Confusion at the crossroads of life, a crossroads at a turning point in life

It's just that you don't understand the difference between the dream when you were a child and the dream you grew up with, for example, I thought A when I was a child, but when I grew up I found B. Here's the analogy. If you find that you are still a when you grow up, then go after it.

Whether it can be realized or not, don't you care so much about the process of chasing your dreams? Then you don't have to be happy if you succeed, because it's better to focus on the result than not to have it.

There will definitely be setbacks! Whether or not to persist lies in whether the person who has the dream has confidence in himself, and whether he is willing to be bitter and then sweet

Look at Forrest Gump's story, persistence is victory!!

Dreams, are you in your third year of high school now?

No one wants to give up, they just don't stick to it enough.

I always bless people who have dreams and am willing to believe that one day, dreams will come true.

Bless you as well.

By the way, insisting on this kind of thing is not a hundred steel, but a finger twist.

It lies in everyone's persistence and living every day.

It's not that the world is real, it's that you're cowardly and cowardly.

- Lin Jiade mushroom girl

In this life, people will always encounter a lot of setbacks and ups and downs. No matter what age you are, when you stand at the fork in the road crossroads, you will inevitably face a variety of cut-offs and choices. Making different choices and taking different paths is a different life.

As the saying goes: "The same person has a different life, the same cover has a different handle!" That's what I'm talking about.

All the choices you make in this life are related to the ups and downs of your success in this life. In the same way, "men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man" is also a turning point in a person's life.

There are still many people who are still not satisfied with the status quo and feel that they have made the wrong choice. Feel like you're living a better life. You can also choose a better life and feast on the future.

It's normal to have this thought, and I would say that some choices can be chosen to never, but some choices are not to be always. Since you have chosen what path you have chosen, you must grit your teeth and persevere. You can't stop halfway.

Because it's your choice.

For us ordinary people, choosing a job that pays well and can support our families. A peaceful and joyful life for the family is the greatest hope in this life.

But it often backfires, and you can't predict which will come first. Take the "new coronavirus" as an example, before the virus, the life of the Chinese people was orderly, and the well-off families were happy and happy. But when this shed Xiangshan virus appeared, how many families were broken up because of it, the family was separated by yin and yang, and the white-haired people sent the black-haired people.

Too many individual businesses and catering service industries have lost their money overnight due to the epidemic and are ...... in debt

And this culprit "new coronavirus" is a flashpoint in a food chain, which affects the whole body ......And how fortunate we are to be born in a Chinese family. There are a group of lovely people, rain or shine, who always stick to the front line in the harsh winter and heat, putting their personal life and death aside to fight against the virus, fight against all natural disasters, and defend the personal safety and property safety of the people. This is also their choice, they choose to give up their small family to protect everyone.

He (she) chooses to sacrifice his or her own life, but also in exchange for everyone's personal safety. ......

With too much empathy, you won't question your choices anymore. In the face of natural and man-made disasters, we human beings are the smallest particles of nature.

When you are standing at the crossroads of life and are confused, you might as well look back at the past, as long as you have a brave and fearless heart, no matter what choice you make, follow your heart.

lz, I am also a post-90s generation like you, I am now taking the path I chose, I don't regret it, my parents have always blamed me for not listening to their arrangements, I am iron-hearted. Now what I'm going to say is that you haven't changed your lifestyle at all, so you feel like you've been wandering, and it's useless to just think about it, but you have to take practical actions, for example, if you have been working in the factory, if you feel that you have no future, quit your job, do something else, and don't enter the factory again. Like you before, I didn't want to work in the factory, but after I came out, I entered the factory again.

So I was very depressed and never got rid of the fate of entering the factory.

Don't be afraid that you can't do it well, say it if you do it well, as long as you do it with all your heart, I believe that it is not a particularly ideal ending, and you will be very happy. What if others don't understand him? It's useless to tell them, as long as you want to do it, just do it, don't think too much, you can do it if you arrange it, there is no perfect plan.

Opportunities are created through practice. Believe in yourself, if you don't even believe in yourself, then everything is.

So be humble and be confident. Be more ambitious. Don't be too weak and remember that you are a man.

Today's parents, especially in China, are always playing the role of your economic person, paving the way they want to see your life for you, but often they have ruined some of the ideals that their children should have. Youth is always short-lived, and who doesn't want to.

Stick to what you want to do and don't think too much about it, otherwise it will backfire.

Some people believe in fate because they feel that it is fate that controls their lives, not themselves!

Some people believe in themselves and think that they can change their destiny instead of waiting to be changed by fate!

People who believe in fate always comfort themselves like this: these things are formed because their fate is not good, and there is no way to change it.

People who believe in themselves always say to themselves: not everything can be successful at the beginning, as long as you work hard, you will always succeed one day.

The most important thing in life is not where you are, but where you are headed.

If you can keep the posture all the way up,,, starting point is really not very important.

You are very young, if you have the fate to read the teachings written by Yuan Huang, a Jinshi of the Ming Dynasty, to his son, and understand the truth of life's destiny, the future will be a great thing.

Whether you are repeating or going to a self-examination school, I am optimistic about you if you have a correct outlook on life as a guide.

Landlord: To be honest, it is not recommended to repeat, but if you insist on repeating, I have a few suggestions: 1 Science, because of the wide range of employment.

2 Review Materials Review schools to get the best.

3 Don't go online Don't use your phone.

Hello, in response to your question, I thought I could give you some advice.

First of all, I'm also a repeat student in science

And I repeated it for 2 years.

I didn't even take 3 books in the first college entrance examination, and I still failed in the college entrance examination in the second year.

Everyone in my family advised me to give up, but I chose to persevere.

Because I always felt that my destiny was in my own hands.

Choose your own path.

This year, I finally got my wish, got a line, and got an admission letter from my ideal school. In fact, the reason why many people can achieve success in life is often because they have more persistence at critical moments, and many people, the failure in life is also a little less persistence at critical times.

Many things in life are not predestined, as long as you are willing to do it, you can definitely do it.

But frankly speaking, it is really hard to repeat, you have to be mentally prepared for this, I still occasionally have nightmares at night, dreaming that I am still in school, exams, if you need more help, I hope you will give more information such as your gender, male or female, which province you are a candidate.

What is the concept of 280 points in your province How much is it off the 3 main line By the way, I don't think there is any naivety in the idea that you can't take the exam for two years in one year, people can fly into the sky, and you can also do air travel, is this idea naïve, the earth is round, is this idea naïve But a long time ago, these ideas were recognized as foolish dreams, and now it seems that this is a common thing.

It is on these naïve ideas that humanity continues to progress.

From the ancient flood to the civilization.

I understand how you feel right now, because I was faced with the same choice, but remember that no matter what choice you make, it is decided.

I don't regret it. Because that's the path you choose.

Go on strongly, bless you!

This friend, if you have an ideal, there will be a reality, if you make up your mind, you will get good grades, and your parents should support you! What you say is true!

I mind if you repeat it, there is only one time in life, and if you give up, you will not have my grades in the high school entrance examination were very poor, and I did not score 630 points in the mock exam.

In the end, I resolutely filled in the county, and only one of the three volunteers was filled!

My classmates thought I was stupid and narcissistic.

But I ended up getting into the county high school.

I think the potential of people should not be underestimated, if you really make up your mind to repeat the study, I have no experience and no reason, I just hope that you can set up a dream and then your determination will stimulate your potential!

Studying science, success or failure is here.

Young man, brother still supports you, work hard, we are still very young, there is nothing to fear, besides, it is you. Academic qualifications are not the most important thing, but the reality is cruel, and academic qualifications are still important. It is a stepping stone to your later employment.

Boys can study science as much as possible, but the reality proves that the employment in the liberal arts is too narrow and the salary is low.

I am a student who just graduated from university this year, graduated from Shenyang University of Technology, and now I am working in Beijing.

1. If it is not a prestigious university, in terms of the current education system, there are very few students who can learn anything in a university.

Take me as an example, four years have passed, no hanging department is lucky, when I came to Beijing with a diploma, I knew that this diploma is no different from waste paper, not a famous university, people don't look down on you at all, the salary is this, if you want to do it, you can stay, don't want to do it, don't delay my time, there are people lining up for interviews.

I look back and think about the difference between me now and when I first graduated from high school, and even thought that if I joined the job after graduating from high school, I should have achieved a little success in the past four years, but now I am in a small company, and it is really not my original wish to live in a small company.

2. Family background If your family background is good, your parents can stand alone in a certain unit or a certain enterprise or even a certain region, then joining the ranks of parents as soon as possible is the last word, so you don't have to waste 1 or even 2 years of time.

3, maybe what I said above is too realistic, to change a high school student can accept the statement, if you have confidence in yourself, confident to grasp yourself, then you don't have to seek answers here, because the road is your own, others can't replace it, so you just need to do what you should do in front of you, that is, read, study, review homework, make good use of this holiday, pick up what you left before.

4. All in all, in today's society, people need to have skills, relationships, and opportunities in three ways, and you can think carefully about what you have now.

Wish: a bright future!

I can say by example, I am a candidate in Shandong, and you probably know the situation of the college entrance examination in Shandong. When I was in junior high school, I got good grades, and I was one of the best in the school. I always want to play in high school, and the first half of the first semester of high school is okay, the top five.

But the second year of high school is not good at all. At the beginning of the third year of high school, it can be said that there is zero foundation, and almost nothing will be known. But fortunately, I'm always very confident, I can say a little conceited, I think since I started to get good grades, it's impossible now, so I hold my breath, and I can't bear it when I see so many problems.

Then I asked, I didn't just ask, I asked even if it seemed stupid to others, and when I understood a question, I felt a sense of accomplishment, and I went on step by step. His grades took a turn for the better and he was in the top 10 of his class. It's a pity that I couldn't stick to it a month before the college entrance examination, and in the end I only took an ordinary second book.

So, since you can go to high school, you're no worse than anyone else! Build your self-confidence first! It doesn't matter if you're overconfident, don't feel inferior!

If you don't understand, just ask, and most of your classmates are happy to help you. Even if you don't understand the question of how many is one plus one, you have to ask it, and when someone explains something to you, you can interrupt him at any time and ask him why.

Throw away face and ask if you don't understand. And be patient, maybe your childish questions will make your classmates who study well get tired of it, this is what you may have to think: What's the big deal, Lao Tzu doesn't ask you! Remember, that's a must-think!

If you are repeating, you may be more stressed, so you must keep encouraging yourself so that you will not be discouraged.

You may say that you are determined, but it is hard to persevere, and you have to remember that.

It is also recommended that you don't change what you originally studied, although science is generally better, but if you change to an unfamiliar subject, it will not be good for your self-confidence.

The top priority, don't be discouraged, hold on.

Bless you!