How can I get rid of selfish thoughts about my girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-13
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You definitely think it's not wrong, but it's actually wrong.

    All people are equal, let alone in the world of love.

    Maybe you think that your selfishness is because you love her, but if you really love her, you should think about her. In fact, you think about yourself.

    Love is dedication, tolerance, and men should have a broad shoulder for women to rely on.

    This kind of little selfishness and temper is left to women!

    Be generous, maybe you will find that the tolerant you are what she loves.

    No woman would want her man to be a little clip-gas.

    Because you love her, be kind to her!

    Personal opinion, if there is a mistake, I hope to forgive me.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    She loves you so much Done.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you talk too much, you are doomed to break up, because if you talk too much, I will think you are insecure. It is important to take care of emotional things, change what to say, and not to break up everything

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You love crazy, what to do, I can't think of it. Go out and have fun. Make a few more friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love needs to take risks, don't try to maintain a relationship with her because you are insecure. Go with the flow, enjoy every minute with her, and do what you know is meaningful for her. Don't be afraid of her because of the aura of her home.

    You love her, not her father. The meaning of love is to fill the feeling of emptiness and do what you think is meaningful. Wanting to be loved because it is not selfish to want to prove the meaning of one's existence.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Constellation, Zodiac, Birth Eight. You believe that, too.

    To love each other is to trust, and if there are too many tests, people may be tested and run away.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Buddhism just says to let you meditate, but does not teach you how to fall in love, the Buddha says: Meditation and few desires can become a Buddha on the ground.

    There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south...

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Congratulations, I can see that you are very happy, in fact, you pull the same as me, and my boyfriend and I are too, but he is very much, and he won't care about me, and you love him very much, so she will be able to understand it, but don't do it too much, ha, temptation, no problem, just try not to tempt again, otherwise it will backfire, ha, I wish you happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A man is a responsible person, and the most taboo thing is to keep talking about breaking up.

    The second point is that liking her and caring for her does not mean giving up on her. Because she loves you too. It doesn't matter if she has money or not, no matter what kind of background her family has.

    The important thing is whether you love her or not, and the important thing is whether you want to be with her forever. If you want to, you have to face all problems bravely.

    Three books, then take the postgraduate examination, and take the postgraduate examination for a first-class college. If you feel that you don't have money, you can work and study, and the money you save will buy things for her, so that it will be more meaningful.

    We are men, don't give up if you don't want to, giving up is not what men should do. In fact, it feels like you just have an inferiority complex. You have to believe that if it is the first love, as long as the other party does not change their mind, or the two people do not have a big conflict, it is difficult to separate.

    Whether it's good or bad (of course, it's too bad, it's too bad to say).

    I support you and support you to have her. We need to create a lot of opportunities to meet. After all, if you don't have face-to-face communication, you may lose a lot of the feeling you should have when you meet again after a long time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Try not to talk about it in the future!

    The important thing is that you should have your own business, and this is the most important thing, and show confidence, and I want your girlfriend to see you on something. At least you know that you didn't mean to, that you really love her, and that believing is more important than anything else.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you really love her, don't hurt her like that, you just remember one sentence, "Love her, don't hurt her, she needs my care and care".

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    To love her is to believe in her, since she loves you so much. What else do you have to doubt?

    Don't say it's broken up, fool, if one day, she really believes and breaks up with you, it's too late for you to cry!

    You just need to relax, read the book, listen to **, and think about when you are happy together.

    It's good, be good to her with your heart, and I'm sure she will feel it too!

    If she would fancy her family background, why did she choose you in the first place?

    A sucker! You're worrying about nothing!

    Continue to be nice to her in your way, that's enough, love is not to be enslaved by materialism!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Falling in love is a misunderstanding, and breaking up is understanding. People will always be a little selfish, it depends on the size of the selfish influence, whether it causes harm to you, if it is harmful to you or the people around you, you can enlighten more first, if it still doesn't work, then forget it, you can also be selfish.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello, I would like to know what you mean by "selfishness"?

    If it comes to principles, I suggest that we can have a good conversation, and if we can't change the status quo, then we can get together and disperse.

    If it's something innocuous or innocuous to say something innocuous to her, or find out: what does she think? Why do these buildings think they are doing what they think are selfish? If you understand it clearly, maybe all the problems will be solved.

    Hope it helps.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Forgive and tolerate each other, treat each other well, and do not practice Buddhism in the south.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you lose it, you will change it, and you will bye bye to the next one.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    People have a selfish side, and maybe that's part of her personality. Girl, she may have been pampered since she was a child, you should communicate with her more, with the passage of time, she has improved a lot.

    But be warned, if she really loves you, she will be influenced by you and change.

    If she doesn't love you and you give more, she thinks that's right.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can influence her with practical actions.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Full of probation or a change of ......

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