I can t forget the person I liked when I was in school for decades

If the time is not long enough, it is not proportional to the deep memory he gives you, and the more profound the thing, the longer it will take to forget.

You can try to get close to him, maybe the distance allows you to beautify the other person infinitely, so it becomes a dream that you can't realize. If you put your relationship into reality, maybe you will be relieved naturally. Of course, it is also possible that you really like the other person, and the other person is indeed the kind of person who is attractive and worthy of your liking.

Can't you guys? This attachment is an emotional paranoia that you can never get out of when you don't want to let yourself out. To start a new relationship, in fact, everyone gets along the same, there is no difference.

Bless you.

Brother, a man who values affection.

1. Have a normal heart.

The more you want to deliberately forget something, the more you can't forget, the more you remind yourself to forget, the more you will remember it, if you are a bland sweep of everything, after all, what has happened can not be changed by anyone, and it is very easy to have a normal heart to deal with everything. Deliberate forgetting, that is, not forgetting, because I care about whether I still remember, so I often remind myself to forget, in fact, on the contrary, every reminder is to let myself remember him more deeply.

2. Don't blame yourself too much.

When we break up with the person we like, we are also prone to a wrong psychology - self-blame, we will blame ourselves for the fault of the breakup, and feel that it is because we have not done a good job that leads to the other party's departure. Time is the best healing medicine, hide him in the bottom of your heart, hide the memories he gave you in your heart, and occasionally take it out and reminisce about it. It is not easy to meet someone you love very much, and it is even more difficult to have a good time with someone you love very much.

So don't blame yourself too much, it will only make it harder to forget him.

3. Reach a settlement with yourself and the other party.

Although love will change over time, we can't deny that the efforts of both parties were false, and it is precisely because you once sincerely loved each other that you will be so unforgettable in this relationship, right? So come to terms with our hearts, with this person who has been with us for a good time. Repression and denial can never create positive strength for us, nor can it help us let go, but will only make ourselves more internal.

4. Make your life fuller.

You can choose to go out and travel. Travel allows a person to forget all their worries and plunge into the lap of nature. This trick is also very effective, allowing you to come back from your trip and rejuvenate.

I have been liking him for 10 years and there is no result, which means that I really love the wrong person, and in order to plan for the future, I should let go of him in my heart and find happiness that truly belongs to me.

As long as you are determined enough to give up this relationship, you can forget the person you have liked for ten years, and the best way is to find another person you like and start a new relationship.

Start your next relationship. As long as you meet someone better, those previous unpleasant emotional experiences will be forgotten. I used to be in the same state as you, but now it's much better.

Don't go for any news about him and make him disappear into your world completely. Seeing things and thinking about people, since there is no shadow of him in your life, you will naturally forget him.

You should understand that you haven't been able to get together for ten years, which means that you are really destined, since you can't be together, bless him well and start a new life with each other.

You should look at yourself, and you should also know that the person you have liked for 10 years, and if you are not together, it means that it is not suitable at all, and the best solution is to find your other half quickly.

The best way to forget a person is to fall in love with someone again, even if you don't love him, you can get along with him slowly, and after a long time you will have feelings for him, and thus you will forget that person.

You can keep yourself busy, don't always think about her, and you can develop a new hobby, so that you can divert your attention and meet someone who is really right for you.