What kind of husband and woman are happy?

I don't know, my husband has a lot of shortcomings, but I'm very happy with him.

What does a woman's happiness need, what does it take to come when Bi Zao comes, so that a woman can be happy, when she is short of money, she wants to find a hand who can make money. When all the best friends are together, she wants her handsome husband to be her husband when her parents need to be hospitalized. In short, women are fickle and sensual.

Clause. 1. You will not be disliked by the other party's family. Although it is not very much advocated now, many families are still the same, and if they feel that they have strength, they will dislike families who do not have strength.

Clause. 2. You will not be bullied by the other party's family. Many people like to find wealthy families, but you have no right to speak when you marry in, and you often keep your voice low, and you are bullied and dare not speak. And the right family will not.

Clause. 3. You can help each other and support each other. The right family plays a very good role in each other's career and life, and if the difference in strength is too great, they will be rejected or even ignored.

In the end, it is not difficult to find the right marriage, the difficult thing is to find a suitable person to be with you, otherwise you will not feel happy even if you are the right person.

This feeling is very happy, let's take a woman as an example to illustrate, what kind of woman will be happy:

Gentle and considerate woman.

Men looking for a wife have to live, so when they really marry a wife, men pay more attention to the woman's character, not just her appearance. We all know that there is a common phenomenon, the more successful the career, the more capable men are, the wives around them are rarely as beautiful as flowers, and most of them are mediocre, which also shows that men will not judge people by their appearance.

A gentle and considerate wife can make a man feel the love of his wife and the warmth of the family, and give him a sense of security and happiness. In a family, if either spouse can get this feeling in the spouse, such a marriage is successful and happy.

With a stable family and a virtuous wife, a man can not be distracted, devote himself to work and career, and be willing to work hard for the family. A good woman can bring out the greatest potential to a man, and let a man's ability to earn wealth be brought into full play, and he will naturally become richer and richer.

Maybe in real life, I have indeed seen a man get rid of his wife after he has money, but it is rare to see a man who quarrels every day with a lot of money.

Wise woman.

As long as a smart woman is of the same mind as a man, she will always be a good helper for a man's work and career. After all, a person's wisdom is limited, and with such a woman as a wife, a man will be more satisfied. Huki.

Whether at work or in business, a man will always get good advice and strategies from his wife to help him avoid risks and start his career. As the saying goes, behind a successful man there must be a good woman. In the family, the role of the wife is not only the man's partner, but also the man's friend and career assistant.

Very popular, especially stupid for yourself and your family in the future.

As a man, he was able to support his family and get home from work with a hot meal. The wife is gentle and virtuous, the children are motivated and sensible, do something they like in their spare time, play games and see**.

If you have money, of course, you can also travel, which is a man's happiness.

As a woman, it is a woman's happiness to have a stable job of her own, so that she has the confidence not to reach out for money, her husband is considerate to her family, her children are filial, her family is harmonious, she is young and beautiful;

Every type of person has their own sense of happiness, and I think this kind of happiness is not the same, just like Mr. Lu Xun said

The joys and sorrows of human beings are not the same, I only think that he is hungry and noisy.

Nowadays, people like to stand on the moral high ground to evaluate others.

However, it is impossible for human individuals to empathize with these four words emotionally, because this sentence itself will be interpreted in the following way when understood in the current society:

1. Most of the time we don't care about the feelings of strangers at all, because this society makes everyone feel tired, and even if we want to care, we may be misunderstood for Tonghuai with other colors; 2. When we care about others, we don't actually understand the development of things, but we just try to understand from our own perspective, so we are undoubtedly creating a fake intimate relationship and trying to pull in the relationship with each other in this way; 3. If you connect everything with yourself, the weight you feel in your heart is indescribable.

In my opinion, if a woman wants to be happy in a relationship, she must first recognize what kind of man she is, what kind of personality traits and work habits she has.

Some men can make you happy, and some men will make you miserable.

Some men will help you grow, and some men will lower your pattern a little bit and consume your energy.

A man who has the following five traits will give you happiness:

1. A hard-working and kind man.

A hard-working person will never be too bad in his life. Good people are full of compassion for the world.

2. An open-minded man.

Such a person will not be careful, see things widely, and have enough tolerance.

3. A man who keeps learning.

Learning will make a person excellent, and learning will also make a person humble.

He knows his shortcomings and can see yours. He is growing, and you around him will also benefit from it.

4. A man with many friends and generosity.

Friends are connections and are a powerful social support system.

Article**5 There are often good signs that women hate men and have many friends, in fact, you don't have to mind, we women can also have our own friends and girlfriend circles.

Life is not only about love and marriage, friends are also a very important kind of emotional support.

5. A down-to-earth, careful and cautious man.

Even if such a man is just an ordinary salaryman, he can give you real happiness.

For married couples, in the daily life of two people, often the other party has some details that will move them from the heart, especially for some girls, when their husbands have some actions that make them feel particularly careful and warm, they will really feel that they have married the right person, and they will be proud and proud of this marriage, in fact, these actions are a small detail and unintentional move between their husbands inadvertently.

For example, in the process of getting along with husband and wife on a daily basis, if the wife works hard every day, but when she comes home from work, she finds that her husband is guarding her at the door every day, and after she goes home, her husband has already prepared the meal, then she will have a feeling of happiness and sweetness from the heart, and she will truly realize that she has married the right person and found a lover who is truly considerate of herself.

For example, when you encounter certain setbacks and difficulties in your life and career, and your mood is not very good, your husband can tolerate herself and take the initiative to enlighten herself, help you analyze problems, solve problems, and reflect your maturity and responsibility.

Of course, the most critical factor in the process of getting along between husband and wife is to understand each other, tolerate each other and respect each other, and many times learn to empathize, only in this way can they leave a deeper impression on each other

And the following, above the middle three, your marriage is almost a widowed marriage.

1. Don't give love.

The feelings are mutual. It doesn't matter if a woman is tired, but she has to give love. And some men are still looking for Xiao San outside, feeling that the house flowers are not as fragrant as wild flowers. When I got home, I kept counting women for this is not good, which is not good.

2. Don't give money.

It is a matter of course for a man to earn money to support his family. But some men earn money and only care about themselves and their families. It is very clear about every expenditure, and the wife is like a thief.

3. Do not accompany.

I have to be busy with work during the day, and I come home at night and fall asleep. Finally, on the weekend, I was either holding my phone or playing games. doesn't care about his wife at all, and leaves his children and wives far away.

4. Don't look at your children.

Women often take care of children alone, which is already very hard. When the man came home and asked him to help watch the children, he was unwilling. I know that lying on the sofa and watching TV, as if the child is a forgiving woman alone.

5. Don't do housework.

Laundry, cooking, cleaning, big and small things at home, women take care of everything. The man holds the pie but does not give a clever congratulatory sentence of comfort or praise. As if everything a woman does is taken for granted.

Get along with each other sincerely, and pay attention to the similarities and differences of the other person in the case of touching. What do you like, what you are afraid of, what you need, what are your own, and what are the aspects of the area that you value and focus on each other, for example, whether you value friends of the opposite sex, take care of others, filial piety to your parents, sense of family responsibility, enterprising spirit at work, principles of dealing with people, quality of leisure and entertainment, relationship and quality of friends at home, etc., in general, a person must learn to love others, not love deeply!

For women, marriage is like a long gambling session, and when you meet an unreliable man, you will leave yourself in debt. More and more people are aware that marriage is a long-distance race, but on this track, partnering with people who do not agree with the three views will only make each other feel uncomfortable.

The various flavors of life cannot be shared together, communication is like a pheasant turning into a phoenix, and walking together will eventually become difficult. Honesty and kindness are the key qualities of a man. Whether you're working or running your own business, integrity is crucial for a man.

It's hard to imagine that a duplicitous guy will make his woman happy. A man with a good heart will undoubtedly be pampered by his own woman. Open-mindedness is the basic quality of a man.

It's hard to imagine what it is like to live with a calculating boy for a long time. When you come across a little thing that doesn't matter, you blame each other, and even the best feelings will be diluted by endless disputes. The details of a person's life determine her future development prospects.

It is difficult to create a new world of people listless all day long, only the life is full of market prospects, with a positive and optimistic concept of life, can make your life sun explode! From the point of view of the old idea that the door is not a household. When a woman chooses a husband, she should choose a male man in the family who corresponds to the characteristics of Chinese and the economic level of her mother's family as her husband.

As long as we watch a lot of TV clips of mothers pinching each other or the real world. The main reason for this is that the door is not the right one. Because of this, the seemingly dull sense of finding a partner is still very much used in today's society.

When it comes to getting married, I think it's even more important to choose the right man for you. Because marriage is a matter of two families, it is more important to choose the right person.

Here's my opinion:

When we are young, we may not hesitate to choose to say "like is more important", but as we get older, as we get older, we can responsibly look like you: the right thing is the most important thing.

Maybe like a person, really only exist in the good years, the longer the more we have to face the real problem, we can't escape the house, the car, the bride price, and all kinds of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea after marriage. When you are in love, you can not care about the other party's financial ability, but marriage is a real hurdle for firewood, rice, oil and salt. I didn't understand why a woman would rather cry in a BMW than laugh on a bike.

used to think that feelings are the first, and love without feelings is a plate of loose sand. Now I seem to understand a little bit, maybe I have seen a lot of parts and combinations, I have also tasted the joys and sorrows of life, and I know the benefits of money, so now I can understand the choices of some people.

I heard a friend say before: I went on a blind date with 2 objects, one had a room but was a little short, and the other was tall and handsome but had no room, and I struggled all night. As a result, neither of them took a fancy to me.

You see, not everyone is eligible to choose to cry while sitting in a BMW. Not everyone is willing to be single, which is the same reason as not going to Tsinghua University in the first place, not because they don't want to go, but because their strength does not allow it. When girls value something from men, men are also thinking about girls' conditions.

If you like it, it's suitable. will change subtly over time, and what you didn't like before may gradually fall in love; What you thought was right before will also make you suddenly feel as if it is not as in tune as you imagined.

So, take the average between what you like and what you like. We're on a par, you're good, and I'm not bad. Two people work together, most of the three views are similar, and a few complement each other, which is probably a stable marriage.