How can you forget someone who hurt you? And it s someone you ve loved with your heart.

True forgetting does not require effort, determine a clear direction of life, establish a goal, in short, let life become fulfilling, it is best to choose what you like, you can devote yourself physically and mentally to things, your thoughts will not drift around, and then you will feel tired at night, fall asleep, and you will not miss him, if your heart hurts, please arouse your happy memories in the past, don't think about the unhappiness of the present.

Well, similar to me, I recently broke up with my girlfriend who has been in love for 2 years and three months, I love her very much, but she betrayed me, and she was with other boys, and I couldn't stand it, when I saw their kissing **, I was going to collapse, it was really broken, but I knew that it was not right, and she couldn't come back from her pain, so I had to find something to do, listen to my favorite songs, and face life positively, you know, there is no hurdle that can't be praised, I'm still thinking about her now, but it's not as strong as before, Time passed slowly, and I also hadn't seen her for 11 days, so take me as an example, all you have to do now is not to see him, don't care about everything about him, you have to know that he doesn't belong to you anymore, you're over, you still have your own way to go, good luck.

In fact, it is impossible to truly forget, you can only forget, because if you really love, he will be in your heart. In life, we will encounter many things and people, so we remember the good, forget the pain, and face the reality, which is the real best life.

1.Throw away everything about the other person.

If you want to completely forget the person who hurt you, you must give up everything about the other person around you and don't hesitate.

Some people may say, I am reluctant to throw it away, I want to leave a memory and thoughts, remember not to think like this, because the damage left by that person to you can never be remedied, since you want to forget him, you have to let everything related to him disappear from your life.

If you still keep his things, you can only say that you are not ready to really want to forget him, you still want to forgive him, and let a person who has deeply hurt you still live in your heart, don't you feel sorry for yourself?

2.Keep yourself busy.

Don't let yourself have too much free time, there is a seemingly not very good sentence called "You are just idle panic, just find something for you to do", existence is reasonable, since this sentence exists must also have a certain truth, it reveals a very simple truth, once people are idle, the things in their minds are easy to become more.

What kind of mess is pouring into my head, and I am especially prone to sadness, feeling that I am alone, feeling that I have been hurt, feeling a little nostalgic for that person, and when the emotion reaches a breaking point, maybe I will contact that person.

3.Wait for time to dilute everything.

Time will dilute everything, believe in this sentence, no matter how painful and reluctant you have been, how reluctant you are, after a long time, everything will become indifferent. In the early stages when you intend to forget, it must be painful, and that memory will always pop into your mind and remind you of the moment when you were hurt.

But as long as you insist on forgetting, insisting on not bowing to memories, time will take away your pain, your scars.

People have feelings, it is impossible to be unconscious after being hurt, some hurts, there is no way to forgive, because it is a suffocating pain, it hurts when you touch it, it is lying there and there is no way to smooth it out.

There is a saying that to forget to hurt is to betray oneself. Because the scar is good and forgets the pain, it will continue to hurt again and again. There are two things in this world that cannot be looked at, one is the sun and the other is the human heart.

For the rest of your life, you don't have to embarrass yourself, and you don't have to take the time to forgive people and things that hurt you intentionally. Everyone is born with kindness, but be kind and measured. Some people, some things, you don't have to forgive, let alone pretend to be generous, you are not a saint.

Life is already hard, and we don't need to dwell on the hurt and pain. The injuries you have experienced still hurt every time you think about them, but obsessing over these pains will only continue to consume your emotions, and even extend the sequelae of this injury to people and things in your life. There is a saying that after experiencing harm, you think that all people come with knives, and later I can realize that when we reach a kind of emotional peace, we can treat people and things more rationally.

You can not forgive it, but you must reconcile with yourself, what kind of attitude towards life should we have, to face everything we have, to deal with the harm we encounter, to be a person with positive energy, to live happily, to practice more, healthy and positive, optimistic and cheerful people. Let there be no more betrayal and hurt in the world.

If you want to completely forget a person, as if you have never known each other, it is impossible, you can only forget. Unless there is amnesia.

Possibly, you have to try to minimize her position in your mind. Time will make you forget slowly.

In fact, don't deliberately forget anything, that will only backfire. The best way to forget something is not to think about it. Go do something you love! Listen**, sing and read the book ......Make yourself happy and you won't remember the unhappy things anymore.

If you really want to forget about someone, learn to let go of something and let your mind go instead of thinking about it constantly, you will definitely think about it once in a while, and it is also inevitable. If you really love him so much, you have to spend your whole life forgetting, if you don't want to forget, please hide your love deep in your heart.

Of course, you can choose to leave, go to another city, and reduce contact with her, try not to inquire about her, and let time dilute her impression in your mind!

You can also treat your other her well to make up for the gap in your heart!

Why do you have to be an enemy if you can't be a lover!

I believe that many friends have many roads, and many enemies have many ways! It's just that the two of them don't talk about the past in the future! Start all over again!

Hope you are happy and happy!

It is absolutely impossible for a person to live a lifetime, never, if you have ever loved if you are hurt, you must cherish yourself, if the man you love deeply, he has hurt you, you want to forget that he has only one way, to fall in love with another person, although you don't like him, but he is good to you, that's enough! When time passes, you will forget that someone is good to you, this is because your feelings have been lost to the years!

Perhaps time is the best antidote.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastBrief heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself carve.

Forget something, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

We've loved someone deeply, and that person has loved us deeply. Later, for various reasons, we had to break up, so we felt pain and wanted to forget someone, but the more we tried to forget, it seemed that the more we couldn't forget, it was very painful. How can we forget someone who loved you and hurt you?

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart......What do you think it will be to give up, is it so easy to give up someone, and is it still called true love? Love will make you happy, and thinking of her "him" will be very happy and powerful.

But you know how you'll feel when you don't get her? Do you feel that the sky is falling, people are tired, and your heart is tired? I'm sure you've encountered it, because I've also encountered it now in trouble, in pain.

I can understand your feelings. I want to love so much, I give love, but she wants you to give up on her, I said I will, but is it really okay? When I was lonely, when I was lonely, I quietly thought of her, her voice, and every word she said, it was so unforgettable and heart-wrenching.

I really want to love, but I get a lot of pain, and my body and mind are haggard. Is this called abandonment? Therefore, it is impossible to give up a person you really love, you can only cry and remind yourself that you want to forget, to escape, although you don't want to, you are very unwilling, but what else can you do besides escaping?

I'm like that now, and I can understand your mood somewhat. If you want to let go, I think the best thing to do is to change your focus. Turn your attention to something else.