How to know in a tactful way that I like him

Alas, it's not easy to like someone. Especially when a girl likes a boy, sometimes it's really not good to be too proactive.

From the way you ask questions, you know that you are a Burmese and introverted girl. It's not easy to take the initiative to say things like "I like it" to that person.

Sometimes I often care about him and chat with him about some happy topics. When he is depressed, even pouring him a glass of water can move him, of course, it takes time. After all, it's meant to be tactful.

Occasionally, he casually patted his hands and tidied up his clothes. And so on and so on some subtle movements. If he doesn't understand, ask his good friend to try to ask him how he feels about you.

If you don't understand, it means that you have no relationship with him, and you can only like him silently.

You can pretend to have accidentally dropped his pen off his desk, pick it up, tell him, "Your pen," and then quietly pass it over the note that says I like you, hidden in your sleeve.

Boy, do you have a girlfriend?

No. From now on, there you have.

I don't know why, you always appear when you're blank, happy things want to be shared with you, sad things want to confide in you.

The landlord doesn't have to dwell on this issue, even if he tells him, he may be rejected. My advice, take the initiative, be friends first, then be good friends, and then let him fall in love with you, pay attention, let him fall in love with you, not you say it first, because women will be more tired if they take the initiative in love.

Take care of him from time to time and talk to him and tell her that you like her when he's having fun with you.

The two of you have only met once, and at this time he asked you, in fact, you don't have to be nervous for a long time, you just need to say your general feelings, and you can tell him when you return to Song:

The two of us have just met, and your personality, your personality, interests and hobbies, I don't know much about these, so I should still have more contact with it, how I feel about you, and now I can only say that your overall image is passable, not the type I hate. Tell him these words and see how he responds. There are times when girls can speak to boys less bluntly.

Show gratitude: Before expressing your position, express gratitude or praise him or her for some of his merits: "I appreciate your kindness and concern for me, but I don't want to change my hunger and think that we are suitable to be a couple. ”

Emphasize friendship: If you have a good friendship with the other person, emphasize the relationship and say you don't want to ruin it: "I cherish our friendship, so I think it's better for us to just be friends." ”

Point out why: If you can point out a specific reason why you don't like the other person, you can tactfully bring it up, but pay attention to the way of filial piety: for example, "We have very different personalities, hobbies, and lifestyles, and I don't think we are a good match." ”

Passing the buck: If you don't want to make your position clear, you can tactfully shift the blame and let the returning party understand it. For example, "I don't think about a relationship right now", "I haven't thought about it yet", etc.

Whichever way you choose, you should respect the other person's feelings as much as possible, while also not hurting your own emotions too much.

It's okay to say, "Thank you for caring about me, but I don't think we're a good fit." Or, "Thank you very much for having me, but I don't think we have anything in common." ”

We can also use excuses to express our thoughts, such as busy work, personal problems, and so on. It can be said: "I have been too busy with Gongchang recently, and I don't have time to fall in love."

Or: "I have some personal problems to deal with now, and I don't want to fall in love for the time being." ”

<> before telling someone that you like him, you should first make sure that the other person is willing to accept your confession. If you're not sure, you can use some hints to find out if the other person also has a crush on you. For example, you can talk to him more, share your interests, etc., so that he knows that you exist and what you have in common.

If you think the timing is right, you can also try to ask the late partner if they are single or if they have someone they like, and observe how the other person reacts. After making sure that the other person is willing, you can consider some tactful ways to express your heart. Here are some ways to do it:

Express your feelings bluntly, but in a gentle tone. For example: "I've always admired you and have some special feelings for you."

Say it in a more subtle way, such as: "I enjoyed our time together and hope we can go further." "Use a sense of humor to express your mood, such as:

If you don't mind, we can try to be a closer partner. Whichever way you go, be mindful of your wording and avoid using expressions that are too direct or offensive to the other person. At the same time, you should also respect the other person's feelings and do not force the other person to accept your confession.

In interpersonal communication, learning to refuse is a compulsory course, especially in the relationship between men and women, we can't control others to have a good impression of us, and in the face of the confession of people we don't like, we can't force ourselves to accept, although rejection is inevitably a harm, but polite refusal may not make the relationship between the two sides stalemate. So how should you refuse to be confessed by someone you don't like?

1. Resolute attitude and outspoken refusal.

As the saying goes, "If you keep breaking off diplomatic relations, you will be confused by it." "When the other person expresses their love for you, if you don't like the other person, give the other person a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other person a chance.

You have to refuse directly, and don't contact him again after refusing, and don't ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity for the other party and refuse efficiently.

Many people dare not refuse the confession of others, always afraid of hurting their self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a friend for many years, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of confession from a friend, you have to know how to be tactful, just give him some hints, tell him what type you like and what you imagine your future to be.

Let him stand back. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity, and minimizes the degree of harm.

3. Don't refuse face-to-face.

If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that the face-to-face refusal will hurt the other party, and you do not know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to be impatient to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.

4. Issue a good person card.

Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, give him enough face and let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, so you don't want to cheat on him, this doesn't want to cause him any harm. Many people now know what a good hand means. Once you've dealt a good card, he knows that you've politely rejected him.

You can reply to Bi Zhi like this

In my heart, you are the melodious flute in the evening breeze, which can sweep away my exhaustion.

In my heart, you are the girl who needs protection the most, and I always want to be by your side all the time.

In my heart, you are a flower blooming in the spring breeze, proudly stretching bright colors, and also attracting my eyes.

In my heart, you are a very kind and lovely girl. You are always concerned about others, but you rarely think about yourself, so I want to accompany you and protect you!

Of course, it is best to talk about your first impression of people according to your most true feelings in your heart, and don't come to some polite words, otherwise the other party will not care about it after listening to it, and even feel hypocritical.

Summary. How to euphemistically express that I still like him.

1: Find a topic to say, intentionally or unintentionally create a topic, a topic about feelings, for example, I still miss the time I was together before, and I still do the same.

2. Create an opportunity for two people to be alone, and then tell him about his hobbies, what he likes and dislikes, what he likes to eat, what he likes and dislikes, which star he likes, etc., so that the other party feels that you have not forgotten everything about him.

3. You can also half-jokingly say to him, if I say I still like you, what will you do to me? When you finish saying this, you can take a look at his performance, and from his expression, you can understand his mind.