I think he doesn t love me and broke up, why doesn t the man look back?

I felt that he didn't love me anymore, so I proposed to break up, why did the man leave without looking back? Do you often have doubts about this question? I think there are the following reasons, interested friends should take a look!

【1.Reason 1: "Breakup" is a very harsh term, don't mention "breakup" casually!

First of all, let's dissect the following topic, "If you think he doesn't love me, I will break up!" First of all, the word "think" is too subjective, obviously falling in love is a matter of two people, why can a breakup be hastily decided by one person?

Everyone's heart is fleshy, they will be sad, they will be sad! This is the so-called deep love, responsibility! Because he loves you too much, and your word "breakup" breaks his heart, that's why he will leave without looking back! <>

[2 Reason 2: . .The boy's self-esteem is too strong, and his self-esteem does not allow him to "turn back"! 】

Although it is now a society where everyone is equal! But the boys still have a strong machismo in their bones! This kindInnate machismo will impose on them a strong sense of self-esteem and competitiveness, and when you propose to "break up", he will think that you have dumped him!

His pride will never allow him to turn back and beg you to agree! So, don't mention it casually when you break up! <>

【3.Reason 3: There are stages in the period of boys' lovelornness! 】

There are generally 4 stages when a boy falls out of love! The first stage is the "unleashed wild horse" stage; The second stage is the "reflection and self-regret" stage; The third stage is the "nostalgia and heartache" section; The fourth stage is the "try to recover" stage!

Under normal circumstances, when you break up with a boy, they will be extremely shocked and distressed at first! But a strong sense of self-esteem and a sense of detachment will make them never look back! They start to get excited to try the things you don't allow him to do in a relationship, and to enjoy the happy life of being single!

When he wants to get you back, it's usually 30 days to 2 months later. So, after you break up with the guys, they will leave without looking back!

A man loves vigorously, but when he doesn't love, he really doesn't love anymore, so when he doesn't look back, don't keep it, and don't feel sorry for it, there is no result.

It may be that I don't love you anymore, or it may be that I love you too much but want to respect your choice and let you go free, so that you don't have nostalgia.

Because men will think clearly about something when they do it, they will do it, once the decision is made, it is difficult to redeem the other party, and whatever you say is useless to them.

Summary. The contradiction between you is that there is a certain problem in the way of communication, and it is also caused by the contradiction in the way of communication, and you will use quarrels or cold wars to solve it, which is a very hurtful way.

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Get along for 3 months, he is busy with work when he is flat, I ask for a timely reply to the message, I contact him every day, he sometimes pickpockets can not reply in time, I have a lot of opinions on this, and another quarrel on the spring like to break up, he explained, I said him again, I no longer contact, do not answer.

The contradiction between you is a certain problem with the lack of communication and communication, and it is also caused by the contradiction in the way of communication.

Anyway, now he ignores me, I said I did my best, so I won't bother him, thank him for the gift and companionship, in fact, I am still lost in my heart.

Your current situation, I suggest that you calm down for two days first, he is still emotionally calm, calm down for two days, let the mood stabilize, and then face the communication with He Mao, it must be a face-to-face talk.

It is normal for feelings to have contradictions and quarrels, which is also the process of continuous integration of feelings, you need to maintain more self-confidence and persistence, wait for the rise and dry thoughts first, and after two days everyone calms down, and then communicate well. Whether a failed relationship has a perfect future depends on the depth of the relationship and the difficulty of communication methods.

He ignored me, and I contacted me a few times and said that I didn't like him anymore, thank you for the company and so on.

Is it still possible?

It's okay, keep your confidence, have confidence in your relationship, the relationship is the result of the joint efforts of both parties, you can't lose confidence first.

If after a breakup, they get together again, and then they break up again, and they get together again, then it's not a breakup, at most it's a fake breakup. That's two people have awkward brains. It's too difficult for men to turn back after you break up, I don't think it's a matter of face, men are generally more rational than women, and what they do is generally decided after thinking about what they do, if they regret it after a period of time after breaking up, men will think about whether they will break up again if they get together again, so just find another one.

In fact, my personal point of view is that men have the nature of liking the new and hating the old, and the reason for breaking up is that they must have no interest in their girlfriends at the moment, otherwise men will not break up easily, because the more the merrier in men's minds, I wish all the beauties in the world were his alone. As the saying goes, half of a man is a woman, and there will be a woman's mind in a man's mind, so what a woman can think of, a man can also feel, but what a man thinks, it may be difficult for a woman to experience and understand. Just like why do I have a beautiful wife, and I am still looking for a woman who is uglier than my wife outside, I am a man, I have a deep experience, I really feel that the house flowers do not have the fragrance of wild flowers, but in order not to hurt my wife, so I have to control myself, this is actually a kind of pain, when can women understand this pain of men?

Love is just not deep enough ...

Or rather, it's better to just let it go.

If he doesn't look back, it means that he is not the person you were destined to be.

Your him should still be waiting for you not far away.

If it's not suitable, neither man nor woman should look back after the breakup. If you suffer because of this, you should actually thank the other party, and do not break the connection, so that you can accept the truth earlier, stride forward, and find your true happiness.

Not necessarily. My boyfriend just broke up on his own, and then suddenly figured it out a month later, and came back together.

I've seen other men like this, and there are remarriages after divorce. Some men themselves don't want to look back and talk as if all men in the world are the same. Not really. See why you broke up.

Generally, it is too difficult to turn back, and the feelings are really gone.

It's just that when she looks back, what does the woman think. Will you think that the horse will not eat the grass? There is a first time and there is a second time?

Men don't communicate with you, how do you do it?

The chance of turning back is too small, breaking up is inappropriate, you already know the shortcomings of the other party, and it seems irrational to look back again. 、

Look at the personality of the man.

A lot of men don't look back.

Because they were deeply wounded.

My girlfriend and I separated, but I turned back.

Because I love her with all my heart.

I don't want to give up a girl who is in true love because of my stubbornness.