The family of the boy who met on a blind date agreed, he was lukewarm, what should he do?

It's simple, there's no need to go down together. That's what I think anyway, maybe you're still hesitating because his parents like you very much.

In fact, it is also very happy to have in-laws like after getting married, and there are many girls who are rejected by the man's parents from the beginning, and I think you are lucky in this regard.

But the question is, do you want to live with him or with his parents? It mainly depends on his attitude, he is lukewarm to you, do you still expect to be happy from this family?

A husband who loves you will make in-laws who don't like you like you, but a husband who doesn't love you will make his parents no longer like you.

A husband plays a much more important role in the family than his wife, if he doesn't love you, it means that you have to support everything after you are together, and he will not be sincere or even act on the spot.

Now on a blind date, girls are very dominant, there is no need to waste time on the person who is hot and cold to you, today's hot and cold is tomorrow's if you leave, but when you look for him can't find it, you just wait to stay alone in the empty room and shed tears.

Girls can shop around for boys on blind dates, pick slowly, don't worry, you are not in a hurry to get married. No matter how good a girl is, she won't be able to find her in-laws, and no matter how good a boy is, there will be times when he can't marry a wife, so you have to wait slowly until the person who really loves you appears.

Finding someone who loves you is too important for marriage, women are easy to suffer, easy to pay both physically and mentally, and they will not hesitate to go to the soup for the sake of the family. If there is no man who loves you, you can wait and cry.

You are fortunate not to be engaged to him now, you can have a choice, don't listen to his parents give you ear voices, saying that my son is a slow-burning type, emotional matters can not be forced, my son we understand, he has you in his heart but it is not easy to speak, in case he doesn't like you, there are us he dare not dislike, he is not allowed to like others ......

If you take these words seriously, you will be really stupid, in short, don't believe it, don't believe it! Trust what your eyes see, trust your direct feelings about him as a person.

From ancient times to the present, it is a very common and normal thing for blind dates to become a family, and now there are many blind date programs coming out frequently.

In rural areas, especially during the New Year's holidays, young boys and girls who reach the age of 20 will be questioned by their parents plus seven aunts and eight aunts. Then it's the introduction of the blind date, even if it's disgusting and annoying, but it's still obedient according to their arrangement. Over and over again, go on a blind date and have a meal.

Even if he is dissatisfied, he still dare not live up to the hard work of relatives, friends and parents. So many people will listen to the arrangement of their families, as long as the boy has a car, a house and a job, it is called perfect, and as long as the girl is gentle and virtuous, it is suitable. But many times there is still a little bit of affection between them.

It is said that life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, and who lives it. But when you're not in the mood, even the delicacies of the mountains and the sea will feel tasteless. <>

If you go on a blind date one day, his family likes you in a thousand ways, but he doesn't want to look at you more. Then you must choose to give up, because a person who loves you will care about everything about you and care about your mood. Maybe you're just right in the eyes of others.

Therefore, marriage and love are like shoes that fit your own feet, only you know.

Don't end being single just because you're old, don't make the wrong choice because of other people's eyes, and don't do things against your heart because of that little bread. If you want to go on a blind date, one day you will have bread and love. It's just that you are a generous woman, and I don't think I can tolerate the lukewarmness of the other half, so ignore it.

After all, marriage is not a matter of one or two days, but a decision that takes a lifetime, and here I advise those who are confused because of blind dates to always need love once in their lives. Whether it is to love or to be loved, life will not be so sad. <>

To love me is to let me know, to love me is to make me feel. I only be a treasure in the palm of your hand, and I don't want it to be lukewarm or hot.

As a boy, I prefer to express it, love if you love, and don't love if you don't.

Find out more from yourself, do your parents know about your boyfriend? Have you ever told your family that you have a boyfriend? These are all things you have to figure out, it is understandable for the old man to deal with your marriage, after all, the man should get married, the woman should get married, and you must face this reality when you reach a certain age.

As for what you said about having a boyfriend at home and asking you to go on a blind date, I will help you analyze it from two perspectives.

1.The family doesn't know that you have a boyfriend, and at this time, you will be introduced to the blind date, and you will deal with it correctly

Sit down calmly and communicate with your family, and inform that you already have a boyfriend, and tell your state, so that the old people in the family do not force themselves to go on a blind date, after all, the relationship is to choose a suitable life to go on, get along day and night, rather than to live, a good life is definitely emotional harmony, rather than arbitrary, in the ideology to let the old people empathize, do not put their ideas on their own body, the new society, to choose a person who loves each other, not like feudal society.

That's casual.

2.Your family knows that you have a boyfriend and still asks you to go on a blind date, so it's time to find the reason for it on yourself

If you already have a boyfriend getting along, and your family knows about the existence of your boyfriend, and deliberately lets you go on a blind date, you should pay attention to it at this time, which is obviously your man's family background, appearance, or character, etc., so that your family is dissatisfied and does not meet the standards expected by your family, and they are checking for you with their eyes. Think more about where your boyfriend is not doing well, if it is a family problem, you can use rational ideas to convince your family, if it is a character defect, you must let your boyfriend change himself, and then face your family in a new state, change his image in the eyes of your parents, you also need to explain the misunderstanding to your parents at the same time, or ideas, communicate more, communicate more, understand your parents' psychological motivations, and change your boyfriend to make him better.

Now you have a boyfriend, but the family still wants you to go on a blind date, I think in this case you should tell the family directly, you already have a boyfriend, the family wants you to go on a blind date, nothing more than want you to find a boyfriend, but when they know that you already have a boyfriend, then there is no need to go on a blind date, so in this case, you should tell the family directly, in fact, you already have a boyfriend, and you still don't get along with each other.

Tell your parents the fact that you have a boyfriend, although he does not have a stable job, but you are optimistic about him at a certain point, hoping to be with him, and open up to your parents that parents love their children, they only want you to live well, thinking that you can be happy if you find a stable job, and this is not necessarily the case, you can also marry a future happiness with an unstable income. Let them see that your determination will not force you. The premise is that you think your boyfriend is worthy of you.

In such a situation, you have to make it clear to your family, tell them that you already have a boyfriend, and let them know that your boyfriend is very good to you, so that your family can rest assured, and then take your boyfriend home and let your parents see it, only then they will feel at ease to hand you over to him.

If you have a boyfriend, you can tell your family that you like your boyfriend more, you don't need to believe it, you believe that you can't meet someone you like, tell your family about your love for your boyfriend, don't let them force yourself.

I think at this time, you can tell me that you don't want to be a half-hearted person in your family, but want to be a single-minded person. And it's very unethical to do so.

If you say that you already have a boyfriend and your family still wants to go on a blind date by yourself, I think you should be very clear to refuse the other party and tell him that you already have feelings and don't need to go on a blind date anymore.

If you already have a boyfriend, but the family insists on letting you go on a blind date, then you can tell your boyfriend about the situation first, and if your boyfriend agrees, you can go to your house together.

Be decisive and say that you don't go on a blind date once, and then talk to your family more about your boyfriend's good words, as well as your beautiful plans for the future, to give your family a sense of security, and they won't force a blind date.

You can directly tell your family what is in your heart, I have a very good conversation with him now, and both of them are very happy and happy, I hope the two of us can go on forever, so I actually have friends, why go on a blind date?

If you already have a boyfriend and your family wants you to go, I believe you can explain your situation to your family, so that the family will reconsider.

I think you should explain the situation to your family. Tell them you have a boyfriend and show them your attitude.

In fact, you can refuse very firmly, because this is the best for yourself.

Tell my parents that I already have a boyfriend, and if I want to go to you, I won't go. Then you introduce the good things about your boyfriend to your parents and dispel them.

Don't make it clear, you haven't decided on the relationship yet, and if you make it clear, he will think that you are forcing him to take a stand. If he really has a crush on you, you can take the initiative, but you have to be careful not to make him feel that you are frivolous. If he doesn't mean anything to you, don't take the initiative, so it's good for you, lest he be disgusted with you.

You've just met, don't be too anxious, slow down. If he is interesting to you, you can ask him out more, have more contact with him, get to know him better, and if you think he is good, you can continue to contact him.

In the past, many female friends were very resistant to blind dates, but in recent years, blind dates are more and more popular with everyone, especially by female friends. Some blind date men will also show a lukewarm attitude after the blind date, and some female friends can't bear these attitudes at all. So is the blind date man lukewarm and dragging it out?

Here is a detailed answer to this question.

First of all, it is necessary to understand the reasons why the blind date man is lukewarm and dragging these reasons:

1. When the woman is a spare tire.

When the blind date man is in contact with you at the same time, he is also in contact with other women, and there will be a tepid attitude, maybe your appearance or family or some aspects are not up to standard.

2. I don't like the woman and am not satisfied with the woman, but because of the matchmaker's face, it is difficult to refuse, and I want the woman to slowly retreat.

3. The blind date male personality is relatively slow to heat, and he is not very good at communicating with people, and he will have a sense of distance from people he doesn't know, so this will happen.

In general, the blind date man can find out if he is lukewarm, directly say his feelings, and look at the blind date man's response and attitude to decide whether to continue to understand, or he can continue to observe.

Since we agreed to let you go to dinner together, let's have a good face-to-face talk.

If you don't see each other and don't understand, how do you know if you can be together?

It's lukewarm because everyone is not familiar with it, so it's like this.

When everyone is familiar with it, it won't feel lukewarm, and there will be more topics.

The blind date man may have a good impression of you at first, and he is very active in chatting and everything. But you may be too reserved, and he doesn't feel that you have feelings for him. After a little time, he doesn't want to take the initiative, after all, everyone will be tired after taking the initiative for a long time.

2. The blind date man may not be very satisfied with you at first, but think of his objective conditions, convince himself, ignore the points that are dissatisfied with you, and decide to make good contact. But then I found that there was still no call, so it cooled down. (It might be a matter of your appearance, height, or whatever.)

But don't be discouraged, little sister, you will meet your beloved! )

What to do: 1. In the face of situation 1 (the man was initially very active and enthusiastic), if you also have feelings for the other party, but you are a little shy, reserved, etc., you can try to take the initiative, turn the tide, usually take the initiative to talk to others, and hint that you also have feelings for him, such as WeChat chat to have some small routines, he will definitely understand what you mean

2. In the face of situation 2 (the man was very active at first, but he showed dissatisfaction with you in the process of getting along), girls are actually sensitive, boys are more mindful of you, you actually have feelings, you can take the blind date man may not be very satisfied with your point to test it. If you don't want to end it cold, it won't be too embarrassing.

Situation 2: Lukewarm all the time.

Analysis: 1. Slow heating.

In fact, there will be some boys who are not very good at chatting with girls and opening up the topic, they will be slower to heat up, and they may not like you so much, and they are slowly getting acquainted with you.

2. I don't particularly like you, but it's a pity to abandon you. A man's liking must be active, and he has been tepid, maybe he thinks that your conditions are okay, and it's a pity to give up, but he doesn't particularly like it. So while contacting you, I will see if there is a better blind date girl who has been lukewarm to you.

What to do: 1. To deal with a slow-burning blind date man who has been lukewarm, you can see what the purpose of your blind date is, if it is love and marriage, then this is really unnecessary.

Blind dates are fast-paced, and the purpose is to get married. Is it because you came out to meet more friends? If you like people to come out and get in touch, quickly warm up your feelings

2. Deal with the blind date man who hangs you in the second situation, and believe in your sixth sense.

bar. You think he's in contact with someone else, and that's probably the case.

Writing here, in fact, when two people get along, your feelings are very sensitive, and you can feel more or less what the situation of a lukewarm blind date man is. If the online chat doesn't feel clear, go to the offline meeting to feel it. In the face of a blind date man riding a donkey looking for a horse, hurry up and go as far as you can.

Finally, I wish you all a smooth blind date and find your other half as soon as possible