At what point did you not want to be kind?

My friend did it, and without saying a word, he said: "Help me send an advertisement", at first you were very happy to help others. After a long time, she asked you to help every now and then, but you didn't want to, but you were embarrassed to refuse.

A few days after going to work, the little brother next to me and the eldest sister opposite either asked me to help print a document, or asked me to help repair the computer, or even asked me to help move things downstairs. I thought, just do it, there is no harm in doing more, the good thing is that I get a few compliments: this young man is very capable, down-to-earth, and good.

Of course it's good, you're so obedient, I can't bear to call you!

I think kindness must always continue, but every time I get hurt, when I am deceived, I know that from that moment on, I should not be kind to the person who deceived me and hurt me. As for putting away kindness from now on, it is not right.

I once went on a trip and bought a hard seat, and I met a family who said that they had to sit next to each other, and I liked to sit by the window and didn't want to change it.

As a result, the two middle-aged aunts mocked and mocked: "It's just a gesture, the current post-90s generation is not sensible at all." "I feel very self-blaming, I feel very guilty, and I seem to be very unkind to refuse help from others.

Treat my patience as a time when I have no temper and hurts me endlessly; When you impose your own ideas on me.

You're so rich, what's wrong with borrowing you a little": I'm poor, you're rich, the rich should help the poor, anyway, you have too much money to spend, I don't have money.

I like to help people, but I hate it the most, and I need to be careful about things, so you disparage me as a "gesture".

I thought it was a good thing to help others, and others might think I was troublesome, so I decided not to pay for irrelevant people easily.

When I did what I shouldn't have done, I was kind enough to do it, and I was blamed by you...

Someone sent you WeChat: "Trouble me with my latest circle of friends to help me like it", and the chat history of the two of you is a sentence "You have added xx, now you can start chatting". You choose to ignore it, she asks you to help like it again, you get angry, and you turn your face and are embarrassed.

When others take your kindness for granted.

Explanation: Explanation: Pure heart, innocent and gentle, no malice, kind, good heart. Refers to a person who is kind and has no ill will.

Compounds: good-hearted, the beginning of people, good nature.

When Wenchuan **, kind people donated to the disaster area.

Sentence formation Good people have donated money to the disaster area.

The starting point of doing anything is good and beneficial to the society, called "kindness", and the process requires careful thinking and profound knowledge and flexible use, combined with practical practices are practical and effective, called wisdom combined, called "kindness and wisdom."

Kindness is those who have the ability to correct the wrong practices and make everything beautiful and harmonious by thinking.

We often say that kindness is a virtue, kindness is a sign of a good person, but at the same time kindness is also a choice. Some people who have paid a terrible price for their kindness do not maintain the previous idea that everyone is good, and they start to be indifferent, and even they may do evil, but when you understand the cause and effect, you may have a trace of sympathy, and if the person does not go too far, you may feel that it is worth understanding. But when it happens, it starts to be defined.

Looking back and thinking about the price you paid, it was your own disruptive faction that caused the price to pay or was paid, you are the one who accepts the harm, and the fault is the "price" paid for it, so whether you are good or not has never continued and ever.

You want to be kind, and you are kind at the moment. You don't want to be kind, and you can't say you're evil.

Do what you want to do, keep your original intention, if because of your kindness causes you to pay an unequal "bad price", the wrong thing is that the "price" is not kindness, and whether you will continue to do good things in the future is your choice.

First of all, I just finished watching "Coward", so the answer is no!

Secondly, kindness is not the same as patience, people can have a charitable heart, but never always tell yourself to be patient.

Finally, for myself, I always unconsciously think about other people's feelings, worry about hurting the people around me, and it is quite painful when I go to school, especially after working in a bank. Especially when you feel that your colleagues who have a good relationship with you will treat you like others, it is really sad.

Later, I accidentally saw a saying, which roughly means: those people who make you very difficult, why don't they think they embarrass you? So, when we embarrass ourselves out of friendship and kindness, others have already given you malice.

I hope that everyone can meet kind people, and then bring kindness to kind people and bring it to people who deserve it.

I will continue to stick to the good. Because I think that is the most basic principle of being a man, to be worthy of the heart, every time before doing it, I will think in my heart that I will not have any return on the other party, whether I am still willing to help, if the answer is yes, then I will definitely do it, but this does not mean unconditional help and giving, no one is a philanthropist. To keep good thoughts, good, thoughts must be put in the heart, put in the mind in order to be righteous When a person's heart is all good, thoughts, his righteousness is enough, if his heart is all bad, thoughts, he will soon have no righteous thoughts, people without righteous thoughts, he will have evil thoughts, people with evil thoughts, he will soon have evil thoughts.

Therefore, if you want to be free from evil thoughts, you must first control yourself and have no evil thoughts.

If my kindness is not reciprocated, I will insist on being kind, because kindness does not need to be reciprocated, otherwise I will let my kind heart be tainted by hypocrisy and interests, covered with a layer of worldly dust, lose its original meaning, and do good, which can bring happiness to Liang Bu and others. A child playing with his mobile phone, the subway started, he quickly stretched out his other hand to grab the wheelchair next to him and stuffed his feet under the tire, he did this to prevent the wheelchair from slipping, so that the disabled uncle, safe to take the subway, it can be seen that the happiness brought by people's hearts to goodness is unlimited, kindness, can make us feel at ease, let us be kind-hearted when doing good deeds is actually extremely peaceful, although doing good deeds will not directly bring us reports, but the peace brought by the good deeds, It will make our work and life much smoother, kindness is a realm, which determines the life pattern of each of us, and I hope kindness will walk with us.

Our unit is a small unit, with only about 20 personnel, in addition to the big leader, there are two deputy directors, and then it is divided into two groups, each group has a team leader, to be honest, the team leader is basically nothing. I don't have the right to fart, one of our deputy directors was transferred that day, and then a team leader naturally became the deputy director, and there was a lack of a team leader in the group here, because it was not an official, and the big leader said at the beginning that it would be enough to let the group members elect one by themselves. I was elected with 10 votes, and at the end of the vote everyone joked that they were going to be treated.

To be honest, I was a little excited at the time. It was an ironclad thing, but the next day, the leader suddenly said that yesterday's vote was not counted, because the number of people was not enough, and said that all the people from the other group would be counted today to vote again, and then I saw that the chefs who cooked for us were called. The second vote, I lost to another person by one vote, more than a month later, a colleague who had a good relationship with me got drunk one night, somehow talked about voting for the team leader, he told me that time was actually a woman who had a good relationship with the leader quite this team leader, after the first vote, he cried and cried to find the leader, and the leader came up with this method, and the votes for her were all arranged by the leader in advance.

Everyone's hearts are like mirrors, I don't know. Since then, I have truly experienced the nature of human nature, and it was from that time that I was no longer good, and the faith I had always held on to collapsed at that moment.

The day before yesterday, a person in the dormitory resigned, he was in the back kitchen, I didn't say a few words to him at all, he left the dormitory that day, refunded the money, and then went back with his suitcase. Who knows, at four or five o'clock in the afternoon, he said in the group again that he kept his bed, and he came back to sleep at night, and at night, he came back again, just because his dormitory fees were refunded, and the quilt naturally did not exist. Then he asked his colleagues if they wanted it, and none of them would lend it to him.

Eventually, he looked at me, but I didn't have anything to do with him. Can you lend me a quilt? I said I'll just two, build one and lay the other.

He said to borrow one, I couldn't help it in the end, maybe I was kind in my heart. So he lent it to him, and he didn't say anything more, but took it. Since I had a quilt at night, maybe I didn't sleep at night, and I caught a cold the next day.

Coupled with the fact that he didn't say anything to say thank you, I felt so sad in my heart. Stranger, I will not give you my kindness in the future, and I am still sick with a cold today.

Our kindness and helpfulness are what we have been taught since childhood, we do not seek to be able to be rewarded after helping others, and in reality many people already have this quality, helping others to leave in obscurity or not asking for anything in return, but what we need is to help others to be respected and thanked by the helped, and to be understood by others. And then now the quality of many people still hasn't improved, you helped him, but he framed you instead, and the people around him blamed you, and the heart broke at that moment.

Kindness, I used to think that as long as I was good to others, others would be good to me and would remember my goodness! But then, I was wrong. Some people really take your goodness for granted!

When did I decide to change my mentality of always being good to others, it was when I found out that I have always been good to others, but as a result, others took my good as indifferent, and even took me as a fool!

I remember when I was in junior high school, we were all so naughty at that time, compared to boys, we were gentle angels, but one day the male table secretly took away my eraser, and I packed up the stationery box after school and couldn't find it, and the classmates behind told me, and I gritted my teeth and swore in my heart. Tomorrow I will draw a 38th line for him, and I will not lend him anything, but then I don't know when I forgot everything.

Kindness is a very valuable essence, it gives us peace of mind, and peace of mind can make "the body is free", that is, as the saying goes: people do not do bad things, and they are not afraid of ghosts knocking on the door in the middle of the night.

Personally, I think that it is difficult for a person to adjust his label from "a kind person" to "a person who is not casually kind".