What should I do if I break up and feel so empty

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You're in your senior year of high school, be rational and think about what you really need right now. Our teachers often say: don't let reason become a slave to emotion.

    Think about it, you broke up with him and lost someone you liked. But if you don't work hard now, what you will lose is your future. Is it worth it?

    Don't think about any breakup, let's talk about it after the college entrance examination. After all, time cannot be repeated, and it is important to grasp your own future.

    I have more time to find someone I like. Don't let these things delay your dreams and future. You measure for yourself what's most important.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can't learn, don't force yourself to learn first, find something you like to distract yourself, and when your mood is almost recovered, you will be able to learn naturally.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, students put their studies first, don't think it's nonsense!

    Love is built on money!

    Good luck.

    Forget him! Find a place where no one is there and cry!

    Do women have to be victims of love? No!

    Be strong, you go for a walk on the street, who hasn't tried to fall in love?

    Don't imagine yourself as a little girl in a soap opera!

    Be realistic! If I had passed one less note and memorized one more entry... Ay. I hope you understand what I said.

    You're still in the spring, don't do the fall is.

    Are you afraid that you won't find a boyfriend?

    It's impossible to pull you so good.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Will drink bars???

    Numb yourself with alcohol!!

    A good night's sleep is almost enough.

    No, two sleeps.

    I don't get three sleeps.

    I can't sleep yet.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's almost the third year of high school, and I'm still thinking about this, let's see which one is heavier and which is lighter!! Don't forget that you're still a student. A child who allows parents to pour their hearts and souls!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Breakup is a step of maturity! When you jump over this step, you will not be afraid to break up! The point is this first step, it's painful, yes!

    But persevere, time can dilute everything! Find a friend, talk to you, cry hard, you'll feel better! Learn to bear it, you will feel that the world is under my control!

    No big deal!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Boss, what should you do if you don't write your homework, let's think about how to fool the teacher first!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Romance is like this, you have to move towards the goal, you know, don't be discouraged! I believe you will be able to do it Love is not the whole of life Love has not gone through lovelorn It is not called love Love is sweet and sour This is how it tastes! Maybe this is your first love, so I value it very much, but after all, it's 3 years of high school, and you have to work hard, this year is particularly critical!

    When you get to college, you can enjoy love! I wish you success in high school, smooth love and a double harvest in the future!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Did you break up because he was going to study abroad, or did you break up because you didn't feel it anymore? If it's the former, it's still irreparable, but if you break up just because of a study problem, it can only mean that your relationship is not deep enough!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you feel that your heart is very empty after the breakup, then I think you should start with your interests and hobbies, so that you can enrich your life, because each of us always regards love as our whole when we fall in love, and we have put all our hearts into our own love, as if we only have our own love and our lover in our lives, and we have not done anything else with our hearts. This leads to a gap after a breakup.

    But I think people at this time are very lost, no one on the mobile phone chats with them, and their friends will not go to them to hang out or go shopping, etc., because we are really invested too much when we are in love, so we are really a little unaccustomed to it after the breakup, but if we are still a person at this time, then it will really make our lives boring.

    At this time, we can choose to do something we like to do, for example, if you like to travel, then you can choose a beautiful place in your daily life, and then do a good job of travel strategy, bring your partner, or carry your own bag, to find your favorite place, so that we will be in a particularly happy mood after the breakup, and we can also get out of the shadow of broken love as soon as possible.

    Or we can take advantage of this time to improve our career, or do something we like to do, sign up for a yoga class, or sign up for a dance class, or return to our career life, which will make us have a lot of motivation to improve what we want to do, and will also make our life more beautiful, and will not just be stupid here alone and sad, and then remember our past, which is really not worth it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although he made a mistake, he also promised that he wanted to change, and he should still be given a chance, not too much, people are very fragile, and they can't try, so you touched his bottom line, and I just wanted to try him, but it got to this point, and I was very unhappy to be a good person, so if you still want to re-reconcile with him, you still have to communicate more.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I feel that since the two people have broken up without such a deep contradiction as Zheng, you don't have to be sad anymore, after all, fate is gone, and being together is just a dry contradiction, so you still have to let go of your heart knot and start a new life of Zen laughter.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If there is such a feeling, it means that you still love the other person in your heart, or this feeling for the other person is still relatively good.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If the two people are not suitable, the long pain of friendship is better than the short pain, and there must be a process of adapting to Qi Order, just take it slowly.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I broke up and my heart was empty, I don't know if it was right or wrong to do this, Tong Hanliang, I think if I just broke up, my heart will definitely be a little empty, and Bi Jukuan Lao Bei has been more down-to-earth before.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Even if your last relationship was not as you wished, but after you fell out of love, your heart will be very empty, after all, it is the person who has been with you for a while, and falling out of love is equivalent to forcibly removing him from your heart.

    1.Slow to accept reality.

    When you are broken up, first of all, you have to understand that he no longer belongs to you! You don't have anything to do with him anymore! Your relationship is in the past tense!

    Yan Yunyan doesn't always fail to recognize the reality, always feels that he is still his own, and feels that there is still hope between you, when you keep looking for him with this hope, but you keep being hit, can you not be painful?

    Human beings are always very entangled creatures, they will always quietly forget the good memories, but the painful memories are always in their hearts, so how can they have happiness?

    2.Because I loved it deeply.

    Because I have loved deeply, because I have paid, because I am unwilling to share the royal road. So I keep pulling and refusing to let go, but you also have to know that the entanglement after the breakup is ugly, and the missing after the breakup is even more redundant.

    You shouldn't put all your energy on someone who has already broken up with you, you still have a lot to do and a lot of people you deserve to love.

    3.A long relationship can empty a person's heart.

    The development of our love from youth and haze to rational marriage choice is actually the result of the continuous growth of ourselves and our love. Growth is painful, and we ourselves are painful and happy with the growth of love.

    If jade is not carved, love is the same, it needs to be "polished" by the ex. For love, trial and error is not only to feel the beauty of the present, but also to harvest a better future.

    4.It takes time**.

    Feelings are such a thing, once invested, how can it be said that it will be taken back, at least there must be a time process, and it can only be picked up slowly little by little!

    Time is a good medicine, even if it can't make the wound heal, at least it can make it scab over and not hurt so much, and then store it in a corner of the heart, and occasionally use it to reminisce.

    5.Explained from a biological point of view.

    Our nervous system reacts to love in a biological way: when we are in love, we secrete dopamine, which makes people excited and happy. This is the same neural pathway as many of the "addiction process", so you may have feelings of "love addiction", manifesting euphoria, cheerfulness, obsession, and emotional and physical dependence, etc.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't doubt what you have decided, you should pick yourself up again, start your new life as a new person, and now there is no point in thinking about whether it is right or wrong.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    From your description, you can see that the other party has indeed done a lot of excesses and hurt you deeply, and the reason why you feel this way is that you feel very unwilling, because you have paid so much to the other party, but you have not been rewarded. So it's not that you love each other so much, Lu Peixun has invested too much emotion and can't extricate himself, in this case, you'd better not meet each other again, you have to force yourself and come out of the shadow of the other party.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think guessing that your heart must be non-nuclear and empty, so you must go to your relatives and friends to communicate, whether it is right or wrong, you must be brave and bold to redeem, so that you can better meet the other party.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you've already decided to give up, don't think about it so much. After all, there are too many contradictions between you and each other, if you can't solve it, if you don't separate and tease, the damage to each other will only be greater, and you just don't adapt to it at first.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You are rushing to get married, so lying and gambling are not allowed, and these two are not normal to get married. This kind of person is right to break up. Don't regret it.

    Lying for gambling means that you know that Duan Wang you don't like it, and you still have to do it if you oppose it, which is the biggest problem. Unreliable, untrustworthy people have no way to live together.

    Let's start your life again, this is the right choice.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think you want a gambler to change his gambling character, which is not unexpected, and when your boyfriend is at fault, he is not admitting his mistake, but complaining about a man like you, you should break up with him, so that the breakup is right and the right decision.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The reason why you are still in the middle of a relationship is because you are reluctant to fight for the last relationship, but you have already made it clear. There is a huge difference in personality between the two of you, and it's better not to live together anymore.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello, after all, you are getting married, and the feelings should be very deep, so it is recommended that you can give him a chance, don't test the other party anymore, believe that the other party can get better, and also believe that you can influence the other party and make him better.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think your approach is not wrong, because playing cards is a bad habit, you give him to correct the old empty is understandable, he is a little too extreme, even after the round knows, I think your approach is not wrong.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think that since Zen sells and He Cha teases have become a fact, it is better to cherish and grasp it, and give yourself an explanation no matter what, and give up talking about it well, maybe the two of you may be a misunderstanding, or be together.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This is what I think is the right thing to do, because after breaking up, I feel a special loss in my heart, and it is relatively normal, because you have now begun to be alone, so you are very uncomfortable.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think you broke up and did the right thing. Judging by your description, he is an irresponsible person. There should be no hope for such irresponsible people.

    Especially when you get married in the future, it will be a pain for you. So now the breakup is obviously the right choice made by the Spring Fraud Hall.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The heart is to be filled by something. When you don't break up, your heart is full, filled with that love. After the breakup, that like may still exist, or maybe it no longer exists, but from the perspective of your brother's lead spike, the heart is no longer filled with that like.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you feel so sad that you still think about the other person, then why do you do it? If he is sincere in apologizing to you, then you should accept it. He also wants to continue this relationship with you, and it is better to love someone or cherish each other.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    broke up, and the rotten person who had been living in his heart lost his model all of a sudden, can his heart not be empty? Emptiness may be this feeling, and how to fill it varies from person to person. It seems that you are a person who is affectionate, after losing love, it is natural to be indifferent to others for a while, and what kind of person will still maintain his old self or even refresh when he loses the love in his heart?

    I'm sure you're not like that.

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