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There is a way to be strong and strong, and I hope that your ideals and ambitions will not be lost.
Indeed, the impact of the environment on people cannot be underestimated. Adapting to a bad environment is not the point, it's important to improve yourself.
I think you need a clear goal. This goal should be in line with your own strength, like you say that your science is not good and the school you go to is relatively poor, then choose the best university within your strength. Take a look at the local or national university rankings, a little research on the data of employment and graduate school abroad, a little more ambitious, your motivation will instantly increase a lot.
A life with ideals is worth living.
In fact, no one is shallow, and if you feel that your classmates are not compatible with you, then learn more about them. Since you read a lot, your knowledge should be broader, and there should be no shortage of materials to communicate with your classmates, and when you carefully explain to them what people don't understand, they will appreciate you very much. If you specialize in art, your classmates may not all be so low, let go of your posture and defense, take the initiative to communicate with your classmates, and you will always find someone worthy of friendship.
Cafeteria toilets? This is not a problem, I used to go to the toilet by myself when I was in high school, hehe, I just don't like a large ticket of people holding hands. There's nothing uncomfortable about it, being alone doesn't mean being alone.
Build up confidence, there is no unearned harvest, if you want to change, take action. If the real effort is still confusing, that's the problem. In fact, many books are not read, people are not bookcases, save time to exercise, to think about how good. Reading alone does not create value.
Words are offensive, forgive me. Good luck.
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I 17. Although I am a little younger than you, I used to be a bit like you, and even now I am a little misanthropic. But because I tried to change, I tried to change myself to make friends, and having more friends is really good and can help you a lot.
It also helps me become more lively and outgoing. Actually, I don't think the textbook is interesting, but some of the students are still quite good. At least I made the right friends, and those real feelings can still move me.
My high school was quite strict, so I probably didn't get to experience that kind of high school environment. But you have to think about whether you have a dream, you have to overcome this and get good grades.
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I used to be very introverted.,Don't like to talk.,I had a classmate in high school.,She's very outgoing.,People and kind people don't say.,She's always accommodating me.,Tolerate me.,We're always together.,Close to Zhu Zhechi.。。 Later, after a long time, my personality has also changed, I no longer treat life negatively, actively strive for everything I want, and be more optimistic... I hope my advice is helpful to you, and may you be happy...
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I think at this time, we only look at one side of everything, only see the pessimistic side, and a lot of ideas are born from this.
When I'm always complaining, it's really hard for me to see that I'm still much better than before, and when I'm always complaining, I don't even feel that someone is missing me, someone loves me, someone is with me, and now my work is normal, 8 hours a day, 5 days, Saturday and Sunday, and there are always things in life that make me laugh.
These little luck and happiness around me are completely invisible because of my complaints.
Compared to many people, I'm actually not bad, I have a job, someone loves me, someone accompanies me, and there are always things in life that make me laugh.
repay debts", because we are human beings, we have feelings, we have responsibilities. Everyone is the same, but they have different views in their hearts, and they do the same You call it "debt repayment", and he also calls it "debt repayment", but he doesn't complain and only sees the side of life.
When this person makes you angry, annoys you, and makes you unhappy, there are always some people who are willing.
Talk to you, share it for you, face it with you.
A lot of times I only see the first half of the sentence and not the second half.
Someone told me yesterday that while many people pay attention to whether you are flying high or not, there are also people who are paying attention to whether you are tired of flying.
It turns out that not everything is what I thought it would be, and sometimes one morning, I would meet a strange smile on the bus and it would make me feel good.
Actually, I really feel so tired sometimes, so annoying, sometimes I feel that other people are so snobbish, so what...
Yes, there are really these realities, I think I should know, there are some people who are willing to give everything for me, and there are also people who are willing to share everything I have for me. Some.
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Find something you like to do, listen to it, exercise more, and more importantly, socialize with others!!
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A man should be self-reliant.
Don't overthink it, it's important not to look at what is vague in the distance, but what is clear on the left-hand side.
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Hehe, I used to have a classmate like this, it's okay, as long as you don't reject the classmates around you. School is the best place for friends!
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Have fun. Everybody is at that loss ... Try to make friends with others. Hey.. Hope you are happy.
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Misanthropy means being negative and pessimistic, unwilling to live any longer.
It also refers to the disgust for human beings and the human world. In a narrow sense, it generally refers to severe depression that is unwilling to participate in social action, and in a broad sense, it also includes some psychological states caused by social relationships.
It can be caused by victimization, emotional abuse, school bullying, etc. Tang Li Jiu's "Singing on the Way in White" No. 2: "Who can answer the name of the world-weary escaper?" ”
Song Chen Liang's "Sacrifice to Lu Dong Lewen": "When there is nothing to do, he has a feeling of disgust with the world." ”
Hu Huaichen's poem "Blowing Ten Thousand Questions: Cold and Hidden Pictures": "Secluded people have no vulgarity, and they are world-weary and alone. ”
Lao She's "Black and White Li": "I would never think that he was a little misanthropic or mentally changed because he talked about religion. ”
Southern Dynasty Song Yan Yanzhi "Sacrifice Yu Shunwen for Xiangzhou": "Hundred years are misanthropic and thousands of miles away." ”
Tang Zheng instructed "Miscellaneous Records of the Ming Emperor Gao Lishi": "Fang knew that the emperor was tired of the world, and Lux looked north, crying and vomiting blood. ”
Ming Hu Yinglin's "Shao Shan Fang Pen Bush Double Tree Fantasy Banknote": "I was sick and died, and suddenly dreamed of Manjushri and said: 'Women should not be tired of the world, and after three years, there is a big shamen in Aurora, and she receives the Tao from women. ’”
Qing Zhou Lianggong's "Sacrifice to King Ruizhi Taiweng": "When Taiweng is disgusted with the world, the eldest prince and Ji Gong are on the side, and the mourning ceremony is ready. ”
The Surprise of the First Moment of Shooting Volume 26: "Such a useless old thing, also come to be world-weary, what do you do to haunt people alive and dead?" ”
Zhuangzi Heaven and Earth": "A thousand years old is misanthropic and goes to the immortals." Song Baozhao of the Southern Dynasty poem "White Clouds": "Love is high and not vulgar, and the world-weary is happy to seek immortals." ”
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We all know that misanthropy, misanthropy in popular terms means that we are tired and disgusted with this world, and we no longer want to exist in this world. On the one hand, this emotion is due to the fact that I have been unhappy with my life, and on the other hand, it is due to my own mentality that is too negative. The impact of misanthropy on ourselves, our families, and even on society as a whole is very negative, so we must find ways to deal with it.
First, when you first feel that you may have a misanthropic mood, you must analyze and weigh your psychology in time. To make your mood calm and calm, first try to enlighten yourself.
Second, when we feel that we are worthless, when everything is not going well, we can think about the lives of others, in this society, some people are even unsound, and some people have lost their relatives, only they are alone in the struggle, and some people are very poor or even not enough to eat and wear, but these people have not given up, or are working hard and struggling, in contrast, our psychology will get a lot of comfort and encouragement.
Thirdly, we should not always think about what we have not gained, what we lack, we should think more about what we have, we have a healthy body, we have family and friends who love us, we have smart minds, in this case we will not have any difficulties that we cannot overcome.
Fourth, when we are negative and misanthropic, we should not hold ourselves in our hearts, but try to confide in our friends and seek comfort, so that we can get out of the misanthropy.
If we really have a world-weary mood, don't rush to vent to deny yourself at this time, we can choose to empty ourselves, eat the food we have always wanted to eat, go to our relatives to make a **, go to our friends to confide, and then you will find that this world is so beautiful, and finally I hope that everyone can be treated gently by this world.
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It means that you have been depressed for a long time. This is a negative ideology and concept produced by living in a stressful and unsatisfactory living environment for a long time.
Depression can be treated through self-regulation, first of all, this emotion is caused by a lack of spiritual sustenance and faith, and a lack of life pursuit and motivation. When you encounter a setback, you want to run away. You need to have a faith and sustenance to bear for you.
Why were many revolutionary martyrs able to sacrifice their lives to pursue the revolution and endure all kinds of torture from the enemy under such difficult conditions? The main thing is that people have faith and pursuit.
Secondly, change to a new living environment, and get in touch with positive energy, positive people or other things.
Enrich yourself again, the reason why people are empty and cranky is that they live too comfortably. It lies in the absence of a sense of crisis. The schedule is very tight, and there is no time for you to mess around.
Finally, if the misanthropy has been severe recently, it is recommended to see a psychologist and let your family pay more attention to themselves, because depressed patients end up with self-control and cannot control their thoughts and behaviors. Adjunctive psychotropic medications** if necessary to calm yourself down.
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Misanthropic explanations.
be pessimistic;be world-weary] pessimistic and negative, disgusted with the world Chitose misanthropy, go to the immortals. ——Zhuangzi Heaven and Earth" Love is not vulgar, and he is misanthropic and happy to seek immortals. ——Bao Zhao's "White Cloud Sedan Chair Nuclear Chapter" Detailed explanation (1).
Negative pessimism, disgust with the world. Zhuangzi Heaven and Earth": "A thousand years old is misanthropic and goes to the immortals."
Song Baozhao of the Southern Dynasty poem "White Clouds": "Love is high and not vulgar, and the world-weary is happy to seek immortals." Tang Li Jiu "White Clothes on the Way" No. 2:
Who can answer the name of the world-weary escapee? Song Chen Liang's "Sacrifice to Lu Dong Lewen": "When there is nothing to do, he has a feeling of disgust with the world."
Hu Huaichen's poem "Blowing Ten Thousand Questions: Cold and Hidden Pictures": "Secluded people have no vulgarity, and they are world-weary and alone. Lao She, "Black and White Lee":
I don't think he is a little misanthropic or mentally changed because he talks about religion. ” 2).Pass away.
Dead euphemism. Southern Dynasty Song Yan Yanzhi "Sacrifice Yu Shunwen for Xiangzhou": "Hundred years are misanthropic and thousands of miles away."
Tang Zheng instructed "Miscellaneous Records of the Ming Emperor Gao Lishi": "Fang knew that the emperor was tired of the world, and Lux looked north, crying and vomiting blood. Ming Hu Yinglin, "Shao Room, Mountain House, Pen Bush, Double Tree Fantasy Banknote":
I was sick and died, and suddenly I dreamed that Master Manjushri said to me: 'Women should not be tired of the world, and in the next three years, Aurora has a great shamen, and she receives the Tao from women. Qing Zhou Lianggong "Sacrifice to the King Ruizhi Taiweng":
When Tai Weng was disgusted with the world, the eldest prince and Ji Gong were clinging to their side, and they were ready to mourn. ” 3).Still in the world, ugly.
The Surprise of the First Moment of Shooting Volume 26: "Such a useless old thing, also come to be world-weary, what do you do to haunt people alive and dead?" ”
Word decomposition Explanation of disgust disgust (disgust) chaotic sail ming à disgust, disgust : disgust (?Nasty.
Fed up. Love the new and hate the old. At great length.
Learn and never get tired of it. Satisfaction: insatiable.
radical : factory; Interpretation of 世 世 ì an era, sometimes specifically referring to thirty years: generation (..)
Many years;for several lifetimes). Century (refers to a hundred years of inference).
Liufang Baishi. From generation to generation: hereditary.
The Saga (..)In feudal society, the family of the highest family and the generation of officials;Biography of the princes in the Records of the Historians).
The earth, with the sky.
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