I m very unconfident now, I m afraid that he will leave me, or like another girl, what should I do?

If you want others to love yourself, you must first love yourself.

First become an independent person so that others can love you.

You are too dependent on him and have no life of your own, which may seem sweet to him at first, but this is not a long-term solution, and after a long time, he will feel that his burden is very heavy.

He said that he wants you to live the life you want, probably means that you don't have your own ideals, or is your ideal to help him achieve a career? If that's the case, I advise you to think about your ideals.

I've been told this by my boyfriend before, and he said, what do you want to do yourself? was in a wandering state for a while, but later realized that independence is a kind of beauty.

Independence includes economic independence and spiritual independence Economic independence, it is easy to understand, to earn money for yourself, to earn enough for your own spending; Mentally independent, it should be said that in addition to your boyfriend, you have other friends, your own hobbies, your own ideals, and your own personality.

In addition, you must be yourself, I like him, I want to be with him forever to capture his heart, not to directly monitor him every day to go to ** with whom he did something, but to increase his charm, I believe that no matter how beautiful he is in **, no matter how beautiful a woman he meets, he will definitely like me.

Wishing you happiness!

It's better to grow up, talk to him more about what he wants to know in the future, and his age won't be too old. At this time, if you don't handle it well, you can only score points. He took care of you for three years.

It's up to you! Isn't it the same to take care of his mind and heart. And with the action that has been taken!

Looks like me a few years ago!

Learn to share the burden for him and strive to be a better woman, so that the relationship can be strong.

Tell him how much you love him! He'll cherish it! He gives you the opportunity to grow, so you can exercise yourself, and when you show a new self in front of him, he will be more surprised and appreciate you! Come on! You are the best!

If he likes him, he will do what he says, and what he says is right

Remember, girls who are excellent and worthy of being loved and loved by others will be reserved

Because you care too much about him.

Here's my answer, just a personal opinion:

The best way to do this is to make yourself a better version of yourself.

1.In front of the people you like, you will have low self-esteem. If you like someone, there must be something about him that you admire. This will make you always feel unworthy of him, which is a normal feeling. As Zhang Ailing said, humble to the dust.

2.The next thing to do is to keep making yourself better, and your low self-esteem will be reduced. The second is to understand each other more and know a person more clearly and comprehensively, so as to better judge whether the person is really worthy of liking.

Hope it helps, thank you!

This is normal and shows that you love him very much.

In front of someone you really love, most of them will not be confident. Edition fall in love with someone and you will.

Kwon thinks he's the best person in the world, and you can't help but think of him as tall and perfect.

That's why I feel humble and unworthy of him.

If he loves you, he will have this mentality too.

Don't worry too much about it, just let it be.

Maybe she's too good, if not, then it's unnecessary, people seem to be easy to lose self-confidence when they first fall into a relationship, always afraid of not being worthy of others, easy to feel inferior, in fact, it's not necessary, get along more, be confident.

Be brave and look at her.

I read a post the other day and said myself.

I met a girl on a chair in the park, and I was immediately attracted to it, and I felt that I was the so-called love at first sight. The girl sat on the other side of the chair, and the two of them sat together for more than ten minutes, and they didn't dare to say a word, and the girl looked at herself several times, but she just didn't dare to look at the girl, until she stared at the girl she liked and walked away. I'm anxious about this whole thing.

You say that there is a vast sea of people, once you go away, where do you find it? If you do the same, tell you, you have to be brave enough to look at that girl, and then smile at that girl kindly, if the girl doesn't give you a roll of the eyes, you can just say hello. Remember not to grin silly, it will scare people away.

There is a saying: Eat enough with thick skin, but you can't eat with thin skin. As long as you don't pretend to be a hooligan and play a scoundrel, express yourself boldly. Maybe people are waiting for you to express it bravely, but it's best to have the rejection of the blow of loss to deal with the thoughts.

First of all, you have to learn to be confident, and after you have self-belief, you will naturally have different daos

People like you, and it's easy to feel inferior if you don't have self-confidence.

If you have an inferiority complex, you can't open your mouth, so you can get in touch with the outside world more, contact others more, learn some knowledge, and make yourself confident.

First of all, you have to learn to be confident, after you have self-confidence, you will naturally have others like you, without self-confidence, it is easy to feel inferior, and if you have an inferiority complex, you can't open your mouth, contact more with the outside world, contact with others, learn some knowledge, and make yourself confident.

Make yourself better, and at the same time believe in yourself and cheer yourself up.

But continue to chase for a while, if you really can't make any progress, then give up, there are indeed some girls with eyes above the top and self-esteem, the more you chase, the more proud she becomes.

No matter how proud a girl is, she also has her own preferences, as long as you figure out what she likes, start from her liking, and slowly approach her, sooner or later she will fall.

Give it up. According to this girl's character, you can easily become a dog licker, and licking the dog will not end up well, and even if you are really with this girl in the future, you will have a hard time.

Improve your strength, make yourself better, and if you are better, others will accept you.

Take a good inventory of what you are good at, and then work this strength, and when you have enough skills to conquer everyone, she will be conquered by you.

You can be a little more attentive to her, so confident and proud that girls are afraid of being hurt, she may just be testing you, if you choose not to give up, you still have a chance.

Accompany, companionship is a confession of long-term affection, I believe that sooner or later girls will see your excellence and accept you.

Most of these girls have something to be proud of, and in order to match her, you have to work hard to make yourself better.