Kan Qingzi broke up because Ji Lingchen refused to give promises, how important is commitment to wom

Kan Ziqing broke up because the other party didn't give a promise, I think it's not just a matter of commitment, it's a matter of attitude, what does a promise represent, maybe the girl doesn't care too much about what promise you give her, what she wants may be just an attitude, you don't even want a promise, so what do you give to others happiness?

So if the other party can't give something like a promise, can this person be entrusted for life? The answer is no, of course not, it's not a matter of commitment or not, it's a question of how much a man really cares about you.

Commitment represents attitude

Someone has said that a man's mouth is a deceitful ghost, and the promise does not need to be written What will happen if you can't do it, in fact, the promise is just the sweet words that the man says when he pursues a girl, you think this promise is very romantic, you may think that this is the old world, but in the boys, this is really not, this is just a means or a kind of rhetoric, you can't see this as a binding oath, but a man who refuses to give you even such a casual promise, Does he really love you? Of course it should be worth considering.

So it's a matter of attitude, a guy who really likes you can't even give a promise.

Commitment doesn't mean forever

There is no inevitable connection between commitment and eternity, no one says that the original promise must be fulfilled, so the binding force of the promise is almost equal to 0, and after a long time, both people forget it, and they don't care what promises they said when they break up.

It is sung in the song, there is enough reason why the promise will not be regretted if it is not true, and it can be said that the promise really has no weight in the current society.

Promises are not the same as contracts, and verbal promises are not binding, so don't be gullible.

If a man you love refuses to even give promises, don't expect him to give you a future and give you happiness. If you want to love, you will love deeply, and if you don't love, you will leave. Youth is short-lived and cannot afford to be wasted.

It is very important, for a woman, no matter how much security she has, it is not as good as a promise, and this commitment is the motivation for this woman to accompany you.

It's really important, it's a prerequisite for a woman's sense of security, maybe a woman likes you because of your commitment, and being with you is also because of your commitment.

Commitment is a woman's sense of security When two people are together, but you are not willing to give me the promise of marriage, there is no reason for a girl to continue to be with you Commitment is too important.

Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen broke up at that time completely because the woman wanted to get married and settle down, but the man didn't want to get married and wanted to continue playing, and the two did not have a unified plan for the future, and then they broke up directly. The details are as follows:

First, Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen broke up completely because of marriage, one wanted to get married and the other didn't want to get married, and the result was that the two broke up unhappily.

In fact, the problem of Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen was more obvious when they participated in variety shows together, Liu Tao hinted at Ji Lingchen at that time, Kan Qingzi already wanted to settle down and wanted to get married, so let him propose marriage quickly, but Ji Lingchen was always saying wait a minute, there was no kind of preparation to propose marriage or want to be with Kan Qingzi, and the two of them also had a discussion on this matter in private, and the final result was very simple, the two broke up directly, and the official announcement was so scum, can only say that Kan Qingzi really loves the wrong person, otherwise he would have a happy family a long time ago.

Second, the relationship between Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen is actually very simple, that is, Ji Lingchen does not love Kan Qingzi very much, he just loves himself.

When I was watching a variety show, Lu Jianhou could feel Ji Lingchen's selfishness, he and Kan Qingzi quarreled in the show, but when Kan Qingzi tidied up the room by himself, Ji Lingchen chose not to see it, so he let Kan Qingzi be busy alone, and when he saw Kan Qingzi moving heavy things, he also directly pretended not to know, this attitude is that Yu Ji really makes people a little angry, although the two are quarreling, but it has not come to this point, and they are not even willing to help, and this is still under the camera, Outside the camera, the two quarreled, and I don't know how Ji Lingchen will treat Kan Qingzi!

Finally: Every time I see Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen's names put together, I feel uncomfortable, that kind of discomfort is that Kan Qingzi used his youth to accompany the growth of a boy, but this boy has no responsibility at all, and he is a realistic version of a scumbag.

As soon as this news came out, it immediately "exploded" on the hot search list, and Ji Lingchen immediately ** the Weibo, with the text: "You like the sea, I have loved you." ”

At that time, Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi were on the cusp, and there were rumors on the Internet that Ji Lingchen "split" female model Wang Yi. Although Ji Lingchen and Wang Yi Huachen both said on Weibo that "the Internet is full of false news", and posted a lawyer's letter to severely punish rumor-mongering and rhythmic marketing accounts.

However, this move did not let the rumors die down, but intensified, in the eyes of netizens, this is "wanting to cover up", and some netizens continue to pick up the "evidence" that Wang Yi and Ji Lingchen are "together", but these so-called "evidence" are all chasing after the wind and shadows, and there is no real hammer.

Later, the rumors of Ji Lingchen and Wang Yi dispersed, but netizens still regarded "You like the sea, I loved you" as the "scumbag quotes" in 2018.

Some netizens believe that the reason why Ji Lingchen broke up with Kan Qingzi was because Ji Lingchen was not mature enough. In the program "Dear Inn", Kan Qingzi and Liu Tao once discussed the issue of marriage, Kan Qingzi hoped that Ji Lingchen could slow down Qin's marriage proposal when he was 30 years old, but later when Kan Qingzi was 30 years old, he still did not wait for Ji Lingchen's "determination".

In this year, the relationship between the two has caused netizens to speculate several times. On the New Year of 2018, Kan Qingzi posted a post to disturb Bi Weibo, and there was nothing related to Ji Lingchen. Later, someone interviewed her, and she only said that "there was a conflict, so I didn't go back to my parents' house together".

But in fact, since that time, some netizens have smelled the smell of "emotional crisis".

Sure enough, the two have not interacted on Weibo since then, and there is no birthday blessing. Some netizens speculated that Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi did not return to their parents' house together because of the "marriage issue". But no matter what the truth is, the two have broken up, and we can only hope that they can find the right person for each other.