Falling in love with someone who has been married, is it so lovely, I can t always pass that hurdle

Updated on psychology 2024-05-12
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    As long as he has come out of his last marriage, it's fine, to put it bluntly, it's just a matter of a certificate, the current people are different from before, if they are not divorced, then you have to know that this person dares to do this once, dare to do this twice, there are many good people, why waste time on such people, there are one and two, you have to cherish.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You're talking about people who have been married. Is he or she single now? If so, then the two of you will get married directly. If not, then let him (her) divorce, and then you two will get married again.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    People who have been married are generally more concerned about marriage, and they will have an innate inferiority complex in their hearts, and they are always afraid that you will dislike him. But he must have a new attitude towards life and marriage in his last marriage, and he will know how to take better care of you, so such a person is still more secure. But the bigger problem is that you have to go into his heart, know what he really thinks, and in case of a quarrel, don't use your ex-wife or ex-husband as an excuse, which will aggravate your relationship crisis.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After that, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Or don't love such a person, because in the future you will always be compared with his previous lover. Tire yourself out.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think that as long as you can convince yourself to find the point of love, you should boldly chase your own happiness. Being married only means that someone met him before you and nothing else.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Sometimes love is a beautiful imagination, and love doesn't have to be together. What's more, others are married, and traditional Chinese culture teaches us to stick to moral standards, unlike Western-style countries, where we must pursue ourselves at all costs. The Chinese language is arbitrary.

    Maybe you have a family yourself, and someone else has a family, so why bother to break the balance. It is recommended that you like the mentality of a star! Love, it's not that simple.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you have been married and divorced, you should know more about it, you can fall in love first, and if you are not divorced, then give up decisively.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    First of all, determine whether you love each other psychologically, and if it is true love, then what is the problem with whether you have been married.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Restrain yourself, there is no benefit to being with a married person, if you are divorced, then you have to ask him why he is divorced, a person who doesn't even want a family, what do you think will happen to you in the future, today's good may be tomorrow's sin.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's good to love to see people come, they all say that people who have had a marriage manager are mature and know how to cherish it. Think for yourself. But the voice of the heart is also very important.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    12V speaker with 1 amp or 2 amp is better.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If the other person is already divorced, ask the reason, and then ask the other person if they love you the same. If the other person loves you the same, take it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, none of this is necessary, as long as he (she) is good to you, everything does not matter.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's okay to be divorced, if you're not divorced, then it depends on the people you love and the money.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Restrain yourself, relax your mind, and stay happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's better to learn to give up and be sure to overcome yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Loving someone doesn't care about her past.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Go in the direction of your heart.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Use time to wipe away unrealistic love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Then don't force yourself, it's not good for anyone.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Actually, to be honest, it's not your fault that you fall in love with someone you shouldn't love, it's all trapped by love. In fact, this kind of love can not get people's blessings, it is also a kind of sadness, this is a role that plays a third party, this happiness is based on the pain of others, in fact, you should give up, some loss is doomed, some fate will never have results, love a person does not have to have, but if you have a person, you must cherish it, the lowest bottom line of our life is conscience, don't do things that violate conscience, so that the heart will be very guilty. This kind of role is very worrying and a shame, but after all, he is also a victim, and it is difficult to choose between love and affection.

    The status of the third party is not favored by the world, it is a person who specializes in destroying other people's families, this kind of person is very immoral, will be condemned by the society, and will also be abused and exhaled by the world, the appearance of the third party will make the family crack tragedy staged, this kind of life will not have any happiness and joy, always avoid people's sight, dare not be upright, will always let the trivial matters of the family be troubled, so that only themselves will be hurt in the end, will let themselves live in pain, why bother so persistently? If you go the wrong way, you should turn back, and if you go hard, you will be even more wrong. Actually, isn't this kind of love worth the price?

    Not interesting, don't be stupid anymore? Otherwise, you can only hover on the edge of pain, ta will not bring you much happiness and joy, think about it, will he give up his family easily for you, will he live up to the responsibility and burden of his family, if so, he is a negative person, will you not doubt that you will have the same tragedy and fate in the future? The ending of the third party will end in failure, it will pay a heavy price, there will be no good ending, and it will be regretted for life, why regret your life?

    Not worth it? Do you know how many people have paid the price of suffering to lift up the sky of those who have no suffering? Maybe one day you suddenly realize that life is a dream, but you find that there is very little life left.

    Maybe one day you suddenly realize the mistake you have made, but you find that there is no time to make amends. You should get out of the role of a third party, get out of the shadows, get out of the predicament, get out of the sea of suffering, give up is the best choice, pursue what you should pursue, go the way you want to go, don't be caught in the happiness of others. Satisfied.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    On the premise of not destroying his or her family. Keep it in your heart and love it well. Even if only the memories are your own.

    It's just that I don't regret it when I'm old. Even if it's on your own for the rest of your life. At least you'll still laugh when you think about him.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Love mainly depends on how you treat it, plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, this everyone's way of loving is different, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, will think that it will not last To love someone, you have to trust each other, to love someone, to understand each other, to love someone, to be tolerant of love, to love someone, to be broad-minded, to love someone, to respect each other's thoughts and opinions, to love someone, to support them a lot, not to block them, to love someone, to face them, when they can't accompany you, don't complain, to say to them with a smile, I'm very happy, to love someone, to hide their inner fragility and grievances, don't let them know Love someone, too much, too much love, maybe some people can't do it The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him, when you fall in love, you must make him happy, as long as he is happy and happy, it is the most important thing...

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It doesn't matter if you're married! What does it matter? As long as it's not married!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course, it is to withdraw as soon as possible to prevent yourself from falling into this extramarital affair, I believe you don't want to be the third party of the person you like, and you don't want to break up a happy family! The reason why we are adults can no longer be as headstrong as children, saying things like "I just like him, so I just want to get him".

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