At the crossroads of life, everyone helps!

There is always a certain process of human maturity, and it is normal to take detours and lose yourself in this process, so there is no need for you to blame yourself as you do now. You recognize your mistakes and are trying to make up for them, which shows that you recognize your own responsibilities. As for what you are perplexing about right now, it may be temporary failure and economic trouble.

This kind of temporary failure is inevitable, it is not impossible to return, but it takes more effort, as long as you are determined, it is not too late to make amends, shame and courage, you will be successful. As for the economic problem, I think for the time being, don't let your parents know, your own business, learn to take it on your own, put it to death and live later, don't believe that there is no way, you can go to work part-time, do tutoring, so that on the one hand, study, on the other hand, work, to pay several times more hardships than usual, maybe this is also the experience of your growth. May you get out of this predicament soon.

Being able to say this shows that you are very brave.

A hard life can temper one's will, and the standard of living is related to family conditions. If you love your parents, you must be considerate of your parents' difficulties, and now it is really difficult to provide a college student, don't add unnecessary burdens to your parents, don't compare things in life with others, and compare and study. Work hard, you can succeed.

Go to the private enterprise, no matter what, in addition to family affection, money is more practical. Let your wife raise your son! You can go back to see your son often!

Man, if you have that value, go son, when you are older, many things will be understood, the wife is not easy to say, and the important thing is that you can't regret it.

lz, I am also a post-90s generation like you, I am now taking the path I chose, I don't regret it, my parents have always blamed me for not listening to their arrangements, I am iron-hearted. Now what I'm going to say is that you haven't changed your lifestyle at all, so you feel like you've been wandering, and it's useless to just think about it, but you have to take practical actions, for example, if you have been working in the factory, if you feel that you have no future, quit your job, do something else, and don't enter the factory again. Like you before, I didn't want to work in the factory, but after I came out, I entered the factory again.

So I was very depressed and never got rid of the fate of entering the factory.

Don't be afraid that you can't do it well, say it if you do it well, as long as you do it with all your heart, I believe that it is not a particularly ideal ending, and you will be very happy. What if others don't understand him? It's useless to tell them, as long as you want to do it, just do it, don't think too much, you can do it if you arrange it, there is no perfect plan.

Opportunities are created through practice. Believe in yourself, if you don't even believe in yourself, then everything is.

So be humble and be confident. Be more ambitious. Don't be too weak and remember that you are a man.

Today's parents, especially in China, are always playing the role of your economic person, paving the way they want to see your life for you, but often they have ruined some of the ideals that their children should have. Youth is always short-lived, and who doesn't want to.

Stick to what you want to do and don't think too much about it, otherwise it will backfire.

The second point is not recommended. (After all, the parents are old and go abroad alone, and there is no need to make this bet when the direction is not clear, and the family is called home when the family is together.) ）

Point 1: If the reason why you are brushed in the interview is because of the file problem, it is not recommended! Civil servants can only be said to be stable, and if they want to pay off their current debts, it is basically unrealistic to rely on salary income alone.

Third: I suggest that you find a job first, find other channels in the case of maintaining food and clothing, and the total arrears of 260,000 yuan can almost be solved in 2 years. It's just that he is relatively fortunate, do more career, fight, and break through.

There is a saying: It is necessary to be there, and there is no obstacle that cannot be passed. There are still jobs that save a little outside and work hard for 10,000 yuan a month!

It mainly depends on how much effort you are willing to put in, after all, the gain and the effort are always proportional. Look away, don't feel very pessimistic, there are a lot of people out there who owe millions of money, everyone is working hard, I believe you! Let's do it together.

If you are admitted to graduate school, it is very likely that you will not pass the political examination. It is really not recommended that you consider going abroad, after all, leaving your parents to go away by yourself is really not a good choice. Nowadays, it is really difficult to do business like this, it is recommended that you use your advantages (major or Japanese) to find a job, your education will not be low, of course, this is just a springboard to tide over the difficult period of the epidemic.

After the epidemic passes, you can continue to choose to do business, or go to graduate school.

Decide according to your own situation!

In fact, your third option will be a little more realistic!

But you need to use your brains in everything!

It's better not to sell the house, and don't take the civil service exam to go abroad to work. You might as well find a job that pays well and pay off your debts slowly. This is the most realistic.

It is recommended that you come out to work, you have a criminal record in the graduate school entrance examination, although you have not entered the file, but in case you do not pass, you can only get a graduation certificate. Then you still have to face the competition of society. If you don't come out to work, your confidence and your ability will never improve, and your ability to increase self-improvement will never be seen.

It's good for your parents to sell their houses to help you pay off your debts, but as you said, losing your wife and losing your troops outweighs the losses, and no one can pack the ticket, not to mention going to a foreign country, what to do if your parents are sick, have you ever thought about your parents' hearts? If you think about others, your decisions can be guaranteed to your parents.

Since you have studied in college, you can use the professional knowledge you have learned to work, and you can still earn more than 100,000 yuan a year, and you don't need to follow your parents to do business.

It is not recommended to take the civil service examination, the political examination is very strict, and the career editor is not very strict in some places, and he may be able to pass. You can't sell a house if you just need it. I haven't studied Japanese, so my Japanese should be pretty good depending on your expression.

You can compromise and find a job related to Japanese first, and then read books and take the public institution while working. Feeding yourself comes first. When you have work experience, you will have the initiative to change jobs or take the exam. Come on.

Wu is at the crossroads of life, I hope that the seniors will stop it, analyze it, and give the younger brother a top ten credible suggestion white line.

One: Since there is a record, the political examination may be brushed, and it is not recommended to take the exam.

Two: Please don't let your parents work hard for you, and the house is sold, no matter how cheap the house you buy, it can't compare to the original.

My suggestion is: (1) You should recommend yourself to go to a Japanese language training class. (2) Write**. (3) Please improve your self-worth after work. It's up to you to decide what to test. (4) Do sales. (5) Be an anchor or editor**.

No matter what job you choose, it's important to remember that paying back doesn't affect your investment.