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Become able to speak, can communicate, this is still not to further change yourself, force yourself to speak, you can go to read books that exercise eloquence, or watch TV series, dialogue with the people in the TV series, you can also take a sip of wine, let friends record you talk when you drink too much, the next day you go to watch, you will find that it is not so difficult to speak and communicate, everyone has their own way, you can think about the way that suits you.
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Social interaction requires a certain degree of expressive ability, and introverted people will struggle with language, but most of the inner world is very strong. Good at analyzing, thinking. There are but can't express his true feelings or thoughts in words in the social center, the other party can't receive the signal or even the wrong signal, the language is mostly straightforward and direct, and you must pay attention to the occasion and proportion.
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I am an introverted person, especially like to listen, usually not much, not much chatting, many people think that I am introverted, indifferent to people and things, can not speak, usually is a person who is particularly difficult for others to approach, difficult to approach their inner world, do not know how to communicate, that is just different from person to person, everyone has a different view of themselves, there is no like-minded, common language, the Tao is not the same, the exchange and chat also depends on the person and the occasion.
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The inner self-confidence must come out, and we must find the shining point in our own body, infinitely amplify, and enhance self-confidence. Social-social interaction. Get out of your fixed circle and force yourself to do what you don't want to do, so that you can grow, don't care about other people's eyes and opinions, you are you, the world is unique.
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Introverts just don't seem to be very talkative, laughing, and handsome. In fact, the inner mind is rich and the insight is very keen, you only need to give yourself more confidence at the psychological level, to believe that the world is beautiful, everyone can accept goodwill to communicate, and it is not as difficult as you think.
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Introversion and extroversion are contrasts. Make friends with people you admire, especially what you do. The environment is the basis for a change, and what kind of environment can produce what kind of ideas can be generated.
The explanation of ideas is your thoughts and perceptions. Thus promoting the increase of your linguistic elements will benefit you.
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Introverts sometimes have a lot to do with personality. Do you think the person you want to associate with is someone who has a certain "mind" in terms of life, work and knowledge. Such a person will have some reasonable suggestions for you when you encounter problems.
But the same is whether you have the meaning of others worthy of associating with you.
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As long as you don't close yourself off, introversion won't suffer too much diplomatically, and maybe you'll look more stable and trustworthy. You can change yourself, and you will slowly become the person you used to hate. It's enough to have one or two friends who can accompany you in the middle of the night to drink, eat meat, and do stupid things.
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For those who are introverts and want to socialize with others, then you should make yourself cheerful.
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I'm not introverted, but I'm just trying to be more calm, but thank you, I'm going to do the same thing as everyone else.
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First of all, the diversity of communication modes allows you to expand your social circle and meet more different people and different things. In addition to chatting with familiar friends, you can also participate in a variety of social activities, meet like-minded people, and explore new interests and possibly noisy ones. A diverse social circle allows you to connect with more people, gain different life experiences, and bring additional inspiration and ideas.
Second, an inclusive and subtle social model helps you understand and embrace different personalities and thoughts. We don't always agree or like everyone, but we always have respect and gratitude for them, even if we have different opinions, values, etc. Therefore, when you interact with people, understand them out of gratitude and respect, and try to see things from their perspective.
This inclusion and understanding is essential for building good relationships.
Thirdly, an interactive social approach can lead to more empathy, communication, and interaction. As an extrovert, you need to be in contact and communicative, and interpersonal interaction in social circles is no exception. When communicating, listen attentively to each other and interact with them.
Excellent interactions are mutual, and they also bring about the expansion of horizons and the deepening of relationships.
Finally, on the basis of maintaining self-awareness and personality, it is necessary to appropriately show one's own characteristics and self-confidence. On the basis of maintaining self-awareness, try to get rid of excessive performances and show off knowledge, reflect your true self, and show your personality and strengths. This way, you will be recognized by more people and build real relationships.
To sum up, the most comfortable social model for you as an extrovert should be diverse, inclusive, interactive, and maintain self-awareness and personality based on appropriate self-presentation and self-regulation. Hope it helps.
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