Tell us what you think about living together before marriage?

Nowadays, light men and women will be like this, I feel that this kind of thing is very common, as long as two people really love each other.

Me too, it feels quite normal, after all, two people living together can only find some problems.

As a girl, I still don't agree with living together before marriage, although living together can increase understanding, but there is no sense of mystery and freshness, and once you meet a scumbag, it is a waste of time. How tragic it is to break up after being eaten and wiped clean.

In such an open era, I think many people can understand this kind of behavior.

I think it's completely understandable, sometimes the two of us are willing to do certain things with each other, which is completely normal and very much in line with the requirements of our open era, why not?

I'm probably pretty conservative. I don't like the feeling of trying to have sex before marriage, maybe it won't be gone if I try. Besides, who doesn't fall in love with the goal of getting married, if you don't give you a real name, you just keep consuming it, it's hard to have a sense of security in this life, let alone happiness.

Look at people, when the relationship is reached, we live together, I live with her, but I haven't lived with my ex. Because the relationship is not deep enough, I don't think it's necessary to live together. Otherwise, it will be awkward for two people to always face each other.

And living together will inevitably lead to misfire, that's for sure, if the feelings are not strong enough to a certain extent, there is no need to be physically entangled. But if the feelings are really strong to a certain extent, don't worry about it so much, there is no way, love can't be stopped. Although it feels like living a life for a long time, it will also allow you to get to know a person quickly.

I chose to live together before marriage because I wanted to get to know my boyfriend well, so as to avoid finding out that I was not a lady after I got married, and when the time came, it would be even more troublesome if I had a child, and I felt very wise.

With the development of society, people's minds are becoming more and more open-minded, what is married to a child, unmarried pregnant, and cohabitation before marriage is becoming more and more common, although it will become a conversation after dinner, but many people also think that it is a common thing, and the problem is not as serious as in the past.

I personally don't care much about this, I think two people together, will be eager to live together, and now the cost of living in big cities is very high, like me, just graduated, although the family has a certain amount of savings, but still have to struggle for a while, if I meet true love during the struggle period, then I definitely want to live with her, may have to live together temporarily for a year and a half, in order to have the right to marry her home, give her a better life.

1. Most of the older generation and even young people with stronger traditional concepts believe that male and female lovers before marriage should not live together, because if a girl lives with her boyfriend before marriage, it will have a very negative impact on the girl's reputation. I think this concept is now outdated, and for young couples who are about to get married, cohabitation before marriage is still very necessary. I am very much in favor of premarital cohabitation.

Cohabitation before marriage is actually a process of simulating married life, but this process is realized and executed in advance during the love stage.2 In the process of cohabitation, two people live together, cook together, do laundry together, watch TV together, clean together, etc. Through these small details in life, we can see if each other is suitable for marriage. Small details can reveal some of the other person's living habits and shortcomings, and of course the advantages will also be reflected.

3. Some couples find that the other party is not the ideal partner they want after living together before marriage, because in the dating stage, they feel that the other party is very considerate and gentle, but after living together before marriage, they find that the other party does not care about hygiene, too much "naivety", and he is a very lazy person. At the moment, I'm glad I haven't married the other party yet. If I find out that the other partner has these problems after getting married, I will regret it.

4. I think we should change the concept of premarital cohabitation. Living together before marriage is actually a way to try out marriage, which allows each other to cherish each other more and discover each other's highlights, but it can also expose each other's shortcomings. The benefits of living in harmony before marriage outweigh the disadvantages, so it is not bound by traditional ideas.

5. Many older generations will think that premarital couples should not live together, because girls living together before marriage will affect the reputation of girls, I think premarital couples should live together, cohabitation is very necessary, premarital cohabitation can see whether the other party has any bad living habits, through cohabitation can also run in the character of two people, premarital cohabitation benefits are still very many.