One thing that Chinese parents are distressed about.

It's a bit of a bad idea, but it's always better than being cheated by others.

Everybody has this stage, children are very curious, my brother will be online at the age of 12, tell him, it's okay to go online, but don't believe everything you do, talk to him.

Very simple. It's OK not to let him go online. Ha ha.

Everyone has experienced it from that time, in addition to the correct guidance and education, the rest depends on her creation and understanding, and a tough attitude will only backfire.

It's easy not to be deceived and keep a vigilant mind when surfing the Internet

You apply for a QQ number. Then add him. Then talk to him every day. Let him transfer his interest to you. The Internet is deceptive. But you won't hurt him. So he'll be fine! Then it's OK to spend a period of curiosity!

Academic performance, talent competition, and the popular ...... of talking about babies and showing babies in the circle of friendsParents can't wait to roll up their sleeves and do everything for the baby. Why are we so anxious? One reason is because we believe in a lot of popular fallacies and make ourselves too nervous and tired.

Try to see if you can gently let go of your anxious heart and experience the kind of parental love that only appreciates with your eyes, does not transform with your hands, only provides encouragement and support, and does not impose oppression and burden.

He has an interesting point of view: our children are all Schrödinger's dogs. What's going on? Read on to find out. Rational, but also down-to-earth analysis, read patiently, it will be enlightening!

Although parents can't help but imagine their children's future, in the infinite possibilities, you can't decide what kind of life your child will have. No matter how anxious you are, it is impossible to eliminate the uncertainty of life growth.

Many parents are in a state of excessive anxiety. The child just didn't do well in a math exam, and his scalp was numb: "It's over, it seems that he has no talent for math, what can he do in the future for junior high school, high school entrance examination, and college entrance examination?"

Mathematics is a compulsory subject in the college entrance examination, and it seems that he will not be able to go to a good university. If you can't go to a good university, won't your life be over? ”

There are also some parents who seem to be unable to live if they can't be anxious about something. First, I was anxious that the child would speak late, and the child would be able to speak, and then I was anxious that the child was rude and hit people indiscriminately; The child stopped hitting others, and began to worry about whether the child could learn to spell; The child can spell and is anxious that the child will not ---speak in class

Whether anxiety is good or harmful, it's all about the degree – the level of anxiety needs to match the danger of the thing. The tiger will eat you, and it will be very dangerous and collapse quickly; Foxes will eat your chickens and cause heavy damage to your property; Wild cats will steal your fish, which is of course a loss of property, but if you work harder, you can make up for it by catching more fish.

In the face of these three dangers, your anxiety level should match the threat they pose to you: tigers have the most anxiety, foxes have the least, and wild cats have the least.

Obviously, the girl was afraid that her parents would be angry or overly worried that she had failed her homework, so she made up the worse scenes in front of her, scaring her parents first, and waiting until her parents were worried to the extreme before telling her the real problems she was experiencing.

When you encounter a tiger-level problem, you should stay awake all night, be anxious, and do everything you can to solve it. When you encounter a fox-level problem, you should attach great importance to it, study it carefully, and solve it step by step. You'll have to deal with those wildcat-level problems, of course, but there's no need to stay up all night and fight at all.

If you are anxious about something that has little impact and can be reversed or greatly mitigated, it seems that life and death are at stake. These excessive anxieties are self-inflicted.

This is true, because parents in the process of anxiety actually have no effect on their children at all, but will have an impact on students' psychology.

Because the anxiety of Chinese-style parents is worried about something that will not happen, and they will also worry about some things that cannot be changed, so there is no point in taking the shirt, which is true.

Because the anxiety of Chinese parents is only adding pressure to their children, it is meaningless to say that such anxiety is meaningless. Such a statement is indeed true.

To communicate with the teacher, of course, you must say it very tactfully, or call the teacher on time, which can strengthen the teacher's attention to the child.

In order to achieve correct cooperation, parents should also keep close contact with teachers, discuss children's education issues with teachers, humbly listen to teachers' opinions and requirements on family cooperation education issues, and cooperate in the implementation of family cooperation. Usually, children should also get in touch with teachers in time to exchange opinions when problems occur at home, so that the school and family can cooperate with the education. In addition, parents should have confidence and patience in cooperating with education.

Parents should also constantly improve their self-cultivation and learn and master some theories and methods of educating their children.

Children are the future of the motherland and the hope of parents. The ancients said that "if you don't teach, your father will be wrong", and "if you don't teach strictly, your teacher will be lazy". Schools and families both bear a heavy responsibility for cultivating their children to become talented people, and only when parents attach importance to and do a good job in cooperating with schools in educating their children can they train their children to become modern talents who are useful to the motherland.

I feel like I can go to the local Ministry of Education to report it. What school is your child from?