Is a lonely soul a matter of personality?

A lonely soul is, of course, a personality problem, but it does not exclude the size of your life circle, for example, my circle is very small, although there are only three people during work, but I don't feel lonely! At least someone was with me.

If your loneliness is due to your unwillingness to actively communicate with others, that is your problem. Think about it for yourself, how is it possible that everyone will take the initiative to approach you? You're not a very special person, you're just an ordinary person.

The first thing you have to do is to open your heart and try to socialize with people, think about your life when you were a student, how many boys and girls gathered around to whisper about themselves, discuss how many levels of the game they have played recently, don't you envy the feeling of happiness?

I don't believe that none of your classmates took the initiative to greet you when you were a student, so how you responded to them after saying hello is very important. If you are the kind of very cold simple name that is definitely not good, first of all, you have to learn to smile, smile is the best language of human beings, a smile will make people let go of all their defenses and then get along with you, so that you will slowly have your own bosom friends.

Human beings are social animals, and no one can stand loneliness, and although it is difficult for a person to change his lonely personality, it is not impossible. Personally, I think that you are a lonely soul, but it is better to say that you are a self-protective soul, you are afraid of the harm caused to you by the outside world, and the human heart is unpredictable, and you don't want the good friends you have made so hard to end up just using your relationship, or betraying you, robbing your boyfriend and girlfriend, etc., but how can you know what the other party's character is if you don't try? Not all the world is a bad person, if you really feel unsure, read more books on psychology and cooperate with strangers!

I'm sure you're going to change this lonely soul of yours.

I don't think it's a personality problem, maybe some people think that there are people with more withdrawn personalities, more independent personalities, and people who like to be alone are lonely people. Actually, I don't think so. I think loneliness is a relatively high realm, loneliness is not affected by others, a person can complete their own things well, and having a lonely soul is what I pursue.

In today's economic era, our economy is booming, and people's lives are fast-paced, so everyone is impetuous, not quiet, and difficult to be calm. I want my life to be quiet and free. And loneliness often allows us to do these things.

Loneliness is not just about eating alone, walking alone, reading alone, but more importantly, your heart is at peace and your soul is transparent. I used to think that loneliness was not because I had a bad personality, and then I didn't like to talk to others, I didn't like other people to be noisy, and I liked to stay in a quiet place. But slowly I found that loneliness is not only determined by personality, but more importantly, my own heart, only when the heart is there, the soul is there.

Loneliness is also a lot of benefits for us, I remember that every time I calm down and try to be myself, many things will be unexpectedly good. On the contrary, once you have conflicts with others, when there are contradictions, you will never be able to do this well, and you will not be able to complete the task and study well if the knots are not solved in your heart. I have a better play, she often asks me to accompany her to do that and do this, anyway, every day I want to accompany her to do things, sometimes I really feel that I am good alone, maybe this is an escape.

I hope you also have a lonely soul, but not a lonely heart.

I think this kind of depends on the acquired environment, born as clean as a blank paper, but later with the change of the environment. Otherwise, how could there be a story of Meng's mother's three migrations.

Where does your personality come from, it is not caused by the surrounding environment, and the hearts of people who grow up in a healthy and happy environment are generally not distorted to **, on the contrary, those who grow up in an environment of intrigue and intrigue are not sunny, except for a few people, of course.

Many times because the environment you are in is very dark, and you are tired of this environment, so you want to change your life and change yourself, like Sun Honglei, his family was very poor when he was a child, and his mother begged to support him to go to school, so he worked hard, so he has his current achievements; Like Tong Dizhou, most of his family members are mentally ill, but he wants to change himself so he becomes a mathematician.

There are also people who become more sunny because of the sunshine at home, like Xu Qing, like Han Xue, and like Lin Feng, these are all examples that we can see around us.

How did the loneliness of your soul come about, because you are not good at communicating with the outside world, you can't integrate into their world, or maybe you don't bother to talk to them, so you are used to loneliness, at first it is just physical loneliness, and then gradually people are far away from you, no one communicates with you anymore, so your whole person begins to be lonely.

At this time, you may blame, this is my personality problem, if I am not so pretentious, if I am willing to talk to people well, maybe it will not be what it is today, but personality is always acquired, no one is born to be a lonely patient.

If you want to get rid of this, you can start by going shopping in a place where there are many people, and you can start by greeting the people around you kindly. One day you'll think, oh, it turns out that I can get along well with other people, not because of my personality, but because of the environment.

I can't say it's a matter of personality, but personality will definitely affect a little, and some people's personalities, he belongs to this kind of withdrawn type, so it's not entirely true, there are also reasons for personality!

This should be! If it weren't for the personality issue. I shouldn't be able to make friends!

Accounts for most of the reasons! But I think it's the environment that matters. I don't usually feel lonely if I'm surrounded by acquaintances, but I like to be alone if I'm not familiar with people.

Loneliness is the feeling of dissatisfaction due to the lack of psychological dependence, and it is the embodiment of the loneliness of the mental state.

Psychology believes that humans are social animals and have a strong love for a group, which in turn leads to a strong dependence. When a person is excluded by others, he will be dissatisfied because he does not have a sense of psychological dependence, and this urgent satisfaction is the embodiment of loneliness.

Soul loneliness refers to a deeper loneliness that cannot be alleviated by simple companionship. Because of these lonely souls, they think more deeply and interpret life more deeply, they have a deeper understanding of life, and they feel a different kind of suffering that they have never felt before. It's a soul level of suffering.

People with lonely souls have no one to understand another person in the deepest depths, and life is a loner, because they are not understood and accepted by the outside world.

In the end, you have to be alone, and you have to learn this loneliness.

If there is no one in the depths of the crowd who can communicate and understand them, they will feel lonely in the depths of their hearts. This kind of spiritual loneliness should be the loneliness in the depths of your soul, when you are empty, choose to actively or passively get out of society, when this loneliness accumulates a certain amount of energy, it will turn into despair, leading to many terrible consequences.

Psychology defines that people live in society, have a variety of social needs, and form a variety of social relationships.

People feel lonely when a certain social need is not met, or when there is a gap between the desire for social relationships and the actual level of reality that they have. Loneliness is a subjective feeling and experience of isolation and alienation from others or society, rather than an objective state.

A person can feel deeply lonely in a participatory living environment, or in a lively social situation where everyone is happy, or he can feel no loneliness during a long period of solitude. Loneliness is an unpleasant negative emotional experience, in which people often feel lonely, depressed, anxious, empty, helpless, indifferent and even hopeless, often accompanied by an unforgettable sense of spiritual emptiness.

Hello! I'm glad to answer for you: A person without his own soul is like losing his entire life.

Lonely people, they have their own souls, and their loneliness makes people seem cold, and sometimes they even wonder if they have a soul of their own. In fact, they all have their own souls, and the reason why they seem so lonely. Because they know more than anyone else.

Because, they know how to protect their souls. Because they don't want to defile their souls with worldly things. So, lonely people, because they see things very thoroughly.

That's why I choose to be alone. I wish you a happy life and a happy family! 

Everyone is a lonely soul, and I think many people who have experienced a lot of things can feel it.

In life, each of us lives our own life, and at the same time, we will integrate into many circles and make all kinds of friends. I can't clearly define these friends as friends, because we know each other, maybe just acquaintances. I know quite a few people, to the point that they are rarely defined as friends, and I have seen some **, which write the friendship of friends very well.

But for me, I don't seem to feel the kind of camaraderie that is described in the books. There are a lot of cheerful and active friends around, every time I see them walking together, playing together, eating together, doing everything together, I don't know if this is a so-called good friend, because I know that time is grinding, the beginning is very good, the result may not always be good. I am reminded of a saying called "Don't forget your original intention".

We always remember what it used to be, but we can't keep our original intention, because nothing can withstand the ravages of time. Time has given vicissitudes to the sea, but there is an extraordinary optimism called forgetting. This may also be given to us by time, and human life is so long, while giving us pain, it also makes us learn to slowly forget.

Through all these experiences, I slowly learned that the human soul is lonely, no one else can understand us, and others do not need to spend time to understand us, after all, everyone's time is precious. The loneliness of the soul gives us the ability to learn to be independent, we have to live independently in this world, and we also have to think independently about life.

Everyone's soul is lonely, may we live up to ourselves!

My friend asked me, what are you doing at home, why don't you talk to me.

There was a hint of complaint in his tone. During this period of closure, we can move around a hundred square meters. The confined space restricts our movement too much. An agreed party, a soul-cleansing pilgrimage, a high-minded ideal, a romantic travel ......

The irritability after the plan was shattered, the depression in one place for a long time, the habit of day after day, and the loneliness buried deep in the heart.

When we are busy, we always want to be free and have a good rest, in exchange for rare tranquility. Now that our wish has been granted, we are again left in the loneliness of having nothing to do.

In the past, I always felt that I was too busy, lived in a different place for a long time, and had no time to spend with my family. Now, the opportunity has come and it should be cherished. In the past, I always thought that time was too fast, and I didn't have time to read those favorite stories. Now, the opportunity has come and it should be seized.

In the past, I was always busy with miscellaneous things, and I didn't have the energy to enjoy loneliness and think about the future. Now, the opportunity has come, and it is time to stop.

The busyness and idleness brought by time are the cornerstones of our growth, stepping past them to chase the loneliness in the depths of our souls. It is only when people are faced with loneliness that they can appreciate the clarity of their hearts.

Loneliness is a realm.

The so-called: no distractions, selflessness and forgetfulness. It doesn't matter the size of the space, you are intoxicated in your own world, obsessed with thinking. Fang De is always the best feedback for a period of time.

Pick up your phone and send a text message back to a friend. With what you want to accomplish, even if you are alone, there is no such thing as loneliness.

Loneliness, as most people understand it, is unaccompanied, idle, and boring. What I think of as loneliness is the emptiness of the mind without impurities, the torture of the soul under the quiet space, and the tranquility under the deep night sky.

The Buddha said: Loneliness is the helplessness of the soul and the confusion without a goal.

Therefore, even if you are stable for a lifetime and poor for a lifetime, do not associate with confusion. Because you never know when the satisfaction in your hands will leave.