I wonder how I can forget a loved one who I have worked so hard for?

In fact, if you really can't let go of him (her), then don't let it go, after all, you have worked hard to love, and this relationship will not change all of a sudden, unless you immediately like someone else, but is it possible?

So, why do you have to forget everything and let go of everything. It only makes you more miserable, doesn't it, you can keep him or her quietly, and you can also go back to the sweetness you once had, and be happy, isn't it? It's going to be hard at first.

But, gradually, you'll find that if he or she doesn't care about you, then even if you go to the ends of the earth, even if you live a decadent life all day, he still won't remember you (the sun still rises, the days still have to live, don't we have a wonderful life without him).

ps I think it's still very good to have friends around, after all, friendship is more valuable than love.

That's my experience and I hope you can take a look at it, thank you.

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Actually, a lot of things.

It's just mediocrity.

If you don't love it, you choose to let it go so that others have a chance to love.

Someone has said that there are things that we can fool everybody.

But you can't deceive yourself, such as love.

You say to yourself over and over again that it's nothing between us.

However, in the deeper part of the soul, this relationship is emphasized.

Forcing yourself to forget Maybe that's another way of loving.

In fact, did you not forget to believe it at all?

If you don't believe me, you will whisper his name.

Then my heart hurts.

Tears fell In fact, if you don't forget him, what's the problem, no matter each other, they have no intention of chasing this fate to the water, if it is him, it is nothing more than the edge of memory, and there is one more melancholy, however, but unwilling, afraid to think about it....Ripples again...!

[Forget].

After falling out of love, we always like to ask:

How can I forget him? I wanted to forget him, but I just couldn't. ”

If you can't forget him, don't forget him.

Why so painfully forget someone? Time will naturally make you forget him.

Now, I ask you not to think about a big stupid pink elephant.

Excuse me, what do you have in mind?

You immediately think of a big pink stupid elephant.

The harder you try to forget, the more you can't forget.

It is a matter of course to still love him and not forget him, and there is no need to feel ashamed.

Some people can't forget, but they deceive themselves and say:

I've forgotten about him. ”

However, as long as others mention him, she can't control herself.

One day, you'll forget about him.

True forgetting doesn't take effort.

One day, you came out of the bathroom and took a shower, twisted the record player to listen to your favorite **, you suddenly remembered that you once loved someone, ah, it turned out that you loved this person, it seemed to be a very distant thing, and you didn't feel it at all. That's forgetting.

One day, when someone mentions so-and-so, you suddenly remember that you once loved this person, but now you don't remember. That's forgetting.

If time can't make you forget those you shouldn't remember, what's the point of the years we've lost?

Any idea why you can't forget? Some things are just very strange, the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, this is the devil in your heart! Don't forget or remember! Keep your mind on track!

Because you're not a computer, she's not a folder in your memory, and if you delete it, you're human, and so are you, and the leaves are fluttering, and you can say that the wind hasn't come??? Don't blindly pursue quick forgetting, because you have loved each other, there is no shortcut to forgetting, if you can't adjust your mentality, then you will be miserable! No one can help you!

Re-examine your life, find your purpose in life, and live it well! That's it.

There are two things in the world that must be thrown away: one is cosmetics that have expired.

The second is a person who has changed his mind.

Actually, I think.

Love is here.

It's time to face reality.

This is the same as that of people who have changed their minds, since it is all in the past.

So why remember.

That's why you have to throw the past away.

Only the past is lost.

Don't keep yourself trapped in the past for a new future.

You have to tell yourself.

I can forget.

I can't think about it.

I can face the new tomorrow and remember: people do not live for the past.

but for the future.

The past is the past.

It will never come back.

If you keep yourself stuck in the past, you won't be able to pull it out.

Then you will lose a lot of the future.

You shouldn't let yourself be.

So hard. Opposite.

You should be happy for yourself.

Because a person's life is not long.

Able to live in a finite life.

Meet someone you think is worth loving.

There aren't many such opportunities, as you yourself say.

It was a love that was hard to forget.

Since it is hard to forget.

That's what you think is worth it.

Otherwise, how could Minqing be hard to remember.

Your question today.

It's a bit much.

It doesn't matter if you're forgetting every second of the month.

Still have to remember.

But that's all up to you.

And not to ask us here.

We can give it to you.

Just advice. And listen to your own choices.

That's the most important thing.

I believe what you say about hard work.

It will be the happiest thing you will ever do.

Whenever you think about it in the future.

That will be the most beautiful memory for you.