High scores, true feelings Do you really have to respect others if you want to be respected by other

You don't have to worry too much, in fact, you just don't want to be bullied in your heart, disguising yourself like this is actually your way of protecting yourself, there is nothing wrong, but in this way you have to pay the price that others are afraid of you and stay away from you. It's actually bad for you to make real friends.

I think it's necessary to respect each other in order to make true friends. Remember to reciprocate to those who have helped you, even if it's to say thank you. Don't bully the weak, don't say anything about the image, so that at least others will see you very unhappy, even if it is someone who bullies others with you, it is not good for you to make too many enemies, and when the time comes, maybe you will suffer a dark loss.

You still have to respect your elders, sometimes you feel uncomfortable when you discipline them strictly, just be silent, there is no need to contradict them, hurt your nerves and hurt your energy. To make friends, you still have to see what kind of people are really reliable, scholars and hooligans can make friends with anyone, but you have to see if they are reliable, and don't hurt the friends who are really helpful to you.

You just want to pay for the harvest, and if the relationship or friend has a utilitarian purpose, it may be sour!

Young and still growing, it is recommended to be more tolerant! How kind of fate can friends or classmates think about getting together? Why bother with a little thing?

If you are tolerant of others, if one or both of them are not treated with tolerance, then I believe that 10. 20, you will be recognized after all!

In fact, don't think about what others are like, you want to be respected by others, want to be recognized by others, want to be supported by others, treat people with courtesy, and others should also treat each other with courtesy, but you don't forget a very important thing, that is, don't add what you think to others, look at it from the perspective of others, no one will feel uncomfortable because of your respect, but, On the contrary, if you just blindly think about the respect of others, and don't want to pay for yourself, you will not get anything, making friends is the same reason, now you are very distressed, no one will understand you, don't think like this, want to let others into your world, you have to open your own door first, change from yourself, don't think that others do not respect you, do not look at you, you begin to give up on yourself, so that in fact, it will make more people look down on you, now you want to change the status quo or have time, First of all, you have to get out of the misunderstanding, don't think about what you thought was unfair, you are unlucky, and don't forget that there are many people who are more unfortunate than you, and the world is not your own. And to correct your mentality, the more you want to scold others, the more you have to control yourself... I'm sorry I don't have time.,Eh.。。

That's pretty much it for now. The main thing is yourself, to have a good mentality.

Treat your friends well, even if your classmates don't respect you, but you will see it in your heart, after graduation, your best friend may be your classmates, I just graduated from junior high school, when I went to school, I didn't communicate much with my classmates, but I will help my classmates, and I didn't go out with my classmates, after graduation, many classmates asked me to go out to see teachers, swim, play basketball.

The interaction between people and friends should be based on sincerity and respect. The philosopher William James said, "The deepest motive force that lurks deep in the heart of man is the desire to be recognized, to be respected."

It is human nature to desire to be loved, respected, and worshipped. However, what we want to gain must also give something.

In people's interactions, our own attitude towards others often determines the attitude of others towards us. It's like a person standing in front of a mirror, and when you laugh, the person in the mirror laughs too; You frown, and so does the person in the mirror; People yell at the mirror, and the people in the mirror yell at you. Therefore, if we want to gain the favor and respect of others, we must first respect others.

Only by respecting others will you be respected by others. A person who does not respect others will never be respected by others.

People are not as good as themselves, respect others; You are inferior to others, and you respect yourself. "No matter where you are, respecting others is just as important as respecting yourself. Therefore, when interacting with people, regardless of their status, status, or appearance, you must respect the personality of the other person, so that the person feels that he is welcome in your heart, so as to get a kind of psychological satisfaction, and then produce pleasure.

Respect for others is not only an attitude, but also a ability and virtue, which requires putting oneself in the shoes of others, giving others face, and maintaining the dignity of others.

Exchanges without respect cannot be sustained, and only by respecting each other can we be equal and recognize each other, so that both parties are happy to accept each other.

Sometimes, we all want to earn the respect of others, but we often neglect to respect others. "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" is the basic principle of respect for others. Psychological research shows that people have a desire to love and be respected, and the desire to make friends and be respected is very strong.

People aspire to be self-reliant, to be a true member of the family and society, to communicate with others on an equal footing. If you can communicate with people as equals, they will feel respected and have a good impression of you. On the other hand, if you feel superior, condescending, and domineering in communicating with others, the other person will feel that their self-esteem has been hurt and will refuse to associate with you.

Everyone has a need for self-esteem and respect. If you can't meet this most basic and simple need of others, then they will definitely not want to get along with you. As the old saying goes:

The gentleman is respectful and respectful, and courteous to others. "Only by respecting others can you get the respect that others have for you, and only by respecting each other can you benefit from each other.

Those who love others will always love them, and those who respect others will always respect them. Before you want to be respected by others, it is better to ask yourself if you are taking the initiative to respect others first.

Wanting to be respected by others is almost everyone's common desire, and it is naturally a positive and beautiful pursuit, at least it means that you are ready to demand a higher standard of yourself, and you want others to see a better version of yourself, and then respect this self. However, in many cases, we will also find that the reality is not as we think, when we are ready to meet the admiring eyes of others, we often become a lonely person with less praise and more strange eyes.

There was once a great good man like this, he would open a porridge shed almost every month, give alms to the village, and often spend a lot of money to build public facilities for the local people, the great good man was a good name man, he thought that in this way everyone would respect him and be grateful to him, but the fact was completely unexpected by him, but the villagers were not grateful for his good deeds.

At first the good man thought it was the envy of his wealth and fame, until one day when he personally distributed winter clothes to the homeless, he found that no one looked up at him and thanked him. This made the good man very annoyed, and when he returned home, he asked his butler, why did they treat him like this?

The honest butler said, that's because I treat them like me, we greet each other warmly, care about each other's lives, and you are on top of them, making them feel worthless, they do receive your favor, but that doesn't mean that they are willing to look at you for it, if you want them to thank them sincerely, then please smile at them first.

The good man listened, although he was noncommittal, but he decided to give it a try, he began to smile at the oncoming villagers when he went out into the street, and tried to greet them, and these villagers also surprised him greatly, although he had not given them any favor for several months, but everyone was as enthusiastic about him as if they had seen relatives, and his good name began to be accepted and spread by everyone, and almost all of them thought that this great good man who benefited the village was the blessing of God to them, During the holidays, everyone even did their best to deliver the best things in the house to the good people's houses.

If you want to gain respect, you must first respect others, which is based on a kind of equality and interaction in personality, what you give to others, you will get something, the so-called "reciprocating the peach" is this principle.

What kind of thing is emotion, it is your deep affection for someone regardless of right or wrong, or a dazzling dream that you obsessively chase.

Everyone has their own emotions, just as everyone is unique to themselves. Many people will cherish their emotions as if they were treasures and collect them. Emotions will not be ** in an instant, it will only arise after getting along, he is not a doll that you pick up anywhere and can be discarded at will.

Maybe the one thing you don't care about in your eyes is what others want most, so don't question other people's emotions, don't trample on other people's emotions, but respect his feelings as important as respecting him. And if you love someone, I hope you can understand his feelings, because he wants you to be like this.

Respect the emotions of others, because you did not experience what he went through, and in those days without you, he had nothing to do with you, and there were people who were closely connected to him. Think about it, how do you want others to treat your emotions, do you see your emotions as weeds? Even if you can't be honest with your emotions and can't fully respect your emotions, do you want your emotions to be looked down upon by others?

What is the true pure preciousness that shines like a diamond, and perhaps such a glowing emotion shines in the mud pit.