There is one thing that is very annoying, ask friends 10

He is machismo, you are more self-oriented, and you are better than him and he will get along with you, but from your description, it can be seen that he has a strong self-esteem, and one party must make a concession to see which one loves more deeply. You are the first love, so the love should be deeper, if you are willing to sacrifice your self for him, dress up according to his taste, and become a bird, maybe your relationship will be more harmonious.

Hello landlord, I think, you will be annoyed just because you have too few friends around you, there is no real heart-to-heart relationship, so you can't divert your attention, because you have no place to transfer anymore. It is recommended that you make more friends seriously, knowing that friends are the greatest treasure in our lives.

It is undeniable that everyone has a special feeling about their first love, and it is not so easy to let go willingly. I don't think you're a good fit. You can also ask yourself, do you really love him that much|?

If he really loves, then does he love you as much as you imagined? This world is still realistic, not to say that you can find a better one, in your heart you may think that he is the best. Just to say, he would be fine without you, and you wouldn't have to change the course of your life.

Also, if you don't find friends so quickly, you can cultivate a wide range of interests. It will be comfortable and happy to do what you love.

Look at them as people. Friend, I advise you to go with him. by thy appearance, by thy power. It's not hard to find a better one.

Also, don't be stupid and unwilling to be unwilling because it's your first love, so you have to challenge him. Sometimes people can't be too willful about certain things. I hope you'll think twice.

Forget it, so you only break your heart once

If you get married, you may have the same results as his ex-wife (after a long time, you will find out that he is irritable and often fights with his ex-wife), so how much will you be sad? Can you afford to hurt?

Forget it, he's not for you.

I think it's better to forget it!

As you described, break up quickly.

Are you looking for your abusive type, is there something wrong?

Summary. When I was in college. For a while, I didn't study well.

Because my roommate always took me to the Internet café to play games. They all go. I have to go.

No way, went a few times. Later got hooked on the game. I'll just play and play.

After about half a month, the results plummeted. Because I play games at night, how do I go to class during the day? No energy, no time.

Then I didn't want to go. But they still call me. There are 6 people living in one dormitory.

Count me in. I'm not going, it's not social. to delay my studies.

It's not good. I'm very troubled about this. Later, I secretly told them to the teacher at an Internet café.

Asked a classmate to help report it. Including me, I also went that day. Later he was punished once.

From that time. We rarely go to internet cafes anymore, and they don't call me anymore.

What bothers you? How did you deal with this situation before, share it.

Hello. Are you asking me?

Right. Do you want me to use it at work, or in love, or in family? What are some examples?

Study or work.

Then let me talk about the trouble of going to school because of my studies.

Good. When I was in college, I was in a state of turmoil. For a while, I didn't study well.

Because my roommate always took me to the Internet café to play games. They all go. I have to swim and go.

No way, went a few times. Later got hooked on the game. I'll just play and play.

After about half a month, the results plummeted. Because I play games at night, how do I go to class during the day? No energy, no time.

Then I didn't want to go. But they still call me. There are 6 people living in one dormitory.

Count me in. I'm not going, it's not social. to delay my studies.

It's not good. I'm very troubled about this. Later, I secretly told them to the teacher at an Internet café.

Asked a classmate to help report it. Including the branch mill stall me, I also went that day. Later he was punished once.

From that time. We rarely go to internet cafes anymore, and they don't call me anymore.

In fact, solving the problem is solving the source of the problem.

If it can't be solved, avoid, avoid, dodge. It's all right.

There is a time every month when I feel like I'm in a bad mood and not doing anything well. Even if it is some inconspicuous little things, I will scold myself. It feels similar to a girl's "big aunt", and the mood and mood will change during this time.

My general way of dealing with it is to listen to **, which can calm my whole being. Try not to talk to friends as much as possible to avoid causing arguments.

1. Listening to **** is the best way for me to relax. No matter what the song is, as soon as I hear it, my body starts to relax naturally. Whenever this happens, I listen quietly.

My job is special, and I won't be punished for listening to ** while working. And the boss is also more lenient and allows employees to do this, as long as it does not interfere with work. When I get home, I listen to music with headphones on all the time to keep myself in good shape.

Although I occasionally encounter some things, I rarely have a temper when I listen to **. There are many similar ways to relax, such as shopping and watching movies, mainly depending on the individual's personality. Find your own way of relaxing and you can relieve irritability.

2. Try to have less contact with others, and listen to others say that boys also have "aunts", and there is a period of time every month, and the mood will become irritable. At this time, I recommend trying not to contact other people, even your own friends. For example, if the other party asks you to go shopping or eat, it is best to refuse them all.

Personally, this situation is more serious, and seeing something I don't like when I'm out and about may also cause myself to become irritable. In order to avoid unnecessary embarrassment, simply stay at home. It's the same when I'm at work, try not to talk to my colleagues.

3. There are many ways to learn to regulate emotions and regulate emotions, it is recommended to maintain good sleep quality and find a suitable way to relieve stress. Sleep*** makes it easier to concentrate and keep yourself awake. The usual stress is relieved in time, and when you encounter emotional irritability, there will be no unnecessary emotional outbursts.

Plan your mood and keep yourself in a good shape.

I don't think I'm irritable because of some small things, I am often irritable because of small things, maybe because I am a person who is more impatient, so when there is such a situation, I usually go out and relax, find a place to sit, sort out my thoughts, think about the cause of this irritability, and then go back to solve these things.

Yes, everyone will. As long as you don't think about those troubles, forgetting is the best way to solve irritability.

It was like this a while ago, anything could touch my emotions, make me very irritable, my temper was very big, and in the end I changed my mood by traveling to calm down.

This is there, at the end of winter and the beginning of spring there may be this phenomenon, this needs to be exposed to the sun to alleviate this winter depression, just go outside more.

When I'm irritable because of some trivial things, I usually go out for a run to release the mental pressure.

In the world of life, everyone has feelings, it is inevitable to encounter some things that make you angry and irritable, in this case, don't be a slave to emotions, control yourself, you can ask a friend to go shopping, shopping, scatter yourself, you can also think of some happy things, don't drill the horns, happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day.

Set your real goals and keep yourself busy. What little things you will pay attention to can only say that you are too idle. Being really busy will make you forget about the little things. Or you can watch a movie, go shopping, and so on.

Yes, this is because there must be something annoying to me during this time, so solving this problem is the most important thing, if you still can't solve it for the time being, you can travel or see a psychiatrist.

Yes. I often listen to ** when I'm irritable, read extracurricular books, or find a friend to go out for a walk with, maybe I'll be in a better mood.

Yes, I was easily irritable in the days before and after my aunt's arrival, and the way I dealt with it was to reward myself with a piece of cake, and I felt much better after eating the cake.

At such times, I usually stop my work or study and do something I enjoy, such as watching movies and playing games, and soon my mood will be happy.

Yes. At that time, because the work environment was very depressing, I was very irritable. After work, I will listen to some pleasant songs to relieve my mood.

Yes, find something you like to do, such as eating delicious food, traveling and so on, to distract yourself.