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When I meet the same kind of person, he doesn't call me **, doesn't send messages, and always talks to him before I pay attention to me, like a big girl. He said he was introverted, but he would talk to me, he was outgoing but he didn't take the initiative to talk to me, and when he took the initiative to talk about it, the sun came out of the west. But he finally said that he was going to invite me to dinner, which was a bit of a joke.
Otherwise, if you meet such a person, you won't have to suffocate me to death! But you have to be careful! Don't accidentally be his hidden girlfriend!
That's not seeing the light and nothing good! Let's try to develop him! Give him the stairs, if you want to grasp your own happiness, you have to learn to take the initiative, who let us like some big girl-like people!
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Basically, an introvert will change things if he thinks things are very difficult, so he just doesn't like those extroverted men, who will sweetly coax you, will surprise you from time to time, and will make you feel romantic. Of course, women just like that, what can be done, these days, men are not bad, women are not loved. It's bad, and it says that there are no good men in the world, it's good men, and that there is no interest.
You still need to know more about her, since he doesn't take the initiative, then you take the initiative, personality is difficult to change, if you really love him, just accommodate him, hehe.
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Let's get to know him as a person first, if he is not very active with you, and doesn't even like to meet you, then he basically has reservations about you, at least you are not the girl he loves the most and wants to date the most, he is now surrounded by no one, no choice, so with you, you are just an alternative for him, my point of view, you can consider it.
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Deep love! Agree, I'm an introvert too!
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It's just that it's very passive in every way.
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She loves you and cares about you, but she doesn't express it much, and she is more considerate of him
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Hello. Introverts certainly don't like to talk much. This kind of character is slowly formed from a young age.
The key is whether you love him or not, whether he loves you or not, after the relationship has been established. It is recommended that you go to the park with him more often and talk to him more. Take a look at the grass and trees in the park and the introduction of the park, and discuss the good thing about this park is that it is the highlight.
Of course, it is also a good choice to travel with a backpack on your back. You can ask him what he likes** first, and you will follow him**. For example, if he likes Sichuan and wants to eat spicy hot pot, then you can accompany him.
Eat with him and learn about the local customs. Take a look at the sea, for example, when I'm in Beijing, I go to Beidaihe, Dongdaihe, and Nandaihe to go around and eat local seafood. Now there are farmhouses by the sea, ** not high, and it is okay to live for a few days.
In short, both sides should be heart-to-heart, have a common language and goals, take your time, don't rush.
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Introverts fall in love with extroverts in the same way, basically to respect, love, considerate, and accompany the other half;
Introverts can learn to be positive, take the initiative to care for the other half, and be considerate of the other half;
Within the scope of what you can accept, take the initiative to communicate and exchange feelings with your other half.
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Slowly talk to her about some family routines, such as personal preferences and common sense of life, etc., slowly introverts will open the shackles in their hearts, chat with you, and slowly get familiar with you, in fact, introverts, if they really get his sincerity, he will be wholeheartedly to you, but not to hurt them.
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Hello, if you want to fall in love with an introvert, first of all, you don't want the other party to take the initiative to contact you, you have to take the initiative to contact him, so that you have a chance to succeed.
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When you fall in love with an introvert, you must first give him care and care. And give her a sense of security.
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Introverts generally don't like to talk, and they won't take the initiative to say anything, with this kind of person, you have to take the initiative to find something to say, find him to say something emotionally interesting, you can say whatever he likes, and slowly he still has something to say after getting acquainted with you, as long as you take the initiative, it's no problem.
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If you want to fall in love with an introvert, you can only give that person more care. Because of this kind of introvert, he himself is unwilling to trust anyone, so he is only willing to get along with you if you treat him better.
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Introverts generally don't have much to say in words, so they will be awkward and cold when they get along with their significant other, so they will miss many opportunities to fall in love! I'm actually an introvert, but the last time I read a love textbook called Partial Obsessed with Her, I learned a lot about the management of love on it, and now I get along very well with my other half, but I am obsessed with her, and I have changed a lot of me.
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Introverts are generally more introverted, and at this time the iceberg theory can be used, and what an introvert says is always only a small part of his knowledge system.
Introverts often don't understand romance, and you should have a clear understanding of this and don't have too high psychological expectations for him.
Although they don't know how to be romantic, introverts are often reliable.
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You can be proactive, take the initiative to find topics, and take the initiative to make suggestions.
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Falling in love, whether introverted or extroverted, is mutual, honest, mutual trust, and tolerance.
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How do introverts fall in love? Have you mastered all these skills?
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Introverts can be more active when they fall in love, take the initiative to care for the other half, be considerate of the other half, and take the initiative to communicate and exchange feelings with the other half within the scope of what they can accept.
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Introverts fall in love with extroverts in the same way, basically to respect, love, considerate, and accompany the other half;
Introverts can learn to be positive, take the initiative to care for the other half, and be considerate of the other half; Within the scope of what you can accept, take the initiative to communicate and exchange feelings with your other half. If you've ever been in a relationship, whether you're an extrovert or an introvert, you're sure to be able to recall looking at each other and being speechless for a long time.
So the first thing introverts should do is to let go of their mental baggage and not feel that introversion is a character flaw. In fact, sometimes introverted men are more likely to win the liking of girls, and some studies have found that boys who show a little shyness are more likely to be liked by girls.
Organize your time wisely
One of the great characteristics of introverts is that they have limited time for interpersonal interactions, and if we suddenly fall in love with someone, we will want to spend all our time with him or her. Extroverts don't have a problem because they prefer to be around others compared to being alone. But introverts will have problems, they have the need to be alone, and after spending a lot of time with the person they like, they will find that their energy is about to be exhausted and they have to be alone for a while to recover.
As a result, they compress the time they spend with their relatives and friends, causing serious deviations in their interpersonal relationships. It can be said that everyone has the instinct to forget their feelings, but introverts are especially prominent. Therefore, introverts should arrange their time when they fall in love, and they must pay attention to controlling the interaction between friends and relatives.
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