Should I forgive my once wayward boyfriend? Married people settle down 30

Your real problem is this: personality incompatibility!

On the divorce agreement, the reason for the divorce is fixed, and it is these 4 words "personality incompatibility".

This boy is stubborn, and so are you.

He thinks he's doing the right thing, and so are you.

You will not easily change what you consider to be a matter of principle.

If, you forgive him. Then you have to be prepared to accept all his thoughts, otherwise, your days will be even more miserable.

His language already reveals a lot of this information.

From beginning to end, he is stating that what he did before was for your good, how you are, I don't know. It's your fault, he's not. Isn't he talking about that the whole thing?

And, just at the end, he also stressed that he had nothing left but dignity.

His so-called dignity is probably a concession.

He won't budge.

The choice is yours.

Be reconciled - then accept him.

If you don't get along, choose someone who is right for you

It's too naïve, it's hard, forget it.

I don't think it's necessary!

If you're young, you might try to forgive him, but I don't think he's necessarily the right fit for you.

Why does it feel like he's a scale? Psychologically, although every sentence is making you firm, giving you the initiative and making you feel that he is waiting for your decision. But every sentence seems to make sense (because the angle is different).

I think you're going to be moved by it, and I'm sure you're going to have more problems in the future, and those problems are included in what you wrote. And it's going to happen, and then you're going to have no choice but to do it. Because he already told you about these things.

Of course, miracles also happen to people who believe in miracles, maybe you can try.

Men have to have flaws, that's why there are women.

Actually, people are like puzzles, and there will always be the wrong side, as long as there is the right side.

Ask yourself if the colors match.

Isn't that very good at talking? I think they all have the potential to write **!

Give him a chance, but also give himself a chance, no principled issues, let go once.

The question in your heart is not "whether you should forgive him", but "how to find a reason to forgive him". In fact, ask yourself, you don't want to give up, you just want to give yourself a reason here.

After reading your description above, it can be said that there are really not many good men like this, he is right, if you give up on him, both parties may be sad, but in the end it will be you who regret it.

If you want to give yourself a reason to forgive, it is his sincerity and dedication to you. Also, tell your boyfriend that you can calm down for a while, but don't break up easily.

In the same way, I want to tell LZ not to let go of the happiness in front of you easily, if you miss it, you may miss it for a lifetime.

I wish you all a speedy reconciliation and a happy life :-)

I can't speak yet, these words are about the same amount as my husband has been in a month. But what he said is not the same as marriage, my husband doesn't like to talk and won't coax me, every time it's unpleasant, it's always a cold war, but he also knows that the cold war is not good, and he always wants to change it, but every time he solves it, he has to go through a few days of silent tea, pour water, rub his shoulders and rub his back, and then let me use violence to end it, to tell you, the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change, although it is always the tip of the horns now, but it will still be very clear that it will continue to drill in the future, and there will always be a person who will involuntarily change, After a long time, you can slowly get used to it and tolerate it, but these do not affect you to be a happy woman, women must know that they find happiness in life, even if he hands you a piece of paper, you have to see happiness and love.

It's too long to write, it would be nice if the paragraphs were separated

The lady downstairs has a lot of insight into the way of husband and wife.

Your boyfriend is too good at talking, isn't he? Sincerity should be proven by action.

Hehe,,The man is very much like me.,And I'm also a Taurus.,I'm free to let my wife read this too.,No one is perfect.。。 Maybe you can find a better one, but I believe that even the best is not perfect.

I don't know why you're dividing and merging

Whoever quarrels is whose fault it is, and there is nothing to say.

If you are wrong, you can change it, I don't know why the landlord is willing to work for one, willing to pay, and respect his family. Men who are single-minded and responsible are not tempted. Yes,,, the man does not coax people.

Haha, when you find a boyfriend who will coax people. When he leaves your sight, can you rest assured of him? Not only do you know who he will be talking sweetly to at that time?

Do you know how many girls are coaxing? Men also need love, and he always says it's a big deal to break up. I just hope you love him more.

Isn't it time to beg you to get back together?

If you think you can find a better ... That's of course going for better.

If... You can't find anything better ... Regret.. Or eat back to the grass again...

I still hope that you cherish the people in front of you. I'm sure the man won't be unable to find his wife.

Everyone has their own way of expressing themselves, and some people may not be very good at speaking, but that doesn't mean that they don't care or don't care.

In fact, it is best to care about you with practical actions, sweet words, and rhetoric may not be real people who pay for you.

However, after reading your post, is this man still introverted? Talking is fanciful, so blowing. Have you done everything you said? It's not at all true to promise so much so quickly.

It's up to you whether you reconcile or not, and you know best what he does to you.

I think you should not only forgive him, but also not be so impulsive in the future....Love is a matter of two people, and it is also a matter of oneself! As long as you are happy, happy...Why do you care about what others do? Right!

You envy the romance of other boyfriends, he doesn't. Ever wondered if that guy wasn't as considerate as your boyfriend? No one is perfect....I don't think you missed him for this little thing!

It's true that he's a little kid when he says it before, but I don't know if he's really younger than you? If yes, maybe this isn't a problem....Looking at the latter words, he is indeed a good man....No man could say anything like that, not even very little! I think you probably liked it because of some aspects of him at first!

So don't think about those little things, the days to come will be long! I wish you all happiness!

The personalities are different, as long as you are determined to be together, you can get through the run-in period of love. It's good for a long time.

Men (except for the big carrot) don't like to express themselves, just like your boyfriend, he will only prove his love for you with his actions! Love, after the washing of time, will slowly return to plainness, or it will be transformed into family affection. Do you want someone who can only play tricks with you for the rest of your life?

Let's go back to reality, couples without quarrels are not husbands and wives, and flawless love is only found in movies and TV series! In today's society, it is difficult to find someone who loves you and you love. May you be happy!

Unintentionally offended, sorry. But I think it's better to be together, I'm also very childish, and my girlfriend is often unhappy because of this, quarreling, and I think I have to cherish what you wrote, otherwise I will regret it if I lose it.

Listen to my sister. Huitou grass must not be eaten. Feelings are not as good as other things, once there is a crack in love, it is difficult to repair. And, never expect men to change.

Everyone has their own unique character! Some love to express, some love to act! Personally, I think your boyfriend is the latter! I'm more of the latter!

Two people can't be completely one Yang's character! Learn to blend in with each other!

Wishing you happiness!

You have to believe him, a man's heart is also softer, and he may also feel more guilty about her! Plus, even if you chat, it won't leave you! How much you think! He's the one who should be tired! Don't be so careful! After all, he chose you!

If you like him, believe him, each other should give each other space, think clearly, it will be fine!

Obviously a mainlander, why use traditional Chinese characters? It's so tiring to look ......

I've been with us for seven years. But he's younger than me. I feel very ignorant, the main distance is far away, we are two cities, and I can't bear to let go of my parents.

Seriously, you should have taken a fancy to him in good condition. It's impossible to have no next time just once, this thing is addictive and difficult to change, so don't covet things for a while, it's better to divide them!

It still depends on his current performance, you have to understand that the past is always the past, you and he are the present, it is the future, why care so much about the past, of course, if you still find that he still wants to do such and such bad deeds, then you must not hesitate to fire it.

This kind of b-man ruins the image of our man. Are you still with him? Sooner or later you regret it.

Hehe, your boyfriend and I are in a similar situation...

It's nothing, it's just to go out and play, sometimes it's very simple to relax or meet friends, and there are few men who are not.

It is good to show and sullen deeds.

If you get married, you should trust him.

It's not as good as your own home and family.

Drink more and talk about it, it doesn't matter if you play it, but if you change the fake drama and really do it, cut his little jj -- my daughter-in-law's original words.

If you don't want to be a cuckold for the rest of your life, then divide it! Analyze your situation, you love your girlfriend very much, and your girlfriend is very simple and emotional. And her ex-boyfriend is very good at rhetoric.

After you get married, if her ex-boyfriend comes to her secretly, it will be difficult to resist according to your girlfriend's personality. The result is doomed to tragedy. Or maybe you're just a substitute for him!

It must not be knotted. Don't you even want your own dignity? If you are wrong, you have to accept the consequences and take responsibility.

Turn back while you can. Never tie the knot. Otherwise, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

will also not be able to raise his head for the rest of his life. Because it's about the dignity of men. Dignity doesn't matter how you can convince others in your future life.

And how do you establish your authority? So. No matter what, it can't be knotted.

Or don't get married, if something like this happens the first time, there will be a second time, how dare she promise not to meet her ex-boyfriend? She cried and begged you because she didn't want to let others know about it, for fear of losing face, how could she meet her ex-boyfriend if she really loved you. She is not an emotional person, and she may not forget her ex-boyfriend.

If a cat smells fishy, can it be assumed that it hasn't smelled it? If this happens once, will it continue to happen? Unless you want to be green by her again ...

It's just cute, it's a virtue, but if you don't have principles, it's hateful. Adults, not children, should have their own principles. If it were me, I wouldn't forgive her. There is no bottom line without principles, and there will be other things that will happen in the future!

Don't get married just yet, look at her performance.

Marriage is a lifelong thing, and you don't want to have a second time.

Be responsible for yourself, be responsible for the woman you love, and you have to see what she does, and if she doesn't do it anymore in the future, you can think about getting married.

But what if it happens after getting married.

Do you want a divorce?

Think twice about everything.

Brother, don't say anything else, ask yourself, can you forgive? Is it past the psychological level of your own psyche? Ask yourself, forgive if you can, and if it doesn't, you know you're exculpating her.

Explain that you love her, look at it, let's talk about it, put the marriage thing on the go, and then get in touch when you really forgive, or you feel that she loves you very much, and then talk about marriage! Marriage is solemn, so be cautious and hope to adopt.

What a good man, trying his best to defend his girlfriend who went wrong. In fact, from a psychological point of view, if you are willing to be entangled like this, it means that you really love her, and you are soft-hearted by her pleading. It can be seen in your words that you still love her very much, since you still want to be with her, be brave, find someone you really love in this flashy society, and it is really not easy to be dating for five years.

Try to forgive once, and married life goes to two extremes. If she is a good woman, you will grow old together, and your children and grandchildren will be extended. If she is a bad woman, if she is still willing to behave outside, she will let it go in a chic manner.

Don't get too tired, just do whatever you want. If you fall, you should suffer a big loss, pick up your clothes and move forward. I believe that these things that your girlfriend did to you will remain in your heart for a long time, but who does not survive in pain, everyone has the day to be loved.

I wish you happiness, if you and your girlfriend are sincere regardless of your previous suspicions, I wish you a lifetime of love and no betrayal.

There must be a bottom line to be a man If you cross your bottom line It means that she won't think about you at all Marriage is for two people to live together and run together If it's just one-sided, then your marriage will soon come to an end When the time comes, it will hurt two people and even two families Besides, can you really forgive Can you really not care Just like what I said upstairs No matter how simple a person is, he is an adult, right? Have you ever wondered why she had to marry you? Did I really love you to marry you?

Would you do such a thing if you really loved you? If it weren't for some purpose, then she'd not be a minor at the mental age, and she wouldn't be fit to get married.