Emotional counseling, I paid my heartache for the lie

It is estimated that the man will not take it very seriously, but it is inevitable that there will be mustard, as long as you sincerely repent in front of your boyfriend and give him enough face, if he really loves you, he will forgive you, but it is indispensable. That's how men are in their psyche. If you cheat on him next time, it won't be easy to get forgiveness! ~

Vanity is a woman's worst enemy. Either you just want to have fun at first, or you show from the bottom of your heart that you are a woman who loves vanity. Both are unforgivable!

The key is to see how the man treats you. In fact, many people must say that men really love you, and they don't care. But I'm in denial.

It's good to know that mistakes can be corrected! Have a good chat with your boyfriend!

Well, do it yourself!

Since you know that you are wrong, it means that he is very lucky, from the beginning you did not think about the result, after knowing him, it seems that he is worthy of you to pay for him, then his character should be good in all aspects, if he does not accept your honesty, then you have to think again, you have to believe in your own vision, if you love you, he will forgive you, come on!

If he loves you, he doesn't care!

Although he knows the truth, he will feel a little uncomfortable in his heart, not because your family is not as superior as you say, but because you lied to him, but if he really loves you, how can he be so thorough?!

If he knows the truth and insists on breaking up with you, then he likes the family background in your lie, and he doesn't want such a man!

Listen to your own inner voice. In fact. You just feel unwilling. You hate him, why don't you cherish you.

Alas, even if you argue with him, what is the use? Can we go back to the way we were? Again and again, again and again, betrayal.

Broke up. In the big world, you really can't find a man who is considerate of you.

Although the society is not equal, but two people who love each other must create an equal atmosphere, no one must be stronger than whom, and no one must be in a weak position, you know, you are equal from the time you decide to be with him, but if you have a dominant psychology, then your emotional balance must be tilted, you may not feel it, but with this sense of superiority, every word in life, every little thing, maybe you are unintentional, but it will cause misunderstanding to each other, over time, The other person will feel depressed, and you may not understand it, but like you said, you know that he is not worthy of you, so doesn't he know? He knows, you know how much pressure he is on? You may not understand, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, your problem is that you have not put each other at a common height that can be compared from the beginning, since you have come to this day, each other is responsible, a strong woman for a man, is very hurtful to self-esteem and face, he must have been depressed for a long time, and does not know how to communicate, will cause today's situation, since you have found the crux of the problem, just lower your posture, try to communicate with a little woman who feels sorry for the man, let him regain his self-esteem, maybe you will be reconciled as before, But I think that everyone is born with a different height, the angle of looking at problems, and the way of dealing with people will be different, and the outlook on life and values are also very different.

Leaving is your best bet! A man like this is not worth cherishing! You said he was divorced, which means that he has some bad problems!

At the beginning, he was very good to you because he hadn't played enough with you, and now he's a little tired of playing, so the previous problems are starting to come out! He has never changed these problems, which means that he will never be able to change this problem of hers! Maybe if you break up now, he will try his best to keep you, and you will definitely forgive him according to your character.

After you forgive him, then he is making the mistake again, and then he coaxes you again. You've been doing it ever since! Do you think it's interesting to go on like this?

A girl's best time is at this age, and you should leave it to someone who truly loves you! So I think you'd better leave him, things like that, I don't think it's clear. What's the point of arguing, you just tell him to break up, and then go.

If you forgive him again, hehe, then I can only say that you are a slut! It's just my thoughts, and hopefully you'll make an informed choice! Good luck having someone who loves you for the rest of your life! Hey.

If he can't give you these feelings of being loved, there is no reason for you to love him, and the time for such love to turn bad is only sooner or later.

There is also trust and respect, mutual respect is the foundation of the future of the two, mutual trust is also each other's pay, if you keep deceiving and lying, such a person is not respecting you, you have to keep this feeling, it depends on how long you really feel that you can accept deception or self-deception before you wake up.

If he changes, then you have to think about it. Talk to him more.

See if he can bounce back, otherwise. ......

It's all like this, and you still expect him to get better? If he was sincere to you, he wouldn't lie to you, let alone do those things behind your back, and now that he's like this, you think it's a dream, it's time to wake up!

Give it up! You're only 20 years old, and you can't read it. Be realistic, look at Qian "A Life, Children, Body, Parents, Relatives."

You are still young, there is no need to sacrifice your youth for such a man, you know! Betrayal is in the nature of men, and there is no need to rack your brains to make yourself miserable! Trying to let go and start your life again is the best option!

Don't be stupid. Be strong! Remember, no matter what you are wronged, you must keep your dignity!

Don't argue with him, just break up in person, and leave him completely!

Divide it, such a man is not a good man, and besides, he is eight years older than you and knows more than you, and you can't get his sincere advice!! Be kind to yourself.

You are still young, give up on him, the road ahead is still very good, what is there to pity such a man, even if he comes back to beg you, don't trust him anymore.

Emotional things can't be faked at all, okay is okay, no good is not good, don't force it. Love should be 100% dedicated, love should be 100%.

Most men always know how to cherish when they lose, he is not worthy of you, but when they are really together, these are no longer in the scope of consideration, and he will not die for you because of this. Men's lies must not be tolerated. It's okay once, it's okay to be well-intentioned, but like this, it's unforgivable, no one can't do without whom, and walk away decisively.

A 28-year-old man is actually not mature, a man only has a sense of family after 35, you just think that older than you should be able to take care of you and love you, the older a man, the more he needs someone to understand. His age is the time to play, and he has been divorced once at such a young age, which shows that he is immature and playful, so don't blame him. If you want to wait for him to change his mind, it's not impossible, it's just that you have to bear more hurt and grievances, but your affirmation that he will change for the better will be moved by you, and you will have a bright future.

Break up, you are a fan of the authorities, I am a bystander to see your problem is really real, divide it This kind of man is not worth it This kind of thing has one and two Don't put your life into it.

Break up, that kind of man is unreliable, and you're still young, and you're in the prime of life, and you're going to meet better men in the future.

I haven't finished reading it, I just want to remind the landlord that he should think about why he divorced.

Let it be, don't hurt yourself too much, some things are not worth doing yourself, turn around bravely, there will be rainbows, sometimes you can't take the memories too seriously, some things can't be undone.

Leave, you can't save him, he can't give you happiness, maybe you don't know him at all, you're too young, your thoughts are relatively simple, and he's a lot more cunning. Be kind to yourself and believe that there will be better ones in the future.

Forget it, let that relationship be a memory.

Hello, first of all, the emotional thing can not be forced, during the time you get along, you should have felt her attitude towards you, but you don't want to believe it, don't you, you think that as long as you blindly pay, you may get her emotional return. But you are wrong. Feelings are not something that can be done by wishful thinking.

You also know now that you gave a lot and then didn't get any results, just a verbal thank you from her. You can think back to the days when you first came into contact, was it just that you were hot? I think you already have the answer in mind.

I wish you to come out of the haze soon, and there will be better girls waiting for you.

In fact, you have to be sure in your heart, is she the person you want? If yes, then you should be bold and chase it, don't give up easily, maybe if you give up, you will regret it for the rest of your life, so confirm your heart and see if she is important in your heart.

Cut and untidy and messy, don't be a general taste in the heart, what you can't get is in the commotion, you can put it down, and the manly husband can take it and put it down.

It's useless for her to dislike you and you blindly pay, why bother to put love in the bottom of your heart, and like it for a long time from the sixth grade?

In fact, she may not be so good, you have to know that memories are beautiful, and what you remember is that feeling.

You're a good boy, she's not blessed, you have to let go and look forward.

Start over, she's not worth it.

Let go when it's time to let go, and learn to forget that a good choice is a momentary choice.

Give up no, he doesn't have feelings for you.

Your experience seems to be similar to mine...

Alas.. In love, most of the people who are hurt are women.

You have to learn to protect yourself. Liling Dan.

Although I am a wounded person like you.

Ken yes, you'll think it's easy for me to say.

It's not realistic to do it, right?

But that's the reality.

Let's learn to protect ourselves together.

Be happy

Tell him with your actions and wait for him to fully understand your mind.

There is no why, betrayal is betrayal, and this is the result. It's her fault for betraying you, but it's all about you. You yourself look at the wrong person, choose a hypocritical female ** to give everything, and after being hurt and deceived by her again and again, you are still obsessed, but you pay even more, you are purely a fool.

What's the difference between a plot like yours and a TV series? Don't blame that woman for being negative, you yourself are not aware of the wrong person, you are just asking for hardship and suffering for yourself. Don't say that love is hypocritical, you found a ** girlfriend and came to such a conclusion?

If it's all hypocrisy, then how did your parents give birth to you? You should learn the lesson of this time, regroup yourself, and find a reliable girlfriend to fall in love.

Professional answer for you: friends pay is not equal to gain, you just didn't find the right person, but you didn't really grasp what she wanted in her heart, maybe this kind of woman is to love to take advantage of others and enjoy other people's charity. But never moved, maybe there is something else that can't satisfy her heart, there are too many people like this, if a good friend like you can find the right person, it must be very happy, but your luck is not good.

Because the object you pay is not right, there are good people and bad people in this world, feel those who love you with your heart, when you give, remember to think about what kind of consequences you have to bear, whether it is worth it, don't pay if it's not worth it, don't regret it.

No why, the world is impetuous, chaotic and distracted, sad and lamentable, but lamentation is not life. So, if it happens, why not be indifferent, as long as you find the coordinates of your life, why bother to force it?

Love is true, not chaos.

Men and women who are purely sexually hued cannot be convinced of the ontology of personality, the so-called greed.

Remove the hue, read the "sentiment" more nobly, do not be trapped by feelings, liberate yourself, restrain self-discipline, I believe you will reinvigorate your spirit, reposition, and reopen your open-mindedness.

The sea is tolerant of all rivers, and it takes root on the ground, because life in the world is not just a love word, and the real man is the moral residence of the inheritance of a vein, right, there is no need to be disheartened, people, look up to the sun, no regrets, pay our public servants, get what we hold up, high nature, people deceive people and do not deceive people, a good optimistic life, let go of it to be able to afford it, to forgive people and forgive people, and people are wide and have been wide, is your do not ask, not your why bother to ask again.

In fact, love can't stand the wait, and it can't stand the test. Now that you have seen her clearly, what you have paid so much in exchange for is only betrayal, so why bother feeling sad about breaking up.

It's hard to forget about seven years, but you have to go on with your life, don't you? Time can heal all the wounds, but only if you come out of it! You want to have a new life!