Hello everyone, there are some emotional issues to consult about my girlfriend, I am bothered

1. It can be said that your girlfriend is more calculating in some aspects.

2. The first one is more normal, it should be because every girl doesn't want to leave a bad impression on her boyfriend's parents, the main thing is that you are just boyfriend and girlfriend, she asks you to buy things, spends your money, and is afraid that your parents will say something. So will want you to hide what you write.

3. The first one to ask you for reimbursement is on the one hand, and it is also possible that when you are in love, you talk too much about money and hurt feelings, so sometimes she is joking with you, but sometimes you have to talk to her, hint at it, compare your heart to your heart, and when you go to visit her parents, you will also be reimbursed to her if you buy something. However, if you say that, it is easy to cause your girlfriend to have other opinions about you, so since you love her, then tolerate her.

Maybe she thinks that there is still a certain distance from you, you should ask her well, the two need to be sincere together, so you have to talk to her well, don't let the two of them have a modern gap.

First, she doesn't want your parents to think that she loves to spend money, and she doesn't want her parents-in-law to think that she is not good enough.

The second, to see that her filial piety to your parents is not from the heart. Money is something, if she treats you and your parents as her own, why bother to divide you and me.

She does this, in my opinion, not very good, after all, you are a man, not very good at taking care of your parents, at this time you need a considerate wife to help you share, and this filial piety, is not needed to let the old people see, not deliberately acting, maybe the old people also have feelings, they are old, but not confused, if I were you, just talk to her.

I am also curious about such a woman? It doesn't matter if my parents knew, if my girlfriend was like this, I wouldn't marry her, because she even had to be reimbursed for the gifts she bought for her parents, and I can't tell if she was stingy or took money too seriously.

It can only be said that she is very cautious or that she is very poor at the moment, if not, then she has a problem with her character, and you are very miserable! ~~

First, she doesn't want your parents to think she's a money-loving woman. Want to make a good impression on your parents.

Second. People are more or less selfish, she may think. That's your parents, after all. Not their own parents. Even if she wanted to be generous. But there will inevitably be a little bit of a gap.

Third, she might think so. She and you will get married later. I don't feel like I need to be separated from each other. That's why I'll ask you for reimbursement.

Summary. From your description, you can see that since he broke up with his current ex, he must like the current one.

I have an emotional question that I would like to consult.

Here's the thing, a boy's ex quarreled with the current one on the Internet, and then the boy began to indiscriminately help him scold his ex, but the boy didn't know that the other side was his ex, and then he moved his ex's best friend out, so he pointed the finger at her best friend and began to scold her best friend, and then his ex knew that he was scolding his best friend and he must still help her best friend scold back, and then the man and his ex scolded each other. Later, when they met, they beat his ex's best friend, but he didn't hit his ex, because he had a good time with his ex's cousin, and then her best friend called the police, and then his ex and his current outside the police station, also fought, his ex moved first, and then her best friend also came out to help her beat her girlfriend, the man was in the police station at the time and couldn't see the outside situation and didn't know, but her best friend hadn't walked inside at the time, so the fight started. Later, I learned that my girlfriend was beaten, and I didn't come back to hold him accountable, what do you think of this boy.

It was the <> her ex who left first

The teacher understands the ex's mood very well, and the ex left at the beginning, but he can see that the ex can't forget him.

But he may feel that his ex is a thing of the past.

Can you see that your ex can't forget?

What do you think his ex thought, but when they met and beat his best friend, she didn't help her, she just hit him.

I don't think I can let go of the boy's ex.

But after such a fuss, the boy loves this incumbent even more.

Why do you feel like you can't let go?

If you let it go, then the ex won't go to the trouble of this current object.

No, they accidentally got it up.

Oh, then if that's the case, it's actually quite difficult for the boy to be in the middle, one is the current and the other is the ex.

Listening to your description, I feel sorry for you. I'm a junior girl, and personally, if I really love you, I will think about you, and I will save for you, instead of spending so much money on you, after all, it is not easy to earn hard-earned money. For the question of him and you being so fast, I think there are only two possibilities:

One: It doesn't matter if she has experience for a long time; Two: It's her stupid and impulsive.

For the question of bloodlessness, it is not excluded that some people are born bloodless, but that kind is rare) To be honest, it is not so easy to fall in love with a boy immediately in a month, and in the case that you are so good to her materially and her family situation is not good, it is inevitable that there will be a trace of greed, human nature. If you are really confused, you can slowly try to reduce your investment in her materially a little bit, and see her reaction. To be honest, don't mind, if I'm a boy and I have a girlfriend like this, it doesn't matter if she's good-looking or not, I'm still young, it's better to be separated.

You have to be clear, if you want to live with her for the rest of your life, you are looking for a wife instead of a girlfriend, and whether she is suitable to be a girlfriend or a wife. These are my personal thoughts, and if some of the words are not in the right tone, please forgive me.

You can't stick to her too tightly, the easier it is to get, the less you cherish it, you can keep a proper distance, since the two people are together, don't doubt it, many people end up losing on suspicion, you have to trust each other, and the relationship between girls and boys will be deeper and deeper after a long time, now you keep a proper distance, each pair will go through this time, just get through it.

I think your relationship is very unstable, what you said is that you are good to her, without mentioning how she treats you, I am also a student, my ex-boyfriend is at work, and my situation is just the opposite of you, but in the end we ended up going our separate ways, in fact, I don't think you need to invest too much, after all, this relationship is still unstable.

Your mind is not yet mature, and looking at your narrative, you are not manly, I don't think you can make it.

You have entered the society, and she doesn't, she only knows that she has no money and reaches out to ask for it, you can talk to him face to face, but then again, it's better to stay away from a woman who is too materialistic.

Dude, I think you're asking for marriage, right?

I wish you all the best.

Adopt it, you won't find it here.