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You carefully consider whether you really love her, on the premise of truly loving her, you consider whether you can accept the fact that she has been married from the bottom of your heart, and if you can accept it, you don't have to worry about getting married, after all, marriage is a matter for the two of you, and it has nothing to do with others, you believe in her former daughter that the child can feel it, and the child is still young, so you two will directly tell her that she is your own so as not to have a shadow in her heart. On the other hand, if you have a pimple in your heart about her getting married, don't get married and wait for the knot to be untied, after all, if you have a pimple in your heart, you will often think that it will not be good to hurt her again and again after getting married, and finally, I hope you two are happy.
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If you love her, you love everything about her. If you care about this, maybe you don't love her enough, and why should you care what others think? Is it someone else who lives with you?
Or does she live with you? What do you want these things for? As for the children in the future, you just need to be fair
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Did you get past your parents? And do you think you'll never keep this in mind in the future? If you can solve it, you can end it, if not, it's better not to hurt others.
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I don't think I'll marry a girl who has ever been married, after all, life is not as simple as imagined, and there will be a lot of trivial things. After getting married, no matter how good you are to your children, as long as there is a little bit of badness, then all your good will be zero, after all, you are not the biological father of your children. Emotional matters are the hardest to figure out, so think about it!
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You can do it if you have the financial conditions.
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If you really love her, don't care so much, love her well.
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As long as you love her, if I were you, I would marry, don't care what others think of you, what you want is to be happy with her, and then divorced people know better how to cherish a man who loves her. I hope you will also let go of the prejudices in your heart and work hard for your happiness.
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I won't care. What's wrong with being married. Just be nice. As long as you really like her. Won't care about her past experiences.
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Yes....When you meet a woman who wants to marry her....I won't think about whether she is married or not, because love makes you only see her good! You just say that you are not in love with this married woman...Let's break up early...Good for everyone!
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It depends on your own age, if you are not over 28 years old, how can you find a married woman! That's too much of a failure, unless you're fascinated by something. If you feel that you have congenital deficiencies, then what can you wait for, hurry up and get married!
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Maybe you think that people who have been married get to know each other better, and she wants to love when she has experienced it.
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See if you don't marry.
Since you've all asked questions here, it means that you really care.
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Because boys prefer simple women, everyone thinks that such a woman has already been married, so they will feel that such a woman is more realistic. So boys may not choose such a woman because they like little sister very much. If you really like this woman, you may also choose to be with this girl at this time, because everyone thinks that love is the most important thing.
In fact, I think that as long as the two of you love each other, you can choose to be together at this time. So everyone's thoughts are different, if you really like this person, then you should overcome all kinds of difficulties, but I feel that marriage is definitely not a simple thing, because marriage is a matter of two families, if the people in the family do not agree, at this time you can't force your family to accept this woman, and you can't force each other.
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Of course, I would not marry a woman who has been married and has had children, because I am not married, so I must have requirements for my other half, and such conditions do not meet my psychological expectations.
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I would not marry a woman who has been married and had children, because it is very troublesome to live with such a woman, and there will be many follow-up problems.
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I would not marry a woman who has been married and has had children, because this kind of woman is more realistic and has more emotional requirements, and she is not sure to give her the life she needs.
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No, because this woman is married for the second time and has a child by her side, not her own biological flesh and blood, she will have some minds in her heart.
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Would you marry a woman who has been married and has had children? You know why?
I have a negative attitude towards this issue, and I feel that women who have given birth are like inferior. Turning to the question itself, I think that marriage is based on love itself, not on some other mess. What kind of money, status, identity, including the marriage history and childbirth history asked, I don't think these are very important, as long as you are honest with each other, don't hide or cheat.
A good foundation of love, being suitable for each other in all aspects is the key to whether to get married, and everything else doesn't seem to be so important! I respect every woman, they are great in nature, there is no high or low in human nature, and each of them should have the right to love and be loved.
If I love her, then it is not a problem to be divorced or have children, I will marry her. If there is no love, it doesn't matter if I haven't given birth, or if I have given birth to 3, I won't marry anyone.
In the eyes of onlookers, a woman who has given birth to a child is impure and even dirty. And I've always felt that it's a very great and amazing thing for a woman to have a baby. Ten months of pregnancy, after all the hardships, God created a new life.
In my opinion, this is the true meaning of the word "goddess". Marrying a woman who has given birth to a child, whether you will be happy depends on whether the two people love each other, personality, temper and many other aspects, I don't think it has anything to do with whether you have had children or not.
Anyone who has loved will know that true love has never been afraid of the eyes of the world and the criticism behind it. I love her mature and beautiful, I love her gentle and charming, I am happy, I am happy, and I have nothing to do with irrelevant laymen.
The above are some of my personal suggestions and ideas, if you have better ideas, you can comment at the bottom of the article, if I can satisfy you, I hope you can like the collection and comment. I would like to take this opportunity to wish all female friends health and well-being!
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I'm sure I won't, I know why, because such a woman is not very clean anymore, and she also carries a bottle of oil, and her body can't go through a second childbearing.
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I will; Because such a woman knows how to cherish more, can take good care of the family, understands that life is not easy, and will love each other more.
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I feel like if I really love each other, then I don't mind their marriage experience. Because there is a need for run-in between people.
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I would marry such a woman, if I love her very much, or if she is a very good fit for me.
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If the other party is the woman I really like, I no longer care about the other person's past, and I will still choose to be with her, because it is rare to meet someone I like.
With the increasing openness of the concept of marriage in modern society, the divorce rate has increased a lot compared with before, and even the number of flash marriages is increasing, and after divorce, both men and women can have the right to choose to remarry, because divorce does not mean that their marriage is over, and there is still a chance to continue. Although there are still people who have a bad attitude towards divorced women, I think divorce is not a woman's fault, it can only mean that two people are not suitable to live together, even if there is a relationship foundation, but life is not enough to have feelings, and there are a lot of firewood, rice, oil and salt, it is easy to affect the relationship between two people because of these cumbersome things.
If I really meet a woman I like in my life, even if the other party is really divorced and has had children at the same time, if I really like it, I won't care about it. Because before meeting each other, the other party will have their own life, and who hasn't passed? I think what I really care about is how the future of the two people goes, if you really like each other, no matter what kind of past the other person is, you won't care, even if you may feel why you didn't meet each other earlier, but it will be a little regrettable that you can't participate in each other's past.
But divorced women can also pursue love, and having children is not a big mistake, these are all marks of growth.
If I really meet such a woman, I will definitely grasp and cherish each other, because I know that after we are together, we need to look to the future, life will go on after all, and what about divorce and having children, it is not a big deal.
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I wouldn't have married such a woman if I hadn't been married, I'd definitely prefer to marry a girl who hasn't been married, and if I'm also divorced and have children, I'll probably be able to accept that. Because this needs to be based on our own conditions, if we are very good, we can choose a better girl who has not been married and has no burden.
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Yes. Because some women do not meet good people to divorce, such women are very sympathetic, and they may be very good in their own right.
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Yes. Because when I choose a marriage partner, I choose someone I love, and I don't care if she has been married before.
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Summary. Then let it be, because this relationship is not logical, in fact, it is the righteousness of the two of you that will be lost in the long run!
Meet a girl who has been married.
Hello, do you know a girl who has been married, or do you like a girl who has been married?
I don't like it much, I just want to spend some time with him, he is now working with her husband, I slept with him for 3 days, I often send him messages now, and I don't reply or not, I haven't sent him a message for two or three days, should I send it to him.
Since you don't like him very much, and he has a husband by his side, he can't return to you, do you think you need to continue?
Why don't you find a girl you like, this girl also likes you, you can eat normally, watch movies, and then enter the palace of marriage normally, isn't it better?
He's in the same city with her husband, no, and they work together, and I just want to spend some time with him without any other thoughts.
So why do you want to spend some time with him?
I don't know, I just want to spend time with him for a while and nothing else, I'm almost a month now, I often send him messages, and he will reply, and then after chatting for a while, I can't go back, what does he mean to me.
It's just that I don't care about it, after all, I have my husband by my side! I don't think I have deep feelings for you.
So what should I do, I miss him a little bit now.
If you think about it, is it a little bit unobtainable?
I think he has a little bit of meaning for me, but he hasn't thought about it yet, and I don't know if he's going to come to me in the future.
Then let it be, because this relationship is not logical, in fact, it is the righteousness of the two of you that will be lost in the long run!
I didn't want to stay with him for a while, I don't know if he will accept me.
Since you don't plan to be together for a long time, why care about being together for a short time, it will only make everyone feel sad! Why bother?
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Find someone who is emotionally stable, find someone with a better family situation, don't lose your temper casually, find someone who is good to you, don't be too accommodating to each other, this is my advice.
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I will say to married girls that they should cherish their families, and they must tell their husbands when they encounter things, don't hide them, live a good life, and make themselves happy.
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Self-esteem, self-love, self-improvement. A woman can only take you seriously if she has self-respect; Only if you know how to love yourself, others will love you; Only when you are financially independent can you act without looking at the eyes of others.
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You must manage your marriage well, don't challenge yourself, get along well with your husband, get along well with your in-laws, remember to work, and don't be a housewife.
As long as he has come out of his last marriage, it's fine, to put it bluntly, it's just a matter of a certificate, the current people are different from before, if they are not divorced, then you have to know that this person dares to do this once, dare to do this twice, there are many good people, why waste time on such people, there are one and two, you have to cherish.
First of all, you have to think about whether you can take responsibility for the future, since she has been married, she definitely doesn't want to repeat the mistakes of the past, and hopes that her life will be good in the future, and you also have to consider whether your parents promised no, the pursuit of love is right, but it is irrational not to think clearly, and it may also hurt a woman's heart.
People are free to fall in love, and there is nothing wrong with that. It's just that he has a child, which means that you want to be a stepmother, and it will be harder. If you really love him, you must be able to break any difficulty. You have to see if he is a good man or not.
The material base determines the superstructure、、、 which is not the right thing... There will always be fights ... In the future, she will say every day that you are not as good as her, don't marry...
Yes, the reason is very simple, I will live, marriage is a lifelong thing, of course, I must find a wife with a good heart, otherwise I will live a peaceful life in the future