Why can t I get along well with anyone?

Some people seem to be born insulators, have no topic to talk about with anyone, and feel annoying to everyone. People who are good to themselves feel that she has been issued a good person card, mother-in-law, mother-in-law, has no personality of her own at all, and she doesn't want to get along with her humblely; People who don't treat themselves well think that she is too individual, and they can't get along if the two personalities don't get along, but they don't know that they are also very temperamental people. But one day, when you suddenly look back and find that there is no one around you, you need to reflect on whether it is your own problem and make changes.

First of all, the first aspect is to think about why you hate others. Why did she do something that made her unhappy, and it is good to recall that she is not so excessive, but she is too picky, will she be able to forgive her from a certain level if she encounters such a situation next time. Or think about her from the perspective of others, the situation she faced at that time was not particularly difficult and powerless.

In the dead of night, think of yourself as the most selfless angel in the world. Give everyone the minimum amount they can forgive, and feel the little bit of beauty they give themselves, and you will find that God is actually very good to you, and the people around you are very good. It's just that I'm really too picky and don't know how to cherish it.

Think about it, if you meet someone who is exactly like you, or even someone who thinks the same way, by your side, can you really be very happy? Everyone will have selfish desires, but one day when the person who is the same as himself is fighting with himself, he will find that human nature is sometimes so terrible, so what we can do is to slowly run in and integrate, so that this sharp selfishness will not be dazzling anymore, and all of us can't stand it.

The next step is to take action to let others see the changes in yourself. I believe that as long as you don't go too far, everyone can forgive themselves, even reconcile as before, reunite after breaking the mirror, and become the best girlfriend and friend, and from this moment on, you will find that life is really beautiful. There are so many lovely people in life who share happiness and touching for themselves, and there are so many powerful people who have overcome difficulties for themselves.

So you must start from the bottom of your heart to get better, take the initiative, put down the shelf to greet others, and sincerely make friends with others, maybe the next person to be praised by the world will be you. Of course, there is no need to live completely against your will and make yourself so tired. It is enough to change little by little, at least do it like ordinary people, and don't let others point fingers behind your back.

Reflect on yourself and make changes. You will definitely find that you have a particularly good relationship with both the opposite sex and the same sex, even strangers will be attracted to you, but this world is based on character, so you must do a good job, no one is born with people who can't get along well.

Because the other party is a person with high emotional intelligence, he knows how to get along, knows how to get along with others to make the other party comfortable, and he knows how to put away his edge without hurting others.

But at the same time, it also shows that he has a certain sacrifice, sacrificing part of his needs. Because it is impossible for a person to be good with everyone, everyone is different, and there will always be people who have different personalities, ideas and preferences from themselves.

Some people are lively and cheerful by nature, while others are quieter, shy and introverted, which is natural and there is no way to do it. But it's important to remember that introversion is a character, not a flaw. We can choose not to pander to others and just be ourselves.

For example, some people will try their best to deny this person when they see something or a point of view that does not match them. But in reality, just doing it doesn't do you any good. In fact, you have seriously hurt the relationship between two people.

Therefore, social interaction is a necessary skill for people in contemporary society. If you don't know how to socialize, you're going to have a hard time moving around. <>

So how to have a more perfect social skills: see more, learn more, talk less. Of course, I don't say this to make you not communicate, but to let you maintain a relationship that you can communicate normally through the social skills you have learned from others when you have a certain ability.

But when you meet a friend you don't like or someone you don't like, you get in touch with him and get to know her, and if you have to be friends with him under some forced circumstances, then this is more difficult. You have to learn how to get along with people you don't like. In fact, it is very simple to face engineering, you can do it to say hello to him, or have a necessary topic to talk to her, but you don't have a heart-to-heart relationship.

People who are very good with everyone are usually mellow, sophisticated, and have rich experience in people and things, for such people, everything is a resource in his eyes, which can be used, as long as it is valuable, it can be used, and it can be discarded if it is worthless.

Because it is impossible for a person to have a good relationship with everyone, if a person really does it, then this kind of good must be based on interests, if there is no interest between each other, then the so-called deep friendship will become worthless.

Therefore, when facing such a person, no matter how sincere and important you are to him, the other party just regards you as a resource that can be used, and once your value is insufficient or worthless, he will exchange you, or betray you. Even a second ago, he was smiling at you, but he betrayed you as soon as he turned around, which is why he can't have a deep friendship with this kind of person.

Hello yes, because it is good with anyone, it means that the other party still has a sense of distance from others in his heart, and at the same time he treats others insincerely, and at the same time he may not be rewarded for his affection.

I think most of this is the case, in case a small part of the heart is sincere, so treat people as you like, just do what you want, don't dig out your heart and lungs, and treat yourself as the first is!

I think people like this can make deep friends. Such people are kind to others. And any kind of person can come. There are no selfish thoughts.

It can't be said that you can't make deep friends, it's just that being friends with this kind of person, you can't feel your own importance, because the other party has a lot of friends, and you are not one behind.

Some people have a good relationship with everyone, this kind of person may only be enthusiastic about people on the surface, and there may not be many people who can really have a deep relationship with him, so some people will say that they can't have a deep relationship with someone who is very good.

That's right! Such people are good at flattery! And anyone can go around. Such a person should not be deeply acquainted, but he can use his resources!

And people who are good to everyone. This kind of person belongs to high emotional intelligence. So he will make friends with anyone. There are also a few things we should pay attention to when making friends with him.

Such a person may not be very innocent in heart.

Basically, people who are very good with everyone.,It's really not sensible.,If you want to smoke this kind of person.,It's to say such things to everyone.,It's to be friends.,But if that's it.,There will definitely be problems with deep friendship.。

I think this kind of person is a good guy at best, that is, he is well, no matter where he goes, he behaves very well, so this kind of person really can't have deep friendships.

What is good on the surface is not necessarily really good, and you need to experience it with your heart.

It's not right to have a deep friendship with someone who is good to everyone. And people who are very nice. There must be far and near in his heart.

His heart. There are ordinary friends and intimate friends, but on the surface they are trying to do a good job of unity. On the surface, it looks good with everyone.

If you can't get along well with others, it may be that you don't know each other well enough, or you don't know how to communicate with each other. You can get to know each other in a timely way, or you can get in touch with each other in other ways, which makes it easier to shout and communicate.

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Some friends are sincere friends, and some are people who can really help you on the surface, whether you are in difficulty or in good times, you will really help you do everything, and if you want to say that no one can get along with you, then you should also find the cause of the problem from yourself. Is this due to some situations caused by your introverted personality, communicate with your family more and get out of the current predicament.

Why I don't get along well with everybody.

Some friends are sincere friends, and some are people who can really help you on the surface, whether you are in difficulty or in good times, you will really help you do everything, and if you want to say that no one can get along with you, then you should also find the cause of the problem from yourself. Is this due to some situations caused by your introverted personality, communicate with your family more and get out of the current predicament.

It's not that I'm a more optimistic and cheerful person. But I don't feel like I can play with anyone else. The friends who played well were almost all gone. I'm also so annoyed, and I think about a lot of reasons. I don't know why I am like this.

I don't know if you've ever heard of a word called sunshine depression, which is optimistic and cheerful on the surface, but actually depressed on the inside. If you just want to be alone and don't want to communicate and share everything with others, you can go to the hospital to consult a regular psychologist and let him give you the right guidance. Also, as I said, communicate more with your family and talk about your predicament.

Right. I don't know.

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I believe that each of us knows that we have to be with others, and we have to deal with everyone when we get along.

Some people may not be very familiar with each other, and we don't know each other very well, but there are many people we are very familiar with and know very well, and even everyone gets along with each other day and night. After a long time, everyone has become good friends.

I believe that for most people, they want to be able to get along with others well, because in this way not only can we become good friends, but we can also care for and love each other, but we see that although there are many people who want to be able to get along with others well. But some people just have a hard time getting along with us, and even make a lot of misunderstandings and spearheads between us, and some people seem to be joking with us but actually bully us.

For example, I see a lot of colleagues. They usually get along with each other and seem to be very harmonious. There are even times when they joke with each other.

Although for most people, they are really joking, but there are also a few people who take the opportunity to satirize others. Maybe we haven't heard it at first, but after a long time, we will slowly feel that the other party is not joking with us, but the other party is deliberately sarcastic us, bullying us. In fact, there are a lot of things like this in the workplace.

Even we can sometimes see such examples in our lives, such as some friends. Although they look good on the surface. But sometimes some of our friends joke with us.

Although these jokes sound like two people are joking with each other and have nothing to do with each other, in fact, they are also taking this opportunity to mock us and even bully us.

So for each of us, we want to be able to get along with others better. Although most of them try very hard to be with others, there are some people who have a hard time getting along with each other. There are even some people who seem to be joking with each other, but the other person is deliberately bullying us in a joke way.

Therefore, we still hope that people can be better together, and we believe that through mutual understanding and support, we can let everyone get along better. In the end, it is with our mutual understanding and support. In this way, we can get along better together, and ultimately we can have a more intimate and friendly relationship with each other.