What is the moment when you don t want to continue to be kind?

When I was in school, once a boy in the same class came to our dormitory to borrow money from a girl in the same dormitory, and the girl's family conditions were better, everyone knew that she was rich and easy to talk, but she was not there that day. As soon as I was in the dormitory, the boy opened his mouth to me, not much, a few hundred, probably saying that it would be returned the day after tomorrow, and I simply agreed. Then I opened the cabinet in front of him, pulled out the bag with money from a corner, took out the amount he wanted and handed it to him, and at that moment I didn't think about the consequences.

Later, our dormitory was burglarized, and other people's cabinets were turned upside down, but mine was very neat, except for the bag where the money was stored. At that time, I had all my living expenses there, and I only had a small amount of money with me. Because I often go home, I don't save in the bank, I'm afraid that it will be inconvenient to use, of course, there was no WeChat Alipay at that time.

That's right, it was a male classmate who came to borrow money to steal things in our dormitory, and he was familiar with the way, and giving him money in person was equivalent to drawing a map of him hiding money, hehe. Later, he was fired, and my money was not recovered, which is almost equal to two months' living expenses. Actually, I haven't changed much now, but I still have a little bit of a sense of anti-people, and I won't be so stupid.

I don't want to be kind all the time, and in the Vampire Diaries, Damon says that he doesn't want to be kind because if a person is kind from the beginning, even if he does something wrong, he will be infinitely magnified, and he is too tired.

The first instinct was to go to college! That's right, during college. First of all, when I was in school, my freshman year was full of enthusiasm to participate in various activities, club departments and the like, enthusiastic about people, and the seniors asked me to do anything, I remember one event, because of a senior sister's mistake, everyone said that it was me, and pointed at me mercilessly, I usually work hard and complain, and I am the one who bears the blame in the end, and I don't want to be kind anymore at that time.

During college, he has been serving as the secretary of the Youth League, which is equivalent to hard work. I want to fight for more bursaries for my classmates, because my university is a relatively backward area, and most of my classmates' family backgrounds are indeed not very good. I tried my best to persuade the slightly better family to give up the place, the class is a large class of 60 people can only choose 12 13 people are really difficult to choose, and I am not the only one to choose, the class has its own review group, but I try to be as fair as possible to let everyone vote carefully according to the actual situation.

My family background is not good, but I have never taken the initiative to apply for these things involving money for the sake of so-called due diligence in the past four years. One of the students came to me before the selection and told me that his parents were divorced and followed his mother, but his mother is now disabled and doesn't want the class to know about such a situation. But after the bursary arrived, this classmate immediately began to criticize us in the space, post it, and the circle of friends began to criticize us, saying that we were not rigorous, and we didn't make a decision if we didn't check it carefully, and he could easily fool us to let us take the bait and so on.

I was very angry at the time, and one of my classmates at the back of their dormitory told me that his family situation was exactly what he said, but he thought that we were going around preaching to him, so he pretended to lie to us and told the other classmates that he was not like that. I was speechless at the time, and I couldn't talk about doing bad things with good intentions, but I was still very aggrieved and didn't want to get in touch with related things anymore.

When I encounter too many sentences, I don't want to be kind when I meet people who don't know how to cherish and don't know how to be satisfied. People are good and are deceived by others, and kindness should only be given to those who deserve it.

The moment he was wronged to carry himself, it completely broke out. Why do others make me wrong? is no longer kind, and has a showdown with the leader, what is the next thing, what is the nest itself!

Clean work, don't deceive others, and never wronged yourself! Hehe, personality dictates, life is very casual. Whether it's good or not, let others judge, just live yourself!

After I first recovered from a serious illness, it was not that I didn't want to be kind anymore, but I was not kind anymore. It is said that each other is born from the heart, and I think my appearance has changed from the original good face, and it is somewhat hideous. Because they care about others and worry about their own illness, who cares about themselves when they are seriously ill?

From their eyes, they saw the cruelty of human nature, so they chose not to be kind and indifferent.

15 years, during the army as a soldier, near noon to drive to the bank to withdraw money, in the ATM picked up an apple 5c, and later lost the owner to ** to ask, due to the army noon rest vehicle management is more strict, agreed to send him to the bank door in the afternoon. At the appointed time, the two of them walked to my car window, after a simple confirmation, I immediately returned the phone to him, and the person said thank you and turned around and left, at this time it should be his girlfriend The person said, it is a big soldier, or return your mobile phone, let's go to the army to sue him, the man replied, he didn't dare not give, what?I don't dare?

Is there a dog in the day, I didn't say I wouldn't return him at any time, and I sent it over in person, and what if I didn't give it to you? dragged the same as 2580,000, the quality of these two people made me really believe in the saying, it's not that a family doesn't enter the door. I really regret returning it to him, I knew I would have smashed it directly!

But when I was so kind to help others but was blamed by others, I told myself that I shouldn't be kind anymore because my kindness didn't make me respected.

When I finally made it clear that work is work and life is life. You don't need the concept of kindness at work, just leave it to life.

During the internship, because of professional and various reasons, I went to the traffic police brigade for an internship, and I was looking forward to a job, but I didn't expect that it was not only the old routine, but also the ignorance of passers-by, who worked overtime every rainy day, soaked all over, standing on the road, who would feel sorry for you is a weak woman, in order to manage too many vehicles to post a ticket was said to be not good to go to school to harm people.

After a big blow in my life, I don't want to keep this kindness alive.

When my family is threatened, when others have violated my bottom line.

So far, I haven't encountered anything that makes me not want to continue to be kind. In my opinion, if you can maintain a good attitude, you will be able to solve any problem well.

I felt the need to be kind.

This is a very profound question. If good people are not treated well, should they continue to be good? Mine is: yes, they should continue to be good.

First of all, kindness is a virtue and a noble quality that we should strive for. Even if we are not treated well, we should not give up our goodness because it is our own choice and decision. We cannot let the actions of others determine our own qualities and behaviors.

Second, good people may suffer injustice, but they can also be treated with greater respect and gratitude. Acts of kindness have a positive impact on those around you, and even if not bothering is an immediate reward, the impact can have very positive results over time. Kindness is not completely unreciprocated, the lowest state is that your kindness should be treated gently, and those who have been warmed by your kindness will also be kind to others.

Kindness is not easy to speak, so people should be kind, but let your kindness grow teeth and filter out what is harmful to kindness, because kindness is expensive, and kindness must be treated gently. I always believe that there are the majority of kind people in this world, as long as everyone keeps a kind heart and does not forget the original intention, I believe that the world will become a better place, and kind people will be healed by kind people.

1. A sense of conscience: Some people may think that their acts of kindness are meant to make the world a better place, not just for their own benefit. If they find that their acts of kindness are not being treated kindly, they may feel hopeless and angry, which may cause them to be less willing to continue to be kind.

2. Inconsistent social expectations: Society's expectations of good behavior may not be consistent with individuals' good intentions. If a person's act of kindness is not appreciated and rewarded by society, they may feel confused and resentful, which may cause them to be no longer willing to continue to be kind.

3. The meaning of acts of kindness: Some people may think that the meaning of acts of kindness is to bring real help and change to others. If their act of kindness does not bring the desired results, they may feel disappointed and angry, which can lead to a diswillingness to continue being kind to the liquid mill.

3. Limitations of moral codes: Some people may believe that their acts of kindness are based on certain moral codes, but if these codes are violated, they may feel confused and resentful, which may cause them to no longer be willing to continue to be kind.

4. Inconsistent with the return of kindness: Some people may believe that their good deeds are meant to be reciprocated for kindness, but if their good deeds are not rewarded as expected, they may feel disappointed and resentful, which may cause them to be less willing to continue to be kind.

In conclusion, kindness is a beautiful quality, but if the reward for kindness does not align with the individual's expectations, or if it is negatively evaluated, questioned, or disappointed, kindness may become unsustainable.

1.We will continue to uphold kindness.

2.Kindness is a choice, a choice for yourself not to regret and to live openly. Therefore, kindness is not for people to see, but also for oneself.

3.When kindness is blasphemed, of course, we must continue to be kind, there are so many bad people and things in this world, do you mind minding it? Be firm and be yourself, and only talk about your own heart is the best way.

4.To be a man, you must have a moral bottom line and principles, kindness is just an adjective, once the bottom line is broken, this line will be low and low, especially if you Yu tastes the sweetness of not following the rules, it may cause greater problems later. I believe in cause and effect.

Yes, what you plant is what you reap, there are actually no fools in this world, everyone understands very well, if you do something bad to others, in the end others will return it to you in various forms, which is what is often said to come out and mix it sooner or later. The mother-in-law is not kind to her daughter-in-law, and she sees her mother-in-law in the first ten years and her daughter-in-law in the next ten years, and she will be able to see it in the future; The husband is not kind to his wife, and in the long run, he will lose a true lover, and the wife will not be very good to the husband in the future.

5.The human heart is made of flesh; If you don't treat your friends well, you will lose a friend and lose a part of your heart.

It's just that there is a degree of kindness, and beyond that degree, it may not be kindness, but stupidity. For example, to sympathize with the abduction and trafficking of children, it is very inappropriate to empathize with the scumbag, and the most important thing is that if others have been hurting you, you must stop spreading your kindness in a timely manner, after all, repay grievances with virtue, how to repay virtue.

A good heart is the most basic moral code we call human. In this world, not everyone is ungrateful, and not everyone is indifferent. In this world, except for a few malice, the rest are all kindness, and maybe some people will not appreciate your kindness, but will only get more inches.

But the kindness of your heart is commendable to the world and to others.

Kindness is actually very simple, maybe it's just your unintentional help, it solves the big problems that most people urgently need to solve and some powerless things, because of people's gregariousness and unique human emotions, so anytime and anywhere will imitate someone who needs help, maybe a few simple words of comfort, or maybe it is something that can be solved with help, so, your kindness is not useless. We should be kind people, but our kindness needs to be selective.

Some people take the kindness of others as weak, unscrupulous bullying; Treat other people's kindness as garbage, and hurt with bad intentions!

Kindness is given to the right person, the achievement of others, and the happiness of oneself; Kindness is given to the wrong person, and it is calculated by others, and it hurts oneself!

In this world, not everyone knows gratitude, it is a snake, destined to hurt people; It's a wolf, doomed to be insidious!

If you are too kind, you will agree to whatever others say, and your contribution will seem cheap.

There is nothing wrong with kindness per se, it is those who have bad intentions who are wrong.

Don't be kind to everyone, some people don't deserve it;

Don't help everyone, there are people he doesn't deserve.

Sincerity is hard to find, don't be humble, kindness is expensive, don't waste it, angular kindness is true kindness;

Kindness with a bottom line is great wisdom!

If you think about it, kindness is for yourself, not for others. So I will continue to be kind.