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Separate the two places. The heart can't stand such distance and time. It is said in psychology that the longer the time.
Then dating aggravates the discomfort between each other, which is easy to cause conflicts between two people. There is also a freshman relationship because you don't understand love, and now you are working and under pressure. It's more realistic, so invisibly you will also vent the unequal treatment you have received at work under the influence of your subconscious, but you yourself think it is a kind of confiding.
You need to live together for the relationship to be saved. You need to talk more together and try to understand each other. And together we can find out the crux of this situation.
Remember: the most unbearable thing for feelings is the double isolation of time and space.
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Learn to apologize.
This is very important.
Although sometimes it's hard to say.
But you can use a note, a text message, something like that...
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Do you care enough about him?
Separation between the two places will make girls feel insecure, and you may not feel it. But girls are very sensitive creatures. He cares about small and delicate things.
So, ah. If someone else relays you a joke, you can also rewrite it to her. At noon, I asked him what he was eating.
It's cold and reminds him of his clothes. I often say nonsensically, "I miss you or I love you or something." Tell him what happens to you every day and ask him how he is doing.
In short, to love a woman, to spoil her. Of course, spoiling her is not about ignoring him. It's almost like treating it like a small animal.
Sometimes you quarrel and you don't know what to say You can be angry and you don't say anything You can not say sorry You can not apologize Even if he is vexatious You can't apologize You can also tell the truth I love you . It's as simple as that.
Actually, you have to understand that boys and girls are different creatures. Maybe what you take for granted, what you can ignore, is important to him. And you're going to have to grab one or two of his best friends. That's your medicine, your reserve army .
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It's because the two of you have been apart for too long... If she doesn't have a third party, it means that she likes you too much. Girls with big tempers are a bit feminist·· So you're going to follow her... I think you two are always arguing, but it will be fine in a while... So, you should suddenly show up next to her and see her
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Whatever the reason for the fight, but neither of you can speak, but "talking" is a very deep subject.
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This is the time to test you, as a man, you should really be tolerant, maybe you used to see each other every day, and now you both work, when you used to go to school, you just wanted both of you to have a companion, as long as you can be together every day, you feel very happy, the sudden separation caused you to be a little unaccustomed, give her more greetings, thank you for your care, let him feel good about you, put away the childishness, now that you are going to society, you should think about the future, this time is the most important, Happiness is in your own hands, do you choose to blindly fight like this, or make a little sacrifice, in exchange for your girlfriend's favor, choose for yourself, big men have to learn to endure it, let her now, and when you get married in the future, it's not up to us to have the final say, hehe, buddy,,,, support you, hehe, come on.
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What kind of university, only two years old?
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As a person who has come over, I have lived a very happy siege, and the main reasons are none other than the following points: 1. Respect each other, respect each other's habits, interests, and hobbies; 2. Trust the other party, and do not view the detailed list, chat history and listen to the content; 3. Mutual tolerance, living together is a run-in, what is needed is understanding, and boys should be more tolerant and generous. Don't worry about your own woman, unless you don't want to continue.
As long as the issue of principle does not occur, everything else can be solved. 4. Love and marriage are two different things, and if you are expecting what will happen after you get married, it may disappoint you because your nature is difficult to change. 5. The most important thing is that two people have a common topic, similar values, and one of them can quickly make up his mind when he disagrees, rather than continuing to evolve into quarrels and mutual disagreements.
As for the chat history you said, you have to patiently explain it to her and try it a few more times, as long as you have a clear conscience! But if your girlfriend can't even believe you like this, or can't understand your hardships, I think you should think about your future, because there will be more uncertainties after marriage, small problems can't be solved, and the marriage boat will run aground.
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I quarreled with my girlfriend, but I don't know how to coax, it's okay, I'll teach you!
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I think it's the man who is wrong this time!! Big mistake!!
1. Are you a man? I have a little doubt, mature men will "ask their parents for advice" in love? It's like a child going home and telling his parents.
2 or 3 months only, both parties have not yet understood each other, and it is inappropriate for you to "excessively" participate in the affairs of the other party's family.
3, why does the relationship between the two of you still involve both parents? How many people are in love?
4, Shouldn't she lose her temper? It should be!! Man, you are too anxious, your boyfriend's title should also be divided into levels, and you stand at your level to do things before you reach the highest level, she didn't ask you to do it, you forced her to accommodate you, it's really wrong, what's not right is that you are quite reasonable, I can't quite understand it.
PS: Even if you are a husband and wife, don't get too involved in each other's family affairs, it's not appropriate.
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In fact, your starting point is good, including your family, it is a very kind family, but different families have different backgrounds, of course, it is also inexplicable, your girlfriend may not want to trouble your parents to see her grandfather, or, their family does not want to bother your family! Of course, she may not be very calm to deal with this, but you should not go to the psychological level.
Take my real example, I have a good brother, good, dripping blood! His father was injured and hospitalized, very close to my house, more than 10 minutes by car, I said to go to the hospital to see his father, he said, don't use, don't come! Don't get nervous!
I was also very confused at the time, but in the end, I also figured out the reason why people have families, so you don't have to blame your girlfriend too much! Communicate clearly and explain clearly.
There is no need to think of a small thing as a big thing, after all, her grandfather is still in the hospital.
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You should be careful to understand the reason why she didn't let you go, so that you can understand why she didn't let her, in fact, there are some small things that are not necessary to be known to the world, especially some things that are not painful! Respect each other, and carefully observe her as a person, and don't go too far away from some small things!
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Actually, you're in too much of a hurry....It's only been three months! You have to think for her...If you take your family to meet you, it means that she recognizes you...Get along well.
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Maybe she has encountered something recently, and her mood is more irritated and sensitive. Make sure that you love her, she loves you, and other problems are easy to solve. Multi-volume, multi-inclusive.
Wait for her to calm down and have a good chat. You can't keep all the problems in your mind. It's hard for others to see.
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Nothing else, be considerate of her and follow his wishes. Don't run into her. Tell her that mutual understanding is the most important thing.
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Be nice to her, she's your first girlfriend. If he really loves you, he will forgive you.
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It's his fault to lose his temper, but maybe there's something unspeakable about him. I just don't want you to know, please respect her, but you can also tell him that because you love him, you care about everything he has. Love requires communication. I hope you are happy.
Because the two of you love each other, how can the little couple not fight.
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