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Because people like to pinch soft persimmons.
Good people are honest and kind, true and simple, they are unguarded and easy to take advantage of.
Some scheming villains who do things that are framed will always think of letting the good people take the blame, because good people have no temper and are easy to talk.
Although it is a blessing to suffer losses, good people have become honest and easy to be targeted by bad people if they have been suffering losses.
Good people must learn to protect themselves, your simple kindness should be left to those who love you, and you must learn to refuse when encountering excessive requests from others.
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Hide your dissatisfaction in your heart, and the contradictions will become bigger and bigger in the future. He is a "good old man" who doesn't know how to reject others. Therefore, as long as others have something, they will think of you as soon as possible.
Over time, they will take it for granted that you should help them, whether it's convenient for you or not.
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It's not that being a good person will suffer, that's just an incorrect statement.
To be a good person, we must learn the "Lei Feng spirit", no matter what we do, we need to consider each other, as long as others are happy, we will be happy.
Being a good person refers to not asking for anything in return, but treating others as oneself, which is a blessing even if it is a loss, so there is no such thing as "suffering" in the eyes of good people.
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Because you are wrong about the object of being a good person, if you are a good person when you are with a good person, then it will only enhance the relationship between each other. If you are still a good person when you are with bad people, of course, you will suffer, but even if you suffer, others will still not sympathize with you and will call you a fool.
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A few days ago, on my way from work, I passed by the vegetable market, I wanted to buy some dandelion sauce to go to the fire, but I saw an uncle of nearly seventy or so, selling dandelions in a corner of the market, seeing that the uncle was old, full of wrinkles, I couldn't help but think of my father, if it was my father, how distressed I should be, so I suddenly bought the uncle's dandelions, I remember that it cost more than fifty, full of big pockets! After returning home, the dandelion on the dandelion and the dandelion on the next dandelion made everyone tired of eating, because if you are a good person, you have to pay for your good deeds!
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The definition of being a good person is to let others go all the time, think about others in everything, and be a person like Lei Feng. It is difficult to be a good person, and if you want to be a good person, you must lose a lot of things or opportunities, that is, you must suffer some losses.
But everyone must also understand that suffering is a blessing, although you will lose something in front of you, but the advantage of being a good person is that you can accumulate your own character, and you will definitely make up for it in other aspects.
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In the short term, it seems that some good people will suffer, but as long as this loss is clearly confessed, in fact, it is not a loss, the world is still fair, people who have been suffering losses are either great wisdom or fools, great wisdom people get great blessings through losses in exchange for great blessings, fools don't understand why they suffer losses, happiness is the first need, so it doesn't matter, good people are relatively speaking, the world will not fail a good person, It's just a little longer.
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It's not that being a good person will suffer, it depends on what kind of person you get along with, if you are with someone who loves to be cheap, you will definitely suffer, and others think you are cheap. If you get along with good people, there is no such thing as suffering, because two good people are afraid that the other party will suffer when they are together, rather than thinking that they will suffer losses. As the saying goes:
Suffering is a blessing"!
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Good people are very kind, and they don't think about taking advantage of them at all, and when I usually take the subway, I will take the initiative to give up my seat when I see someone older. Everyone gets old one day, and when they get old, others will do these good deeds to make themselves less tired. On the surface, it seems that I have suffered a loss, but in fact, it is a joy to help others.
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"Thankless" is a true portrayal of good old people. But to be a good person, you also have to learn to refuse, which is also a compulsory lesson in life, but on the contrary, for me, suffering is a blessing, I am willing to suffer losses to be a good person, I believe that the losses I suffer will repay me at a certain time and one day.
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Everyone's thoughts are different, some people like to be evil, but most people are still willing to be good people. We must be good-hearted, and only in this way can we be happy.
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Now it is true that the atmosphere is not good, the wicked are in charge, the wicked do not suffer losses, and being a good person is disliked and bullied everywhere.
But people are good and people are deceived, and the heavens do not deceive, and good and evil will be rewarded in the end.
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If you want to be a wicked person, and you feel that being a good person is like suffering a loss, it can only be said that it is a problem of this person's character. If he was a good man, he would not have easily become a wicked man. If it is a person with questionable conduct, it takes a lot of effort to be a good person.
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Sometimes, some people think differently, so they will have such an idea to be a good person, after all, they will not suffer.
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But I won't be a villain, others don't bully me, it's best to be safe with my colleagues and neighbors, and it's really uncomfortable to meet that kind of neighbors and colleagues and affect my mood and IQ.
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In fact, being a good person is more disadvantageous on the surface, but you can accumulate good and become virtuous, which is better than being an evil person.
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This society is like this, and good people will suffer. Unless you have the ability, you don't expect anything in return. But don't be a wicked person, your conscience will not go, and you are most comfortable being an ordinary person who is not good or bad.
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yes, why do you have to be wicked, it seems good to be a good person.
In fact, most people are people who seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, and in the past, they were praised for being good people, but now good people are not so good at doing things, for example, before you go to help a fallen grandmother, you have to think about whether she has touched the magnet, so in order to protect yourself, people would rather have less praise from others.
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I think the reason why you feel this way may be the social environment, the people around you make you feel that it is difficult to integrate into this society as a good person, and the so-called evil people are the mainstream now, but let's do it. Personally, I think it's better to be a good person, at least I won't let my heart live in uneasiness, if you can do it without accidents is the best, personal opinion.
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The bad guys may succeed for a while, but they often lose for a lifetime. Some people only see thieves eating meat, but they don't see thieves being beaten, and looking at the problem in this way is obviously too superficial and one-sided.
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If people are kind, they will be cared for. If you are a wicked person, everyone will hate you when they mention you; If you are a kind person, others will praise you when they mention you. Would you rather be hated or praised by others?
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That's because you don't have a good way to deal with good and evil, that's why it's like this.
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Most of the wicked people are the one who takes advantage, and the good people will not get good results if they pay, and the good sometimes really has to be given to the right people.
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Why do you all have to be wicked? Is it the same as being a good person? I don't think so, whether it's a good person or a wicked person, it's actually caused by the environment.
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Because people's selfishness is too great, they are always afraid of suffering, so they want to be wicked.
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Evil is rewarded with evil, and good is rewarded with good, not that it is not not repaid, the time has not yet come.
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The mood is different, don't feel at a loss if you do good deeds.
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Everyone has different choices, we just need to be ourselves.
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Evil does not prevail over good, but at night it is different.
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As the old saying goes, people are good and are bullied.
In life, many times, you can't be too "honest".
Because not everyone can understand your forbearance and kindness.
Many times, you think that if you are kind to others, they will appreciate you; You think that if you suffer a loss, others will no longer embarrass you; You think that if you are honest, others will be honest with you.
After all, the human heart is too complicated.
Relatives and friends may know the roots, but in daily life, you have to associate with too many people who don't know you well, and you have to be a little wary of these people.
The ancestors have long said: "You can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people." ”
If you want not to be bullied, you must keep these three sentences in mind.
Honest people are often reluctant to compete with others for something.
Even if you really like it, once you see that there are other people who want it, you will often take a step back silently and give the opportunity to others.
Because their character has their own attitude of being in the world without quarrel.
I don't want to fight with anyone for anything, I just want to live my life quietly and try not to conflict with anyone.
But there are many things in this world that you can't just hide.
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