I m 17 years old, and my mother always treats me like a child, what should I do?

Hehe......It's all like this, in the eyes of parents, we will always be children, there are some things we can discuss with our families, reasonable parents will agree, what do you think, tell your family that you have grown up, some things you can decide, but some things still have to listen to your parents, as the saying goes, don't listen to the elderly, suffer in front of you, hehe......I hope you have a great time

That's because she loves you, you can find a time to do it with your mother and have a good talk, you can't just because you're grown up and don't talk to her about anything, then she'll be very sad...

It is necessary to prove that I am no longer a child, freedom is very good, and my mother's care cannot be ignored

In a mother's heart, no matter how old a child is, she is still a child, she will worry about all your every move, and you should feel happy.

Go out to work as a casual worker during the holidays to let your family know that you have the ability to plan for yourself.

Well, to be honest, you're 50 years old, and you're still a kid in front of your mom, and you can help mom with some housework, and I think your mom will say, wow, my baby has grown up, and you can be complimented.

I envy you so much, my mother will take care of you, and my mother doesn't care about me.

As the living conditions of the whole society are getting better and better, almost every parent wants to give their children the best material comforts.

In the eyes of parents, children are the crystallization of the happiness of the whole family, and they cannot be overly pampered, but they do not know that this kind of thinking is harmful to children.

As the saying goes, "Spoiling a child is like killing a child." "If a child is not disciplined by his parents as a child, he will be disciplined more harshly by society when he grows up. If a child has these behaviors, it means that they are spoiled!

1. Ignoring the feelings of others Because after the birth of the child, the whole family regards the child as the center of the family, revolves around the child every day, and tries their best to meet any conditions put forward by the child, resulting in some children being self-centered and ignoring the feelings of others. No matter how old these children are, they feel that anyone in the world should be of service to them, but they never think about what others think, so they only know what to ask for, but they don't know what to reciprocate.

These self-centered children, once their parents do not meet their requirements, may yell at their parents and love to "command" their parents in their daily lives. When they grow up and enter society, it is difficult for these children, who have been highly praised since childhood, to make friends. Their behavior often makes those around them feel uncomfortable and may be ostracized by those around them.

2.Without independence, some parents always feel that their children are still young and can't withstand the wind and rain, so they have to kiss everything, and they don't even let their children do simple housework. Some children are not able to dress themselves until they are in elementary school.

In the TV show "Metamorphosis", a 16-year-old child needs to be fed by his parents, which is the embodiment of being spoiled by his parents. Children who have lived in this environment for a long time are generally less independent and rely heavily on their parents to do things. When they do anything, their first reaction is to hope that their parents can do it for them, and if they can't do it, they will shift the responsibility to others.

After entering society, children who grow up in "arranged families" will waver in dealing with problems, have no decision-making ability, and want to ask their parents for help over trivial matters.

3.Impolite.

Everyone probably encounters a "bully" at school when they go to school. These children never greet their elders when they see them. They like to bully other children at school and take other children's play pure reed utensils as their own.

It is precisely because the parents of these "little overlords" listen to their children for everything at home, and the children do what they say, and do not teach their children how to be polite people, which leads them to lose their temper with their elders and yell at other children casually.

Educating children is not an easy task. Although for many families, the child is the treasure of the whole family, which is "hidden in the mouth", there must be a certain degree of family affection.

Li Meijin, a parenting expert, once said in "Round Table Pie" that in order for children to develop good habits, families must make rules. These rules are best enforced around the age of 3 because the younger the child, the better it is to develop habits. The most important thing about "having a baby" is not just having a baby.

If you only have children and do not educate them, you are not fulfilling your parental responsibilities, which will also hurt your children's lives.