In fact, in the final analysis, whether it is love, family affection, or friendship, the main thing is the warmth and coldness of people. In the face of human warmth, we must try to look down, if people go to the tea cool, then keep their hearts warm, so that they can cross the love barrier and not be trapped by love.

2. Qiankan. Some people say that rich people don't have to go through the money hurdle, and this hurdle should be set up for the poor. In fact, no matter whether there is money or not, each of us has to pass the money hurdle.

When you don't have money, you have to find a way to make money, because money is needed everywhere in life, and you need money to maintain your life, maintain your feelings, and so on.

When you have money, you may not have to worry about money, but if you don't know how to control your desires and can't restrain yourself well, then your wealth may be squandered by you, or even bring disaster to you.

Money is not enough for everyone, so if you want to get over the money hurdle, the key is not how much money you have, but your attitude towards money.

Your attitude towards money determines whether you become the master of money or become a slave to it. When you don't have money, do you take it in the right way, or do you do whatever it takes? When you have money, are you drunk on money, or are you pure-hearted?