Go on a blind date, do girls have a house, should girls mention houses on blind dates?

Friend, don't blame the girl for being realistic, let's see if you have the ability first

As Mu Bar grows older, many girls will face the problem of blind dates. And for girls born in the 30s, can't blind dates be opened?

Blind date is not a simple thing. In a blind date, we need to take into account many aspects such as the other person's personality, family background, and career. Therefore, it is normal to prescribe some conditions to quickly call Hu.

Girls born in the 30s have reached a mature age and have a clearer plan for their future. So it's normal to prescribe some conditions on a blind date. For example, the other party's occupation, family background, whether they have real estate, etc.

We also need to pay attention to the fact that the conditions should not be too harsh. If we ask too much of each other, we will probably scare people away, and we are likely to miss out on some good opportunities.

Therefore, while prescribing conditions, it is also necessary to maintain a certain degree of flexibility.

In blind dates, we need to keep a normal heart and not have too high expectations for each other. Only in this way can you find someone who is really suitable for you on a blind date.

In short, for girls born in the 30s, can't blind dates be opened? The answer is definitely yes.

However, while prescribing conditions, it is also necessary to maintain a certain degree of flexibility and not to have too high expectations of the other party. Only in this way can you find someone who is really suitable for you on a blind date.

Blind date is to get married, not the kind of love and fun, it is normal for girls to mention the house on a blind date, after all, if two people get along, they will live together in the future, and the house is a necessity.

It's a bit early to mention the house when you first meet, first communicate to understand the other party's character, and when you intend to continue to develop, talk about marriage and then mention the house. I think most men will prepare a house, and they will not leave the couple with nowhere to live.

Since it is a blind date, there is no need to mention the house, by the way, you can talk about it, don't deliberately mention this kind of thing, it is best to understand the other party's situation first, and then go on a blind date, so as not to have worries.

Of course it can be mentioned.

I believe in love.

When it comes to true love, you can be desperate.

The premise is to have a discerning eye and be able to identify scumbags.

Otherwise, it's too normal to have some substances.

It can definitely be mentioned that food, clothing, housing and transportation are the basic ways of survival, and these should be understood clearly before marriage.

If you want to know if he has a house, you can ask: do you live with your parents or by yourself.

Do not mention the house when the two parties have just met and do not know each other, unless they are dissatisfied with the man and deliberately want to scare the other party away.

This is a normal basic requirement, today's car has belonged to the popular means of transportation, the average family has owned, and the house is the basic life guarantee of people. In a sense, it is the root of people's lives, not only for women, but also for men. But the cost of owning a house is huge, and it takes a dozen or so of a person, decades of effort.

With it, the basic life in the future will be much easier. Therefore, it is normal for a woman to ask for a car and a house when looking for a partner.

1.For most of our ordinary families, it is more difficult to ask the man to have a car and a house. Assuming that a boy is just an ordinary corporate employee, he will not be able to meet this standard within a few years or even longer after graduation!

Housing prices in most cities are currently a bit out of reach for the working class! Unless the parents are in good condition.

2.The first type requires that women who have a house and a car have their own capital, such as being highly educated, outstanding, having a fixed income**, or having a superior family condition. This seems to be a bit of a good match, and the reality is often like this, especially for our parents, who want their children to live a good life.

3.Second, if you have an average education, an ordinary appearance, an income that is only enough for your own expenses, and your family conditions are average, what kind of requirements do you have, and the object is a house and a car. Some people say that there are also rich and handsome people who like poor girls, these are only available on TV, and there may be almost no real life.

4.Every woman will have the dream of Prince Charming in the period of youth and ignorance! But after all, it's a fairy tale, it's a dream!

In the real world, the conditions for choosing a mate are mutual, the woman makes a request at the same time, the man also has a request, in terms of emotion and marriage, men and women are equal, only when the conditions of both parties are met, it is possible to come together. It can last a long time!

In fact, the requirements of men and women in marriage also originate from the development and education of society, and are also a higher pursuit of people's material and spiritual life.

The main thing is to have a stable and stable home, if the man doesn't have it, he may not have a fixed place to live because of practical problems, which is really annoying.

In modern society, women's concept of marriage has changed greatly, and more and more women choose to seek self-worth affirmation in their careers. But in blind dates, when women get older and older, they are often scolded "can't you open conditions?" "This shows that discrimination and unfair treatment of women requires us to seriously think about and address.

First of all, we should recognize the impact and harm of this discrimination on women. The increasing age and development of women in the workplace should not be a reason for unequal treatment and discrimination. Women and men of all ages should be treated with equal respect and treatment, and women should not be made to pay more.

Secondly, we should also reflect on the real intentions of these "conditional" women. Whether it is simply to meet one's material needs, or to seek better luck and long-term stability in a relationship and family life. If it is the latter, we cannot easily attribute the "opening conditions" of these women to power and material desires, but look at this phenomenon more rationally.

At the same time, I have also experienced the scene of being angry in a blind date. At that time, I, like many other women, was devastated and hurt by unfair judgment and discrimination. But I didn't give up, I chose to balance my career with love, and found a partner who really loved and supported me.

To address this phenomenon, we should also encourage women to pursue their careers and dreams and respect their choices and decisions. If a woman has additional needs or ideas, we can try to understand and communicate instead of easily doubting and blaming. Ultimately, what we should do is to eliminate gender discrimination and pressure, and to create an equal and free marriage environment where everyone can enjoy equality and respect.

Recently, a post-90s girl was scolded by a man on a blind date, because she dared to open this condition at the age of 32, and she was so scared that she cried. I can't help but ask, can't girls be on a blind date after 30? And why should we allow ourselves to lower our standards to please others?

Blind date is a free choice, and you should not be forced to choose someone you don't want to. In addition, what I want to say is: blind date is not for the sake of ignorance, nor is it for comparison, let alone age, car, or house.

It is through talking and getting along with each other to find people who respect each other, recognize each other, understand each other, tolerate each other and support each other.

Expand your knowledge

1. Blind dates do not necessarily require a confirmed relationship.

Blind date is a process in which two people get to know and communicate with each other, but it does not mean that they must enter a relationship. It's normal for some people to just want to find the right friends or people to talk to, or to expand their network.

Blind dates are produced because of the introduction of family members or friends, and because both parties know that there is an introducer, so the introduction of each other's background, hobbies, personalities, etc. is more accurate and comprehensive. In the process of mutual communication, the two sides can talk about some common topics in a more targeted manner, and establish a better tacit understanding and emotional foundation.

3. Blind dates can expand the love circle more actively.

Modern social styles are becoming more and more diverse, and not everyone is comfortable fitting in a variety of social situations. Blind date is a natural way to make friends, and there will not be too much shyness and pressure, making it easier for people to take the initiative to expand their love circle.

4. Blind date is a good way to get to know someone.

Blind dates allow both parties to get to know each other more deeply and establish a deeper interpersonal relationship. If two people feel that they are suitable for each other, they can continue to deepen the relationship and try whether they can further develop and maintain. If both parties don't have much feelings or thoughts about each other, it's okay, after all, blind dates are not a mandatory love activity.

You can say that you have a house and a car, and this question is usually asked.

It's normal to ask about this on a blind date

And then, it's normal, what do you want to say?

It's probably best not to get along with money worshippers, and he will ignore you if he runs out of money.

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