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Anonymous users2024-02-09I would say that cohabitation is not a lifestyle that everyone likes. For me, there are many reasons why I am reluctant to live together. I think marriage and cohabitation are two different concepts.
Marriage is a legal recognition and commitment, while cohabitation is just a way of life. Marriage requires more commitment and effort from both parties to maintain and develop the relationship, while cohabitation is relatively simple. While it can also allow the two of us to get to know each other better and spend quality time together, I don't think it will bring us real growth and change.
There are still many problems and problems with cohabitation. During cohabitation, the two need to share household chores and financial problems, and they need to take care of various chores in daily life. These things can cause stress and conflict between the two and even lead to a breakdown of the relationship.
If two people don't manage their relationship issues well during their cohabitation, then they may end up in a never-ending argument that could eventually lead to a breakup.
In my values, marriage is a precious way of life. I think marriage is a testament to the shared responsibilities and obligations of two people, and it is one of the best moments in life. In marriage, two people can grow and develop together, facing life's challenges and difficulties together, and this experience will make them stronger and more confident.
Cohabitation, on the other hand, is difficult to achieve these goals because it is only a temporary way of life with no legal recognition and commitment.
While cohabitation is a universal way of life, it's not for everyone. For me, I prefer to choose marriage as a proof of love and commitment. I believe that in marriage we can find true happiness and fulfillment.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08First of all, I think living together out of wedlock is a very serious matter.
Couples should think carefully before deciding to live together, and it is recommended not to live together in the early stages of a relationship before two people know each other's temperament.
First, if you cohabit with the man too early, it is very likely that the future in-laws will despise you. Pickpockets.
The second type, after living together, what you face is not the romance of love, but a bunch of firewood, rice, oil and salt, you will inevitably have to wash clothes, cook and clean the house when you live with the boy, and you let him experience married life for free in advance, so what about another two years?
The third case is even worse, which is an unplanned pregnancy after cohabitation.
In the event of such a result, it will be more difficult to get out of the way.
If the man is a responsible person, maybe it's better, if the man is irresponsible, then the woman will be completely passive, and then talk about marriage at this time, the meaning is completely different.
It is difficult for parents in traditional families to accept couples living together too early.
If you tell Chunhong when the relationship is still unstable, the change in the relationship will only add trouble to the parents in the future.
In the minds of parents, cohabitation may mean that two people will marry in the future.
In the lives of contemporary young people, cohabitation may not be so burdensome.
This gap in awareness not only affects the communication between parents and children, but also affects the emotional direction between couples.
Cohabitation is really something that needs to be carefully considered, and when the relationship is hot, it is easy for two people to make some impulsive decisions.
In general, it is recommended to consider cohabitation during the period of emotional stability, at this time, when two people get to know each other to a certain extent, it will be easier to solve the troubles caused by different living habits.
When you decide to live together after careful consideration, be sure to tell your parents first.
You can choose to have a tentative chat with your parents, talk about examples of your friends who live together, and listen to your parents' views on cohabiting couples.
If your parents agree to live together as a couple, congratulations, you can save a lot of money, but if your parents don't agree to it, don't quarrel with your parents.
After all, they are the people who love you the most in this world, and you can slowly infiltrate your boyfriend's thoughtfulness and kindness into your daily life, slowly let your parents accept him, and tell your parents about it when the time is right.
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