I have low self esteem for falling in love and doing other things because of my height

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Ha ha. You're so funny, my man's 1.58 meters is not inferior, and he still found a good girlfriend, do you know why? Because I'm confident, I'm strong, and I'm good at making money.

    You are 1.73 meters and have low self-esteem, which proves that you have no ability, no future, and little potential.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What is there to be inferior? True love has nothing to do with height! You're short and sweet! Our English teacher was very small, but our whole class respected her! Be the best version of yourself and keep it up!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's okay, it's not necessary.

    Shorter than you, but many people like more people, Tony Leung, Andy Lau, Jackie Chan are not tall.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not short, it's enough, what are you doing with low self-esteem? You're short, so Pan Changjiang can't do that?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    And some shorter than you! Be content with yourself!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Hello dear! Height is not the whole of a person, everyone will have certain troubles, but you can't deny your other advantages because of this.

    Self-confidence means believing in yourself and affirming yourself. Belief and affirmation are both subjective. Therefore, self-confidence is also subjective.

    Good. It's 21 years old, boy, the height may be almost 170, but if it's less than 170, he is very inferior and dare not fall in love.

    Hello Bi Zheng dear! Height is not the whole of a person, everyone will have certain troubles, but you can't deny your other advantages because of this. Self-confidence means that you believe in yourself and affirm yourself.

    Belief and affirmation are both subjective. Therefore, self-repentance and pure faith are also subjective.

    The most important thing to care about when falling in love is not the height of the person, but whether it is suitable or not.

    It is recommended that you maintain a good attitude, fully affirm your strengths and strengths, and at the same time do not avoid your shortcomings, admit that you are a person with shortcomings, including your height, all of them can be counted as your shortcomings, but what can you do if you have shortcomings, everyone has shortcomings, everyone is imperfect.

    You're right to the teacher.

    Yes, be confident.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't have a height problem. But I can understand that height can be one of the reasons why some people have a low spine. If you feel inferior because of your height, here are some things you can try to reconcile with:

    1.Accept your figure. Everyone has their own unique body characteristics, and they are all beautiful. Try to focus on your strengths rather than your weaknesses.

    2.Change your attitude. If you think height is your limitation, then you will feel inferior. You can try to think of height as a unique trait, not a flaw.

    3.Don't compare yourself. Don't compare your height with others. Each one is unique and has its own strengths and weaknesses. Don't feel inferior because of the merits of others.

    4.Find people who support you. Surround yourself with those who support you. They will help you feel confident and positive.

    5.Cultivate your own hobbies. Doing something that makes you happy can free you from the problem of height and regain your self-confidence.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Answer: As an A1, I don't have such a height or extravasive appearance.

    People lead shouting posture and emotions. However, I can.

    Give some advice. Some people because.

    height and feeling inferior, this is a very.

    It is a common situation, but we must understand.

    is that our body is the only one.

    We have to accept it. You should turn it off.

    The Lord's own merits, emotional intelligence, intelligence, and outwardness.

    appearance, including your skills, talents, and interests.

    Invite hobbies. If you find that your height is in.

    Cause trouble in your life, you can test.

    Table exercise to change the state of the body, and at the same time, based on experience, please analyze rationally.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Thanks for having !!

    This is a very sad question, because I am relatively short and very ordinary, and I can tell you for sure that I have low self-esteem for it. I felt this way when I was in elementary school.

    I saw that everyone around me was growing taller, obviously it was about the same before, but now the height is so much different. At that time, many people would get together to discuss topics such as who was good-looking in the class, after all, everyone has a love for beauty, and children also understand it.

    I was an introvert, I didn't like to talk, and I was very envious of people who were the exact opposite of me. They are prettier than me, more cheerful and lively than me. And then when I got a little bigger, it was as if I had stopped growing, and I really didn't grow taller.

    Later, I had no choice but to accept it like this. Probably because this fact cannot be changed, I accept it frankly. When people mentioned it, I began to learn to joke about "concentrate is the essence" and other socks.

    Slowly I found that height doesn't seem to be so important, after all, others won't stare at me all day long, and life has to go on! It's just that I still sometimes sigh why God doesn't give me a few centimeters more, but it's really not the same as before.

    As for looks, I guess it's because I used to pay too much attention to height, but then I didn't pay attention to it. Looks are natural, and I didn't decide it, so it's good to be able to see it. Probably because of the change in age, I think the temperament of the noka is very important.

    When I was in college, I heard a senior sister speak, and I felt very deeply at that time, and the idea in my mind was that someone could live like this. That was the first time, and I felt the temperament, that it really exists, and it makes people ignore your other shortcomings. I hope I can also become a temperamental person in the future!

    There are many other ways to make up for height and appearance! As long as you really want to change, nothing is impossible. And, perhaps, what if it's like me and you want to open it before you know it?

    And the question of whether I dare to fall in love, if I am not careful, I don't dare. Actually, I can't say that, because I used to think that those people were too naïve, as if they couldn't believe it, and they didn't want to talk about it if they thought too much. And I really don't seem to be interested in falling in love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It should be, I am a beauty controller, and there are standards for future partners, and the height of boys should be at least 1.7 meters or more.

    I've had a suitor for many years, and to be honest, when I first met him, I had a certain crush on him. The boy is very good to me, and it can be said that he loves me from the bottom of his heart. And he is down-to-earth and hardworking, without the impetuousness of ordinary young people, his personality is mature and introverted, and the conditions in his home are not bad.

    However, the only hard flaw is that he is only 1.65 meters tall. Standing with me, the two men were almost the same.

    I really hesitated for a long time about whether to be with him or not, and I talked to my parents about it, and they gave me the same opinion, that the height is a little too short. In the end, my family still lost to the problem of face, and if I feel that the subject is too short, it will make me very unconfident, and I am afraid that others will point fingers at me behind my back, saying that the object she is looking for is really short. The best friend next to me, the husband who is looking for is also relatively tall.

    If I feel that my lover is too short, it feels awkward to party with them.

    Girls' thinking is very off-line, and I will also worry that I am not too tall, and if I find a short one, the child's genes will also be a problem in the future. I know that this kind of thinking is very superficial, and I don't mean to look down on boys who are short, but I really can't accept such a lover.

    Later, the boy finally gave up getting married, although there was a faint sense of loss in his heart. But there is no feeling of regret. Everyone's needs for love and marriage are different, and I still pay more attention to the aspect of appearance and height, so even if I meet a boy I particularly like in the future, but the height is not up to standard, I will definitely give up.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I wouldn't give up if it were me, but this is just my own personal opinion, probably because you have encountered such a problem, so you are looking for an answer.

    So for such a problem, I think if you really like someone, don't care about others, if it's just to give yourself a long face, it's hard not to have this need, if you are serious about a relationship, don't give up a relationship because of height.

    When I was with my former boyfriend, I knew that my height was not his ideal type, but it didn't prevent us from being together, when you meet the right person, all the positioning and personality are not there, because you like him and that person. He is good to you, and his heart is what really makes you make a decision.

    I have some of my own ideas, and I can't make a decision for you, but the issue of feelings must be carefully considered, because it is not only a person's problem.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Of course not. Love in love or not, whether it is suitable or not is the most important thing, about height, as long as it is not too excessive, this factor will not be considered.

    Of course, we may take these factors into account when choosing the other half for the sake of beauty or offspring, because each of us is at least a visual animal, and we all like to have a well-proportioned body, which can make people look very fulfilling. But if it is placed in love, this is a different matter, these are not the main factors in love, once love happens, don't give up easily. I think that compared to character, love, height is really not a very important factor.

    It is only an outward feeling, not a determination of the inner feeling.

    A boyfriend of mine has a height problem, so he has always had low self-esteem. He is a boy, only 1.58 meters. And although my friend is not very tall, he is also 1.63 meters, but the two of them are really not very compatible when they stand together.

    As soon as you go out, you are easy to be talked about by others. She once brought her boyfriend home, but when she saw her boyfriend's height, her face, which had opened the door with a smile, suddenly became indifferent. For this reason, my friend's parents have always disagreed.

    But my friend didn't mind and kept insisting. Since then, they have been living very well and happily, and they have hardly ever quarreled.

    If the height difference is really unacceptable, then indeed, this is also one of the conditions for marriage. We also need to choose, but if compared to love, this is not a gap that cannot be crossed. You just don't pay all your attention to the appearance, but on the connotation, the character, what really attracts a person to others must be their internal factors.

    What really brought you to the end is definitely his connotation.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Love is beautiful, there are no borders regardless of region, height is not a problem, and distance cannot be blocked. It is because of love that everything becomes so natural and logical. No one will give up on love because of a little flaw, after all, true love is hard to find, and flaws can be accepted.

    So can height still be used as a reason to give up love?

    I don't have much requirements for height and appearance, I just see if it's my own destined person, as long as I see the right eye, height will not be an excuse for me to leave him. Isn't there a saying that in the eyes of a lover, then in the eyes of a lover, his short height is also particularly majestic. Love never speaks, and if you are too short, you are not qualified to fall in love and have your own love.

    Wang Zulan and Li Yanan are such a loving couple, Wang Zulan is not tall, but Li Yanan is a model, and he is tall when he thinks about it, but his height does not affect the sweetness of their love, Wang Zulan did not give up the pursuit because Li Yanan was too tall, and Li Yanan did not dislike Wang Zulan for being too low and gave up love. This shows that height has always been a problem in the face of love.

    My current boyfriend is very short, although sometimes it is indeed not so conspicuous, and it will be a little uncomfortable to look at yourself, but when he makes you happy and gives you warmth, the sweetness of love dares to make you feel that love should be like this, who would say that he is too short to have love. Therefore, the height does not affect the relationship between the two in the slightest.

    Therefore, I will not give up love because of my boyfriend's height, because I think love is beautiful and sacred, and I can't take height as the most criterion for judging, only two people have the same heart, love each other, only each other, then all problems can be solved.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course not.

    Love is sacred and indispensable for everyone, since it is the girl you like, as a man, you naturally have to spare no effort to pursue, and height, appearance, wealth and other factors are just some thorns on the road of life, you must not give up your dream love affair with these trivial differences, I believe that there are countless people who hold this point of view, because many of our lovers in real life have problems in this regard, but the relationship is still stable is enough to explain.

    Of course, there are special circumstances in everything, if the height difference between the two is huge, it is natural to consider it more carefully, in my opinion, as long as the height gap is within 10cm, men should muster up the courage to continue to pursue, even if there is a certain gap between height and women, it can be made up for by other favorable conditions, you know, although girls will also be more concerned about height, but in many factors it is just a reference factor, and will not play a decisive role.

    In general, there are countless external factors that affect the development of romance, but as long as it is not a matter of touching the principle, it should not be a reason to give up the relationship, even if there will be many obstacles on the road to the pursuit of love, you should also rely on your own sincerity and efforts to impress the girl, so that she can feel her sincerity in the depths of her heart, which is also the basic premise of improving the success rate of the pursuit.

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