Broke up He had to wait for me, and after the breakup he found another her, should I continue to wai

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Emotional matters cannot be delayed, and if they drag on, the damage will be greater.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Little sister, now is the ** period of reading, and you must not miss your studies because of this! Otherwise, you'll regret it for the rest of your life! I'm from here, too! Academics come first, don't think too much about anything else!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then let him wait

    Men will only pursue what they can't get

    Since you want to break off the relationship, you have to be ruthless

    Don't pay attention to him, after a while, you will find out that he has a new love.

    Be sure to explain it to the guy who confessed to you.

    Otherwise, I wouldn't even have friends.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    But remember one sentence: it is better to be the one who is waiting than to wait for others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    To say that many people complain about their ex-boyfriends after a breakup, in fact, it is often because of the improper way they handle their feelings, forcing their ex-boyfriends, giving their ex-boyfriends the idea of finding a new love, and also giving the new love a chance. So do you understand? When a new person comes along, your problem is not to solve that person, but to change your identity and solve the problem between the two of you.

    The new love may seem like a terrible mountain between you, but it doesn't really make much of a difference. Because the root of the problem lies in your relationship.

    A new love within 1-3 months after a breakup belongs to a ** relationship. In this case, the new love is actually because the person involved automatically started after the breakup"Self-defense system", trying to escape the inner blame and the pain of the breakup by looking for someone else. Relationships rarely last long.

    Because this relationship is ultimately an inner self-escape, the result of a strong sense of need after a breakup, and there is still a long way to go from love. So, if you can tolerate it, you can wait and see what happens. I still don't want to give up.

    After parting, I finally understood that I loved him so much. Before, when he was around me, I lacked a sense of crisis and thought that he would not leave me, so I was a little spoiled and a little arrogant. Therefore, I do not regret the experience of separation.

    If we get married as scheduled, we won't change each other after marriage. There will be a definite number of repressions in life, and one day one party will not insist and end in divorce. A new life has already begun, living without you.

    So it's disrespectful to you to wait for him like this, even if you can wait for him to break up with his new love, then he may not come back to you, so it's not worth waiting for at all.

    The above is a detailed interpretation of the problem, I hope it will help you, if you have any questions, you can leave me a message in the comment area, you can comment with me, if there is something wrong, you can also interact with me more, if you like the author, you can also follow me, your like is the biggest help to me, thank you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In a relationship, if a man and a woman break up, the other party has a new love. Then this relationship is mostly irretrievable. You can also start a new life as soon as possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You shouldn't continue to wait for him, you should improve yourself, work well, dress yourself up very attractively, and make him regret it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    No, he already has a home, and you need to let him go.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is recommended that you let go of him at this time, because he has found another her, there is no place for you, and the relationship between the two of you is irretrievable in his heart.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    That. Since you are waiting for him, it means that you are very fond of him in your heart, and you like him very much, so you want to wait for him to really remember your goodness.

    Waiting for someone, I don't know if I'm waiting for him to get married, or waiting for him to break up.

    Hello, it's a pleasure to be able to answer for you, now you are waiting for someone. So what is his specific situation now? That. Since you are waiting for him, it means that you are very fond of him in your heart, and you like him very much, so you want to wait for him to really remember your goodness.

    I'm waiting for someone, he has a girlfriend, but I like him very much, and I won't bother their relationship. I'm 26 years old this year, I can't let go of him, my family introduced a blind date, and I'm actually afraid of becoming a leftover girl. I don't know what I'm waiting for.

    Dear, you are waiting for him now, in fact, you understand that it is a sincerity that understands that he can change his mind and be with you again.

    But you have to think about it, he has a girlfriend now, so if he has a particularly good relationship with his girlfriend, then slowly they will enter the palace of marriage, which is actually very cruel for you, even if you wait for him, but he is already married, can you wait for him?

    If he gets married, I'll probably let it go completely.

    Kiss. So he's not married now, and you think there's hope. But you're just waiting for you now, you're not doing anything, you're waiting for so long, you've been giving, but you're not getting anything in return, that's not going to work.

    But I really don't want to know anyone else now, and I can't bother him.

    Kiss. You don't want to know anyone else right now, and you don't want to bother him, but he is important to you, and you have to confess your heart to him.

    The teacher still advises you to confess your heart, if you don't express your own heart, then he will not understand you. If you go on like this, you'll just have to wait.

    Can you guarantee that even if he breaks up with this object of his, his next relationship will be with you?

    If he can't develop a crush on you, the teacher doesn't recommend waiting.

    It's impossible to confess, he has a girlfriend.

    Dear, it's not for you to confess now, it's for you to express your own feelings for him. Let you touch his heart first, if he breaks up with his girlfriend in the future, then he will think of you for the first time.

    And in everyday life, you also have to permeate your own concern for him.

    The two of us used to be classmates, but now I don't have the opportunity to meet him.

    Dear, aren't you two lighting a fire in the same place now?

    Life. Yes in one place.

    Dear, since you are in a place, it is actually normal for you to contact him now, and the two of you are classmates now, so the two of you are also old acquaintances, and he will definitely say hello when he meets you, after all, they are old classmates.

    Does this guy know you like him?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Feelings are really a very magical kind of feelings, and a little thing will cause misunderstandings and damage the feelings between each other. Even if it's not sincere, if you make yourself sad, you will stick a knife into the other person's body, and then make the other person feel uncomfortable, and finally propose to break up. If you break up with a girl like that, most of them don't really want to break up, they are usually all cruel words, and on the surface, breaking up is actually to let you give her a ladder and actively redeem yourself.

    If you don't want to separate either, don't fail to understand the true meaning of these words:

    Maybe it's time for me to let go.

    Just like the bloody plot in the TV series, it is usually said that this sentence is only because your love is hindered by others. That's why she had to say something like that. It is very likely that according to her thoughts, this is also about you, but you feel sad that she must abandon you, so that there is a misunderstanding between each other.

    In any case, in the end, it is the relationship between the two of us that is damaged, so there is no need to be stupid and can't figure out what she really thinks.

    There's a good chance the two of us don't fit.

    Generally, these words are all said when there is a conflict between the two people, and the two people do not choose to compromise. This sentence is not suitable for everyone, usually full of helplessness in the heart, even if you are caught in a relationship and just want to keep yourself, you have to take into account the thoughts of the other party. It's really difficult, but true love can find a run-in period that belongs to two people, so don't worry, take your time, you will always be able to achieve a balance.

    You find someone else.

    This sentence is even more helpless than the previous sentence, the two of us have too many areas of disagreement, even if we still love each other deeply, but we don't want to make changes for each other, and the final result is only to separate from each other. If a girl asks you to break up like that, the real idea is that you can make changes for her, and don't avoid them as soon as they don't get along just to prevent an argument. But the more you accumulate like that, the more likely it is that the relationship between two people will go wrong.

    So when a girl says something like that, it's time for a boy to think about it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I think these attitudes are that although the girls said that they broke up, but they did not leave, and there were no clothes in the suitcase and then angry with each other, although they were very sad after the breakup, but they have been sitting next to their boyfriends to coax them, once this happens, most of them are waiting for the other party to come in to keep themselves.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Tell you that we are temporarily separated for a while, I should probably let go, we are not suitable, I don't want to fall in love, there is no need for the two of us to continue, if this is to break up with you, it means that we are waiting for you to stay.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    When I break up with you, I will say that you are not good to him, but I will also say good things about two people together, what two people have been together, and they will show special attention.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    First of all. I read your statement.

    I was impressed.

    If I had a girlfriend like you, I'd do anything.

    But now I want to help you ......

    You know the idea now.

    Recognize what kind of person he is.

    But he still came to you.

    Let you wait for him. Do you still have a glimmer of hope to give yourself to him?

    I don't think anyone wants to.

    I don't think he deserves true love for such a person.

    You don't want to leave him just yet.

    I guess this is your first love.

    I know. I deeply understand that men and women who fall in love for the first time will never forget each other in their lives.

    But that doesn't mean we have to be together.

    It's only been a few days since I was separated from him.

    Naturally, there are more or less feelings for him.

    But these are things that can be compensated for with time.

    It's been over 2 years since I fell out of love now.

    Over the past two years, I think his number of times has gradually decreased.

    But I was depressed for a few weeks after the breakup.

    I go out for a long run every day.

    Chat with friends.

    Even if it's nonsense.

    Slowly. The pain in my heart will be reduced.

    I trust your predecessor.

    Boyfriend. I'm still going to come to you.

    What will you do?

    Ever thought about it? I suggest you ignore him.

    Even if there is a lot of turmoil in my heart.

    But also pretend to be calm.

    Ignore him. for it is impossible for you.

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