If you don t change your chatting thinking, can you catch up with girls?

Without changing the "chat mindset", you will never chat. You first have to know that routines are dead, while people are alive. Generally speaking, using words to chat with girls, and then chatting to death, is not because of the problem of the words themselves, but because of your chat thinking and social intuition, because you don't have a systematic chat thinking and chat mode.

So, no matter what kind of routine you use, you still feel in your heart that you can't talk and you can't answer, because the routine has not become your own, you are just memorizing the text. On the contrary, girls tend to share their feelings when chatting, and what they say actually has no purpose, they just want to say it, and they want to share their feelings with the people around them. ‍‍

It can't be because of human nature. Men's thinking is rational, women's thinking is emotional, and the two types of people are not on the same line. Only when a man changes his thinking, looks at things from a woman's point of view, and understands a woman's thoughts, can you really understand her, know what she wants, understand what is really good for her, and win her heart.

I think that as a boy, whether it is in daily life or daily work, I am used to using rational thinking to analyze problems. This has a lot to do with the fact that you often use rational thinking when dealing with things. As a boy, the way I deal with problems and the things I am interested in are very different from those of girls.

If you want to change this way of thinking and be more in line with the emotional thinking of girls, you need to deliberately spend time and energy training yourself in your daily life.

This mainly depends on the person. If she's interesting to you too. Then you can take the initiative, not close, not too far, when pursuing her, you can see her reaction, if she is willing to approach you, you will take the next step, but you must distinguish whether she is close to you because she is bored, or because she has feelings for you, she is close to you.

You can buy some small gifts for her, or give a small surprise from time to time, care more about her, if it is impossible to like your person, it is best to stay away, so as not to hurt yourself, although feelings can be cultivated, but you must know that people who like you will test you, but they are not willing to let you wait too long. ‍‍

It depends on what your own chat thinking looks like.,If it's the kind that is more flirtatious.,And always think about girls.,The success rate is relatively high.。

Absolutely not, you must change your chatting thinking, and you must think about girls from the perspective of girls. It's just a simple chat, and I don't think deeply. You simply can't.

If you really like someone, you are willing to make changes for the other person, and if you don't want to change, it is similar to the mentality of a white wolf with empty gloves.

It's better to chat naturally, sometimes it's too deliberate or nervous, and the other party won't know what you want to do. The atmosphere of the chat is very important, and many times the girl may not remember the specific content she talked to you about afterwards, but she will definitely remember what the atmosphere of the chat with you was. ‍‍

Less routine, more sincerity. I've always thought that if you like someone, you should say it directly, without too many roundabouts, without too many modifiers, just a simple sentence, I like you. As long as you dare to say this, it is better than a million sentences. ‍‍

Talk more about topics that have continuity, that is, this question can talk about many aspects, and add some emotional things in the middle. ‍‍

If your own conditions are better and it is easier to attract girls, you should be able to catch up.

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