How can you forget someone who has hurt you?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-24
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming. The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

    Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't be upset. Now that it's over, let it pass, stretch out your arms and embrace the breeze to feel the spring, summer, autumn and winter.

    Cheer up and welcome a new day, you just don't have a chance with her on the road of life, there will be people who are destined for you to walk through the road of life with you. Believe it.

    Take a break for a while. Make the most of this time and do what you want. If you think it's right, do it.

    If you talk to your close friends, you will naturally feel better. Usually, you should often decompress yourself, and when you have troubles, don't drill the horns of the bull and think about the benefits. Slowly, the knots in my heart melted.

    Laughing at life, but also to cultivate an optimistic and open-minded healthy psychology. Lift your spirits, look to the future, and don't dwell on the love setbacks in front of you.

    Don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, let everything tend to be dull, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not easy to forget about a person, and it's a wise choice to let go of one. If you can let go of the things in your heart, then you can let go of everything.

    I can understand your feelings about you, but it's not so easy for people to forget (except for doing stupid things), especially for those who are deeply impressed in their minds.

    Maybe the occurrence of things means that we continue to think, constantly around but do not know how not to face, people are naturally not easy to forget a person, the more you want to forget things and people will make things backfire, only know how to let go, let go of some things in your heart, naturally it doesn't matter, even if you can't forget it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Who doesn't have fireworks in their lives? Who doesn't have a peach blossom in their life? Whose memory is not a back that was once far away?

    Whose love is not a cruel book. Love is far away, memories are transparent colors, and gradually the original colors are not visible. Love does not change everything you have and are now because you cry, after all, the tears are not as thick as your emotional journey for many years, even if you are in tears.

    Love doesn't believe in tears, and tears don't believe in love! Whatever it is. No matter what the emotion.

    Love, hate. Sad. Joy will fade with time.

    will be carried away by the years. "Forget" the past, cherish the present, and look forward to the future. This is our happy life.

    There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.

    For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy.

    Don't let this turn into pain. Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy.

    Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Forget. A heartache ...

    In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others, and as long as you have a little bit of something that can be related to the past, you can't forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ...

    Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime... That's love!

    Deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, let everything tend to be flat, what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, over time, it will slowly fade.

    Think about how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's hard to try to forget love.

    It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget that you don't want to forget.

    Remember. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You don't have to deliberately recall, if you love him, maybe you will find that he has made you understand a truth again. Let you know how to treat the people you like. Others don't choose you, maybe you're not good enough.

    He's just a guest that God has arranged for you. Forget. There is no need, knowing yourself and facing life bravely is happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you don't really want to forget, then no one can help you, some things, the more you try to forget, the more it means that you care, when you don't care, you don't need to work hard to forget ......If Nufu Sakura's judgment can't change anything, just let it be!!

    I've been struggling for nearly 10 years, but I still haven't found an effective way to forget, so I want to tell you, don't waste time, there's nothing to help you forget, you're looking for a way to forget, and you're deepening your memory, which will only backfire, so you should go with the flow......

    In fact, there are still many beautiful things in life waiting for us to discover; Love, not all, try to divert your attention, maybe the mood will be better, and life will be a little better......

    Many people fall into it and can't climb out, and there is no antidote to this, and they must bear it; I always only know how to enlighten others, and I can't find my own antidote;

    I don't know what bad things I did to him in my previous life, and I can't forget how hard I tried in this life, and sometimes I think: maybe I tortured him like this in my last life.

    So, I got better.

    If you really can't figure it out, think so too! Maybe you'll be more comfortable......Go out early and give yourself a little more chance! You'll reap another piece of ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Loving someone can take days or hours to fall in love.

    But if you want to forget someone, I tell you, it's very difficult, to love someone, it's really disturbing.

    It's a lot of money that can't be bought back with the so-called money.

    Now that you have already paid, do you feel that you can give him a heart that you can ask for a slow back?

    Time is the best job. Tools, use your time to pass the time; The heart is empty.

    Don't hate anyone, don't think about forgetting anyone.

    The more you try to forget about him, the more you end up remembering him so deeply.

    Even every detail and every process must be clearer than the original.

    Go singing, and if you don't want to, you can call a friend out and play.

    Play in the dark, don't say why you are like this.

    It might be better to say it, but then you'll be even more sad!

    Love or not, it's all so helpless.

    whether or not to get a feeling; From the day of love, I knew that love was destined to be lost.

    There is no guarantee of the current relationship.

    No, never.

    It's the same as not knowing tomorrow.

    All we have to do is to grasp the present day and live it ourselves.

    Hehe, it's good to be happy and unhappy, because that's life.

    Hurt this is love, because this is the love now.

    If you want to forget, just grasp the present.

    If you don't want to forget that'Just look for it! Find someone you like.

    That can be mended in mud, but there won't be a medicine that completely ** this injury

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