At some point did you start to learn to hide yourself?

You are sad and sad because of something, and others laugh at you about it.

I was cheated of 50,000 yuan in business, in order not to worry my parents, I was still very happy every day, and I still talked and laughed when I ate, but only I knew that feeling.

Since I got married, my wife has the sole power, and I haven't bought clothes for my parents for a long time, so I have been secretly lying about my salary since last month.

My parents were worried that they were in a bad state when they were out of love, so they quietly looked at me from the sidelines. I pretended to be fine, put on beautiful makeup, and went out humming a little song.

The vegetable seller said: "I don't give 1 cent or 2 cents for a vegetable to buy, that's also my hard-earned money?" He silently turned the 2 yuan that the gang wanted to give him into 2 fast 2.

Seeing all kinds of people on the street, I feel that they are all so awesome, holding briefcases, each of them is the boss. I suddenly raised my head and became fierce, "I'm also the boss!" ”

I am sad that I did not do well in my exams. When I saw that the girl I liked was coming, I immediately pretended to be fine.

<> "You must learn to hide yourself.

The relationship between people is often full of hypocrisy and masks. We are constantly trying to please and please others, but in doing so, we only lose ourselves and forget what we really want. However, learning to hide oneself does not mean becoming a cancer or withdrawn.

It's about keeping a sense of self deep in your heart and not being easily influenced by the outside world.

When we have a lifestyle and values that we truly enjoy, we are able to truly balance our inner emotions. To learn to hide yourself, you need to start from your own heart and dig deep into your true inner needs. For example, if you're an introvert, don't force yourself to go to parties or social events; If you prefer a quiet life, then you don't have to worry about the eyes of others and bravely pursue your interests.

In social situations, we also need to learn to be subtle and not express our emotions and thoughts easily. It's not about avoiding communication altogether, it's about learning to respect the other person and make yourself more mysterious and profound. Maintain inner depth and sincerity in communication, but not expose your emotions too much.

This will not only make you more attractive, but also build more authentic relationships.

Learning to hide oneself does not mean erasing one's personality and characteristics. On the contrary, it is only when we release the true needs of our hearts that we can become our true selves and gain access to more people and things. Only by trying to communicate with yourself and listening to your true voice can you face the people and things around you more calmly and truly achieve a balance between inside and outside.

Embrace your heart bravely, learn to hide yourself, and harvest a more real and beautiful life.