I m 23 years old, male and needs a self motivated friend to help me urgently

Everyone's key point is different, but your company only has a high income of people, you can look at them, you can also think about why they have a high income, sometimes career success is the right time and place, if you love your current job, you will do all the work to do a good job, there is a saying in China: gold shines sooner or later! I know it's not going to help you, but I hope you'll be able to calm down and think about what you have now!

What the money is used for. In addition to investment is consumption, like buying a house is investment, smoking, drinking and playing games is consumption, if you really have perseverance, you can support yourself by playing a game, such as a professional brush in WOW (like 5th floor abcd398651338), or invest yourself, since you are working in a foreign-funded enterprise, why not look at what aspects of talent the enterprise lacks, 23 years old is still young, and go to work at night to learn what management, accounting, ** evaluation, electrician... What the egg, I'm staying up late to play games after learning something, I'm 22 years old this year, much worse than you, my family background is very bad, I worked in Shenzhen for two years, and then Beijing, Wuhan and Shanghai went to play a circle, and came back to owe more than 1w debts I want to learn something and have no money, I want to learn something on the computer is pure nonsense, touch the computer is to play games, I think games and smoking can't quit don't quit.

Develop your own interests!

People are only at their best when they do what they are interested in.

Due to the various things that have been raised in the process, many people have not had the opportunity to develop their interests.

That's why 99 percent of people are doing jobs that they don't interest in, so they are unknown.

Believe me, developing your interests is definitely a no-regret choice.

Also 2000 fast, I also work in foreign capital this year 1000 fast.

There is also frequent exposure to the sun. You have such a good job to find.

Why don't you go if you're so idle during the day.

You can go to night school, where you can find your own sense of self, and you can recognize and feel the nervous atmosphere of the students, and it is always useful to learn more when you are still young. You tell me?

I'm also 23 years old this year, my family conditions are not good, I don't have a car, no house, no girlfriend, I have spent all the money I earned, I am miserable, now I play games at home all day to earn money, I don't have a friend, I am in front of the computer every day, boring, I earn about 3,000 to 8,000 a month, I am really tired, a friend I used to know started his own company, and asked me to help him, but the salary must only be about 2,000, I really want to go over, I really don't know whether I should go now, after all, I am such a big person, 2,000 yuan a month is not enough for me to spend, how should I go in the future?

Big brother, what a good job, you want to find something else.

Listen to Master Pure Space's lecture on the four teachings of Fan. Let's open the treasures of the world, shall we?

If you hear it, you have to act.

Although the man is determined that sixty is not too late, it is just talking, and there is no reason to wait until sixty. Scold.

People don't just have love in this life, a person who is not self-motivated has no future, even if he has a lot of money, he will lose everything.

Maybe you feel that there is still a glimmer of hope, then you should paint something with him about a bright future, and make him interested, have a future, have dreams, and have motivation. The goal is slowly getting higher, and if it is too high all of a sudden, he will feel that it is out of reach. Encourage him more.

Give him confidence and courage. Perhaps... Huh

Don't follow him, although it is said that it is better to destroy ten temples than to destroy one family, but such a man, for the sake of future happiness, don't do it!

There are good times and bad times when two people are together. When you find his mistake, ask him to correct it. If he is obsessed and does not regret it.

That can only be abandoned. In fact, whoever leaves can live. , it's OK to change the environment.

Why do people in big cities get married late, but people in rural areas get married early? It's affected by the environment. City dwellers are well-informed.

The idea is also wide.

You have such a mentality, and his actions are still the same, maybe you will continue to nag in front of him, he will be annoyed, disgusted with you, and you will also be disgusted with him, if he does not change, it may be a matter of time before they separate!

I don't think there's a need to communicate, if he cares about you, he'll change himself.

If I were you, I would immediately propose to break up, and it would be you who would suffer later.

The two big men put up with each other!

If you know yourself, you should know what you have to do, what you can do, and stick to it, and you will succeed.

The heavens will descend on the people, and the food must first work their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skin, and suffer their minds, and there will inevitably be a day of success, ok!

Choice and effort are important, and I personally think that effort is even more important! You're going to find a good job! Cultivating a Leader's Spirit! Even if you're just a worker! Learn from successful people, but keep your personality!

I was born to be useful....Since you say that you know yourself, pick where you have advantages to develop. Get rid of your shortcomings or bad habits. Actually, you don't know yourself by the liberty of saying it. If you really understand, you won't feel lost anymore.

First of all, you have to have a dream, and then you can make an action.

Do you have a girlfriend? Anxious at home?

When someone laughs at you, despises you, insults your self-esteem, and you feel confused, sad, sad, and angry, then you know how to make progress regardless of whether you have a goal or not.

Because he didn't really get into the life of the present. He has no self-confidence,

You can know your own shortcomings, and that is the beginning of progress!

Everyone has their own path....

In fact, the main thing is to experience more of that kind of life without money or see more. Obviously, you don't have to worry about it, because his parents will be more anxious. If your boyfriend doesn't have money in the future, his parents' life won't be easy. His parents would definitely have planned it.

If you think he still needs to be able to do so, you can talk to his parents. But advice should not be given to his brother that he is not self-motivated or anything. That made him lose face.

Ay! It's good to get used to it, there are many such people, and when his parents are gone, he will understand, this is not a good family, and he doesn't know how expensive firewood and rice are.

The old man always has to go first, and then you raise children, ** the money? Gnawing old? Then he has no ability, what about your child's wedding money?

Are you all alone? Parents will leave first, and after leaving, the money will come. While you are young, mature, and endure the pain. Really,

Maturity and stability are also qualities that I want to have. But I never had that quality.

I think this kind of quality requires rich life experience and the edification of the soul by books.

Nowadays, people are too impetuous and realistic at every turn. I feel that I can face success and failure calmly, and look at the people and things around me with a calm heart.

No more emptiness and helplessness.

A 23-year-old man is at the age of vigor and vigor, and there are no big principles in doing things, as long as it is not against the principles, and there is no maturity and stability to measure. The most important thing is to be yourself.

That is, you have a certain degree of grasp of events, have an assertive opinion in front of major events, can recognize right from wrong, and have many good qualities of Chinese men.

Just go with the flow, everyone has their own personality. Be yourself, just be free.

You must have an idea in your heart. You dare to look directly at your inner thoughts and then do it.

Someone else's life is always someone else's.

23 years old and like me, you need to have a sense of responsibility, credit, self-regulation, dedication, confidence, don't retreat in case of trouble, this is what men should have, I said is not comprehensive enough, must be very affordable.

I'm 23, wait a piece to see what other landlords think!

Haha, I think you have to be responsible for your girlfriend, filial piety to your family, self-motivated to work, don't be numb to your mother-in-law, say some childish things, look like a man, and occasionally bring a little humor, hehe, come on,

Be responsible; Hard work and positive spirit.

Quality, it's okay without dirty words.

It's hard to say about psychology. Everyone's psychology is different.

Say less in front of women, and they will say that you are steady and mature.

Psychologically mature! Just be yourself! Why do you have to be mature!

Be weak in front of him, ask him for help if you have a problem, throw him even if he can solve it, let him solve it, establish his sense of responsibility and information, and let him know that he will work hard if he wants to protect you.

Let him live on his own, live alone, no one can rely on, then he has to learn to support himself, then it will be much better.

He's happy, but he doesn't know, he can choose to break up, but this breakup is not necessarily real, let him know his own problems, is the most important thing, if he never thinks about your future, then don't be nostalgic, go and see the outside world, there will be better men. The man you love is not necessarily the right man for you The man who is right for you is not necessarily the one you love.

After reading your introduction and follow-up, you are an excellent girl, with knowledge and feelings, but it's a pity that he doesn't understand you and doesn't know how to cherish you. Auntie is the person who came over, anxious for you, it should be said that girls are the happiest time when they are in love, but you don't feel this way, it means that he doesn't care about you, if you get married in the future, life is firewood, rice, oil, salt, work, children, and both families. There will be a lot of very realistic trivial things waiting for you to solve, there will be a lot of disharmony, and he will not give you happiness, because the difference between the two of you is too great.

It is recommended that you 1 reach the age of marriage and tell your parents about your situation, their opinions are very important; 2Break off with him, he is not worthy of your love, he is not fit for you.

Good luck!

If you're not responsible, you can let him die.

The gap in academic qualifications, understanding, and ideals ......There will be gaps, you can't accept the reality, only a breakup.

Your situation is similar to what I was at the beginning, in fact, it is really not suitable to be together, so I also separated from him, and it is always not good to hold things that are too far-fetched in your hands!

What kind of attitude does he have towards you, does he care about you, and is it worth your effort?

Breaking up decisively is not explained.

Maybe you're missing a chance to show off in front of girls. However, opportunities are something you can strive for, and while you're fixing your computer, you may be able to meet the girl you like. Don't think you're just a computer repairman and you're afraid that people will look down on you, be bold, and if she rejects you, it proves that she's a treasure (based on what you say about yourself).

Smaller than you on the child.

Who doesn't like self-motivated boys, not to mention that you still have 90% of handsome guys, make more friends, meet more friends, friends introduce friends, girlfriends don't just give it, saying that you still have this craft.

Alas! Boring people are talking about boring things.

Hehe, do you want to do it without taking this matter to heart? Let me think about ......It's transferred.

Oh, there are a lot of friendship on the Internet, such as Lily Network, Jiayuan or something, hehe, you go to register one, receive letters, and find out if there is a suitable one when you are free.

This kind of thing can't be rushed, good luck

If you look for her, she will dislike your career, family, and background! So is such a person worthy of your love! I've also called my own family, background, before!

But now it's open! If you can't think about it, it's impossible! Unless you're a ruthless person!

But I don't find anyone in the world who can do it!

Hado goes out in public

90% of handsome guys don't worry

hoho!Are you a boy 23 in a hurry? The puppet girl 20 is not in a hurry

Live the days you want in your heart, he is actually angry when he says this, men will care a little, think you are not assertive, you should call him and your mother together, it is not enough for you to rely on your strength alone, and you are 23 years old and very young, don't worry, but don't delay, one more brave to pursue, the more hesitant the more tormented.

Your mother is right, 31 is much older than you, 31 people think and 23 people are 2 worlds, the age difference is old, it's always bad, you should still find someone under 25, the two of you become mature together, this is love

My Fair Lady and Gentleman. I'm afraid I can't find a wishful man. Since there is no chance, forget it.

The age difference is a bit big, and there may be great differences in ideas and values in all aspects, and these will naturally be reflected after being together for a long time, and your mother is worried that you will have a bad life, unhappy or even regret it in the future.

Let your boyfriend shoot 1 million, see if your mother agrees or not.