The choice between two feelings? How to choose between two relationships?

Updated on workplace 2024-05-13
23 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not a question of who is excellent.

    Ask your heart which one you prefer.

    If you don't have an answer.

    Materially minded, he is a rich gentleman.

    From the questions you added, it seems that your heart is currently biased towards the local one.

    Obviously, from a rational point of view, it doesn't matter if there is an out-of-town one.

    I have to break up with the local one.

    He doesn't trust you, and there's no reason to get along.

    And this one in the field, too, your consideration is not unreasonable.

    But being with him can also be considered an opportunity.

    Love is also a gamble.

    Strive to improve your own quality and increase self-confidence.

    If you take a step back in the future and say that the foreign ones don't want you.

    You don't have to be afraid.

    The above is your reference.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Let's go find the one far away ...

    Men are obedient, and if you are careful, you won't do much. . .

    You said that you would quarrel, which means that you are not suitable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you want to stand it, be careful and choose him, I can't stand it the most.

    A good man must be generous, otherwise it is easy for the conflict to intensify, and he may not be obedient to you in the future.

    If you think that space is a big problem between you, you should give up, if you have to choose one, choose the far one, I think what everyone should think, matter is the foundation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Let's try to live with each other first, see if each other is suitable for each other and then make a decision...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let's go find the one far away ...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings, let me say just choose the far, far away, you can go over, after all, we will be together in the future!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This question should be asked to yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you can choose which of them is the best for you and what you like the most, but it is best for you to calm your heart for a while, and then you go to yourself to weigh it well, see who is more suitable for you, ask your heart, see who you care about more, and then choose, after all, there are still many ways to go in the future.

    Nowadays, people are beginning to seek a stable life, looking for the small happiness of life in trivial things, and do not want to miss the morning sunshine and the loneliness of sunset. Therefore, I think the first thing we should consider is our own happiness, after all, people are selfish. Generally speaking, they will choose what they like, not what they like.

    So you have to be clear about which one you like the most.

    Secondly, you have to observe which of the two sides has a better character and is worthy of trust. In the end, you have to see which one is better and more sincere to you, which will take time to observe, but you can only choose one. For the one who is going to be given up by you, you still have to make it clear to the other party, remember not to say things that hurt the other party too much, and say some thanks and the like as much as possible, so that the other party can also understand your distress.

    If the other party is still so persistent, you must also maintain restraint, you can't speak too impulsively, you can encourage the other party to do more to think about your future, don't waste too much emotionally, bless the other party to find someone better than you, and gradually the other party will forget you. So what a relationship can reflect is your personality traits, you need love, but you don't necessarily believe in love. You need someone who can take responsibility, but you don't necessarily have the courage to take responsibility for the relationship.

    So how you make a choice is not so important, whether you really want a relationship, dare to touch your true self in a relationship is important, otherwise you are just staging compulsive repetition in such pain. Faced with emotional choices, everyone will feel lost and entangled. In addition to being emotionally selective, we often have other options for choosing the person we associate with.

    So observe with your heart, discover with your heart, and find the one that suits you best.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In the vast sea of people, it is indeed difficult to find the right person. When faced with two relationships, you have to learn to make trade-offs. Cinnabar mole and white moonlight, there is always one that you want to cherish deep down. Don't pay attention to the gossip and follow your heart so that you don't regret it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Cherish this relationship now. You will always meet a better opposite sex on the road of life, how to go well in the current relationship is what you have to pay attention to, if you have been focusing on the previous relationship, it is inevitable that you will be too disrespectful to the current and yourself.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Calm down and figure out what you want. Don't listen to what others say, after all, only you know best about this emotional matter, and if you promise one, you must reject the other, don't be ambiguous.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Ask yourself which relationship you think is more important, and which relationship you can't let go of. When it is difficult to choose, follow your heart and choose the relationship that you can't let go of the most.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    First ask yourself what kind of relationship you want most, you can't step on two boats, so you will only end up picking up sesame seeds and losing watermelons, and you can't get a relationship.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Toss a coin, at the moment when the coin is tossed, there will definitely be an answer in your heart that you want to get more, that is, what you want to choose the most in your heart, so the final result is no longer important, the answer is in your heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Choose the relationship of the person you like! Because only if you love each other, you will cherish this relationship, so that your life will feel beautiful and hopeful!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You have to ask yourself which relationship is more important to you, choose one of them to concentrate on development, be responsible for the other half, don't get entangled, hurt yourself and hurt others.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The relationship that is more correct should be chosen. No matter who you fall in love with, it should not be based on hurting others. If you make a mistake, you have to change it and make up for it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Analyze your own mind. People have such a short life, and following their hearts will leave fewer regrets. Your significant other is going to accompany you in the future, so think carefully.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Follow your heart, think clearly about what you want, and choose which one to give up makes you feel more painful and reluctant.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    This is a boy who is not sincere and dedicated to love:

    When he's with you, he's thinking about his ex-girlfriend!

    He lives with you again when he swears to his ex-girlfriend!

    He wants to completely abandon you, and even uses the zodiac and eight characters to prevaricate you with reasons that have no scientific basis! It's nonsense!

    His so-called emphasis on family affection is actually just an illusion to deceive you!

    It is recommended that you leave him as soon as possible! The sooner the better! Because:

    You don't have much youth to let him go!

    There aren't many feelings that can make him hurt endlessly!

    Marriage without true love is always a tragedy!

    Next, find a like-minded person who loves you wholeheartedly, this he will keep you away from pain, and this he will make you happy for a lifetime!

    Don't worry about whether it's fair to your future husband! If he really likes you, he will be able to forgive you, tolerate you, and then take care of you! (The husband in the future is the qualified husband who spends life with you.)

    The current boy can only be a clown jumping off the beam! He doesn't deserve your love at all! Not worthy of being called a husband!

    I wish you the best of luck finding your true love soon!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It's over early! In fact, you don't have to think about it, you seem to have lost a lot. Feelings are like this, how can you have a long experience if you don't go through it, you just spend a lot of time recognizing a person and understanding a kind of person.

    This is a way to make you make a more correct choice in your relationship in the future. Don't think of yourself as miserable. How can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain.

    Now that you know that you don't have much weight in his heart, you can also let him disappear into your life like a leaf blowing away. Every girl is a princess, let's talk about girls in the world of feelings, girls must be passive and humble?! You also have a choice!

    Live the life you want to live, be the kind of person you want to be, and choose the man you love. That's it, love yourself a little more, and you'll be fine soon! Trust me

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can still climb out, don't fall into it again (if you fight for it, you will soon fall into reality).

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You say B so well, but don't forget that B came back to you in a fit of anger because another man offended him. If the man had not had these things, would he have been able to follow thee?

    Second, you said that B was with you for four years, and finally the conflict deepened and broke up, and in order not to let you get entangled, you found an ex-boyfriend as a line of defense. This kind of renunciation stems from the irresolvable contradiction between you. Now can you be sure that all the conflicts that caused your breakup have been resolved?

    Can you guarantee that B won't repeat the same mistakes in the future?

    Third, A has a deep affection for you and beats two children for you. Do you not feel her contribution to you at all? Are you too sluggish or too ruthless?

    Is it too immature for you to revolve everything in your life around your own feelings, and that feeling is being manipulated by another woman who doesn't value you very much?

    Now, in order to be a spare tire for a woman who flies alone, is it too unscrupulous for you to give up your original mastership?

    Life is rigorous, and you must not play games.

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